【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 好有了足夠的錢才能去改善六個(gè)房間中的一個(gè)。也許，不論如何不久我們就需要搬走。讓這個(gè)屋子變得干凈，也是同樣的坑爹。如果你有一所住滿著孩子的房子，那么這所房子肯定是越來越臟，你不可能打掃干凈。父親經(jīng)常就這件事向母親咆哮，但是她無能為力。我想父親是明白的，但是他想要有一個(gè)讓他脾氣發(fā)泄的途徑，至少咆哮沒有毆打那么壞，而這個(gè)，他們互相從來沒有發(fā)生過。never did to each you have a kitchen which has no counter space and no hot water and you will have dirty dishes stacked sounds like an excuse, but try 39。ll go mad from the sheer sense of 39。s the same thing in a house with no can39。t keep clothes clean and rooms in order if they have to be stacked up with in a bad house is generally worse on one thing, they traditionally help their mother with the boys could get outside and work in the field or cut wood or even play ball and forget about living sky was still the girls got pressure, and as they got older it became they accept dates knowing they had to “receive” the young man in a dirty hallway with broken windows, peeling wallpapers and a cracked ceiling? You have to live ti to understand it, but it creates a shame which 但是，當(dāng)你的廚房?jī)?nèi)沒有一個(gè)放臺(tái)面的地方和沒有開水，那么臟盤子不得不堆起來。這聽起來像是一個(gè)借口，（要是不信）你來試試。這些操蛋的徒勞會(huì)讓你變瘋掉。家里沒有壁櫥也是這樣。你不可能讓你的衣服保持干凈，房間也不可能有序，如果他們上面堆滿了東西大體來說，破敗的房屋對(duì)女孩會(huì)產(chǎn)生更壞的影響。就拿一件事來說，她們會(huì)幫母親做家務(wù)。我們男孩可以在外面，在田野里干活或者開木頭，甚至踢球，這些可以忘記家里的慘狀。那時(shí)，天空仍舊是藍(lán)色的。但是女孩會(huì)有壓力，當(dāng)她們老去就變得更壞了。她們的約會(huì)對(duì)象是否會(huì)知道這個(gè)女生不得不在一間又臟又破的房子里“接待”他？而這間房子的窗戶破破爛爛、墻紙殘缺不全，連天花板也滿是裂痕。你必須身處其境才能明白這種感受，貧窮所帶來的羞恥感會(huì)把一個(gè)年輕人變得內(nèi)向。drives the soul of a young person 39。m thankful none of us ever blamed our parents for this, because it would have crippled our it worked out, only the relationship between our parents was damaged, And I think the harshness which they expressed to each other was just on outlet to get rid of their anger at the trap their lives were ruined their marriage because they had no one to yell at but each knew other families where the kids got the abuse, but we were too much loved for I was about 16 and Mama and daddy had had a particularly violent argument about the washing machine, which has broken was on the back porchthat39。s where the only water faucey wastrying to fix it and Mama had a washtub out there washing school clothes for the next day and they were screaming at each ，因?yàn)檫@會(huì)使我們的關(guān)系變?cè)?。但事?shí)上，只有我們父母的關(guān)系徹底被毀了。我想,他們對(duì)彼此的惡言相向只不過是為了發(fā)泄對(duì)于現(xiàn)實(shí)生活的憤怒而已，但這卻毀了他們的婚姻，因?yàn)樗麄兂吮舜舜蠛鸫蠼校呀?jīng)再也無法好好相處了。我知道，在有些類似家庭里，孩子會(huì)被父母虐待，但是我們卻得到了太多的愛。我大概16歲的時(shí)候，我的爸媽因?yàn)閴牧说南赐霗C(jī)而大吵了一架。當(dāng)時(shí)爸爸在后門廊，那兒有全家唯一的水龍頭，他試著修理洗碗機(jī)，而媽媽則端來一大盆要洗的校服，這些校服明天就要穿，就是在這里他們大聲地地向?qū)Ψ脚叵饋?。Later that night everyone was in bed and I heard Daddy get up from the couch where he was looked out form my bed across the hall into their was standing right over Mama and she was already pulled the blanket up andtuched it around her shoulders and just stood there and tears were dropping off his cheeks and I thought I could faintly hear them splashing against the linoleum they39。