【正文】 Festival. In this day, girls will throw a sewing needle into a bowl full of water on the night of Qixi as a test of embroidery skills. If the needle floats on top of the water instead of sinking, it proves the girl is a skilled embroiders. Single women also pray for finding a good husband in the future. And the newly married women pray to bee pregnant quickly. Tradition transformed The love story of Niulang and Zhinu, and the Qixi Festival have been handed down for generations. Yet these ancient traditions and customs are slowly dying out. Many modern Chinese, particularly youngsters, seem to know more about St Valentine39。s time for the wild fruits to ripe. The picturesque Arxan in Autumn is indeed a fairyland only exists in a dream that satisfies all your fantasies. If it rains heavily on Saturday night, some elderly Chinese will say it is because Zhinu, or the Weaving Maid, is crying on the day she met her husband Niulang, or the Cowherd, on the Milky Way. Most Chinese remember being told this romantic tragedy when they were children on Qixi, or the Seventh Night Festival, which falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, which is usually in early August. This year it falls on Saturday, August 2. Folklore Story As the story goes, once there was a cowherd, Niulang, who lived with his elder brother and sisterinlaw. But she disliked and abused him, and the boy was forced to leave home with only an old cow for pany. The cow, however, was a former god who had violated imperial rules and was sent to earth in bovine form. One day the cow led Niulang to a lake where fairies took a bath on earth. Among them was Zhinu, the most beautiful fairy and a skilled seamstress. The two fell in love at first sight and were soon married. They had a son and daughter and their happy life was held up as an example for hundreds of years in China. Yet in the eyes of the Jade Emperor, the Supreme Deity in Taoism, marriage between a mortal and fairy was strictly forbidden. He ordered the heaven troop to catch Zhinu back. Niulang grew desperate when he discovered Zhinu had been taken back to heaven. Driven by Niulang39。 ll wait in the line for one hour to get a ticket, and another two hours at the site, to only see a tiny bit of the place due to the crowds. Last year, 428 million tourists traveled in China over the weeklong holiday in October. Traveling during this period is a matter that needs thorough preparation. If you are short on time to plan the uping Golden Week it may not be a bad idea to avoid some of the most crowded places for now. There is always a place so fascinating that everyone yearns for. Arxan is a place like this. The beauty of Arxan is everlasting regardless of the changing of four seasons. Bestowed by nature, its spectacular seasonal landscape and mountains are just beyond word. Arxan is a crucial destination for the remended travelling route, China Inner Mongolia Arxan — Hailar — Manzhouli. It is also the joint of the four prairies across the SinoMongolian border, where