re had courses in college where housing was discussed, but the sociologiists never put enough emphasis on the impact living in substandard housing has on a person39。s children39。 children have a hard time understanding want the same things children from more affluent families want the same things they see advertised on television, and they don39。t understand why they can39。t have 那天晚上，當(dāng)每一個(gè)人都上床睡覺了，我聽到爸從他讀報(bào)的沙發(fā)上站起來的聲音。我從床上探出頭去看隔著客廳的爸媽的房間，看到爸站在睡著了的媽的身旁。他將毯子扯到媽媽的肩膀處，小心為她蓋好。而后他就那么呆呆地站著，眼淚一滴滴掉在媽的臉頰上。甚至，我認(rèn)為我聽到了淚水濺在油氈地毯上的啪嗒聲?？墒?，現(xiàn)在他們離婚了。我在大學(xué)上過討論住房問題的課程，但是社會(huì)學(xué)家從未好好強(qiáng)調(diào)過住在不合標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的房子里會(huì)對(duì)一個(gè)人的心靈產(chǎn)生什么樣的影響，尤其是對(duì)孩子。小孩子很難理解什么是貧窮。富裕家庭里的孩子所擁有的東西，他們也想要有。他們想要電視廣告里的那些東西，但是他們不明白為什么自己不能擁有這些東西。 children can be incredibly was in elementary school in Georgiaand this is interesting because it is the only thing I remember about that particular schoolwhen I was about eight or Christmas vacation had ended, my teacher made each student describle all his or her Christmas became more and more unfortable as the privilege passed around the room toward children were reciting the names of bicycles and the grandeur of their games and had lists which seemed to go on and on for took me only a few sounds to tell the class that I had gotten for Christmas a helt and a pair of then I was laughed atbecause I criedby a roomful of children and a necer forgave them, and that night I made my mother cry 而其他的孩子在這方面也極為殘忍。我在佐治亞州上的小學(xué)，而能讓我記起這所學(xué)校的唯一一件事發(fā)生在我大概八、九歲的時(shí)候。圣誕節(jié)假期結(jié)束后，老師讓每一個(gè)學(xué)生描述自己在圣誕節(jié)收到的禮物?？粗瑢W(xué)們一個(gè)個(gè)說完，我變得越來越不安。其他的孩子們大吹大擂他們的娃娃、各種自行車、玩過的了不起的游戲和玩具，有些人看起來好像一說幾個(gè)小時(shí)都不會(huì)停嘴。而我?guī)酌腌娋驼f完了我得到的禮物——一條腰帶和衣服手套，然后我哭了，就因?yàn)檫@，一屋子的學(xué)生甚至是那個(gè)老師都哈哈大笑起來，我永遠(yuǎn)都不會(huì)原諒他們的行為。那天晚上當(dāng)我把這件事告訴媽媽后，她傷心地哭了。when I told her about retrospect, I am grateful for that moment, but I remember wanting to die at the Randall Williams 回顧過去，我對(duì)那時(shí)的磨難反而心懷感激，但是我也不會(huì)忘記在那個(gè)時(shí)候，我連想死的心都有了。 介紹：從標(biāo)題我們可以看到Stacey Wilkins的怒氣。就和許多在美國(guó)生活的學(xué)生一樣，她為了償還學(xué)習(xí)貸款而在一家餐館當(dāng)服務(wù)員。在這片文章里，她將說出是誰和什么讓她如此生氣。為了等這些鄉(xiāng)村網(wǎng)球俱樂部的家伙吃完他們的批薩，我已經(jīng)額外坐了一個(gè)半小時(shí)了。他們?cè)诓宛^關(guān)門后15分鐘進(jìn)來——他們不想減短他們網(wǎng)球比賽。老板順從了他們，同意重新打開烤爐為他們做一個(gè)批薩。廚師早就回家了。在我解釋過餐廳已經(jīng)關(guān)門后，這些顧客仍心安理得地要求服務(wù)。他們心安理得地坐在這，講述他們網(wǎng)球比賽精彩部分，直到11點(diǎn)以后（餐廳晚上9點(diǎn)半關(guān)門）。而且最過分的是，他們心安理得地讓我成為他們讓人痛苦的網(wǎng)球比賽之后（的敘述）的受害者。騷擾一個(gè)可憐的小服務(wù)員有什么好玩的?！芭?，像這樣坐在這里真好。”一個(gè)人說到。在沒有得到回復(fù)后，他接著說：“服務(wù)員，我猜你想讓我們離開?！蔽揖鸵谂鹬斜l(fā)了?！拔也粫?huì)對(duì)你的評(píng)論做出回復(fù)，”我說到，然后走了。他準(zhǔn)備和我打架，紅色的旗子已經(jīng)在被揮舞了。這個(gè)男人向我走來并要甜點(diǎn)。老顧客以前是從來沒有點(diǎn)過甜點(diǎn)的。正如你知道的，這是最新的時(shí)尚。但是那天晚上他享有這樣的權(quán)力。他感覺自己很厲害，我感到自己被侵犯了。后來在得到3美元20美分后我回家了。他們的小費(fèi)是他們對(duì)我情感上的侵犯的報(bào)酬。當(dāng)我開車的時(shí)候，眼淚從我臉上流下。為什么我會(huì)哭？我以前也被騷擾過。10年的服務(wù)員經(jīng)歷本應(yīng)該使我習(xí)慣于這些很平常的情況。但這次是個(gè)轉(zhuǎn)折點(diǎn)：這是我10年被虐待史的結(jié)束。我現(xiàn)在在爆發(fā)點(diǎn)上。我不能接受成為公眾的出氣包。人們認(rèn)為虐待包含在用餐錢當(dāng)中。所有的規(guī)矩與禮貌都和大衣一起被寄放在門處。他們