people gravitate towards the exotic atmosphere mixed with Chinese, Russian, and Mongolia elements. As a historic site for the Yitian Battle, Arxan still embodies the spirit of Genghis Khan. Walking into Arxan, you will be amazed by a kaleidoscope of geous colors all the year round the Spring azaleas blooming red in the snow, the Summer sea wavering blue in the breeze, the Autumn leaves painted in yellow covering volcanic traces, and the Winter woods shining white on the vast alpine snowscape. Hinggan League Arxan city is situated in the far eastern area of Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region. Its full name Haren Arxan means hot holy water in the Mongolian language. Arxan is a tourism city in the northern frontier with a blend of large forest, grand prairies, vast snowfield, heaven lake cluster, thermium, as well as volcanic cluster. It is a rare and unique ecotourism base filled with healthy sunshine, clean air and unspoiled green. Nestled close to the country39。任何人都可能無法避免產(chǎn)生從眾。而這對于作為社會動物的人來說，是很痛苦的。遵守規(guī)范，才會被人接納，被人喜愛。二是自己獨立判斷的信心。從眾行為的一個原因是他人的行為往往能夠提供有用的信息，人們希望從這些有用的信息中，做出正確的判斷和行為。其原因有兩個方面。 2021 年 3 月，日本大地震之后，中國很多地方發(fā)生搶購食鹽現(xiàn)象，這便是從眾行為。人們的順從并不意味著認(rèn)為自己本來的意見是錯誤的，而大多數(shù)人是對的。（ 10） 答：從眾是指人們由于受到群體的影響，把自己的觀念或行為朝著與大多數(shù)人一致的方向改變。要不斷地更新與創(chuàng)造自我，需要建立獲取成功的信念，建立適當(dāng)?shù)谋ж?fù)水平，并不斷地變革對自我的期望。 延伸自我：延伸自我是指一個健康的人應(yīng)該具有博愛之心，要做到關(guān)心他人，關(guān)注社會，加強與他人交流，接近他人，走入社會。 悅納自我。 認(rèn)識自我：自我的協(xié)調(diào)與不協(xié)調(diào)是心理健康的關(guān)鍵。這段時候又稱為主觀化時期。 從青春期到成年是自我意識走向成熟，形成心理自我的階段。 從三歲到青春期以前，自我意識主要是指社會自我。 生理自我是自我意識最原始的形態(tài)，是個人對自己身體的認(rèn)識。 1．奧爾波特關(guān)于自我意識發(fā)展的主要觀點是什么？聯(lián)系實際談?wù)勗撊绾螌崿F(xiàn)自我完善。在人格的培育過程中，各個因素對人格的形成與發(fā)展起到了不同的作用。生態(tài)環(huán)境、氣候條件、空間擁擠程度等物理因素都會影響人格。這種共同的人格特征又使個人正好穩(wěn)穩(wěn)地“嵌入”整個文化形態(tài)里。 （ 5）社會文化因素。同伴群體對學(xué)生人格也具有巨大影響。 （ 4）學(xué)校教育因素。但兩者之間并不存在一一對應(yīng)關(guān)系。 （ 3）早期童年經(jīng)驗。放縱型教養(yǎng)方式下成長的孩子，多表現(xiàn)為任性、幼稚、自私、野蠻、無禮、獨立性差、唯我獨尊、蠻橫胡鬧等。社會遺傳因素主要表現(xiàn)為家庭對子女的教育作用，父母按照自己的意愿和方式教育孩子，使他們逐漸形成了某些人格特征。在個體發(fā)展中，人格是遺傳與環(huán)境交互作用的結(jié)果，遺傳因素影響人格的發(fā)展方向。雙生子的研究說明遺傳對人格具有重要影響。簡言之，人格是在遺傳與環(huán)境交互作用下逐漸形成的。先天和后天的因素往往交織在一起，共同影響個體能力的發(fā)展過程和水平差異。在個體努力過程中，諸如動機、勤奮、謙虛和堅強的毅力等都有助于能力的形成和發(fā)展。離開了解實踐活動，即使有良好的素質(zhì)和環(huán)境，能力也得不到發(fā)展。（ 3）自身努力。學(xué)校教育是有計劃、有組織、有目的地對學(xué)生 9 施加影響，因此，不但可以使學(xué)生掌握知識和技能，而且在學(xué)習(xí)和訓(xùn)練的同時促進(jìn)了其能力的發(fā)展。歌德從小就受到良好的家庭教育，這為他能成為世界著名的大詩人打下了基礎(chǔ)。家庭環(huán)境、生活方式，家庭成員的職業(yè)、文化修養(yǎng)、興趣、愛好以及家長對孩子的教育方法與態(tài)度，對兒童能力的形成與發(fā)展有極大的影響。可見，發(fā)展能力要重視早期環(huán)境的作用。美國著名的心理學(xué)家布盧姆對近千人進(jìn)行追蹤研究后，提出這樣的假說，即五歲前是兒 童智力發(fā)展最為迅速的時期。許多研究表明，母親懷孕期間服藥、患病、大量吸煙、遭受過多的輻射、營養(yǎng)不良等，能造成染色體受損或影響胎兒細(xì)胞數(shù)量，使胎兒發(fā)育受到影響，甚至直接影響出生后嬰兒的智力發(fā)展。環(huán)境影響人，環(huán)境塑造人，包括產(chǎn)前環(huán)境、兒童早期環(huán)境能能力都有很大影響。能力尤其是智力，具有遺傳性，父母智力水平高，其 孩子很可能智力會相對較高。激勵員工的工作動機不能單靠物質(zhì)手段，應(yīng)當(dāng)物質(zhì)與精神手段相結(jié)合，懲罰與獎勵相結(jié)合，既要改善企業(yè)政策、行政管理、工資發(fā)放、勞動保護(hù)、工作監(jiān)督、人事關(guān)系等保健因素，又要改善工作表現(xiàn)機會、工作本身樂趣、工作成就感、對未來發(fā)展的期望、職務(wù)上的責(zé)任感等激勵因素。激勵因素就是那些 使職工感動滿意的因素，唯有它們的改善才能讓職工感到滿意，給職工以較高的激勵，調(diào)動積極