【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 ? If a child’s homework is wrong, they also don’t give them the right answer, they can let a child think twice, they think that everybody makes mistakes. No mistakes, how to improve? They lay stress on the children’s selfconfidence, never attack child, they never say children are stupid, however, they constantly praise. They also won’t let children sacrifice weekend time to learn. American parents talk little about kids’ school work. Children39。s performance is their own things.In America, parents never hit their children for their mistakes. They do not think it will do any help to scold and beat them. It will be more useful to encourage them to stand up again than to scold and beat them, which will only discourage their confidence. And most importantly, it is illegal to beat children. In America, it is also illegal to leave their children alone at home. In the west, after the adult children, parents not to bring up their obligations, and go home to have a meal a points to a hair also calculated clear.In Western countries, children can make easily lots of friends。 parents will not be too much interference in it, but friendships don39。t last long and they change a lot over time. Young adults generally have their own lives and see their parents and families a few times a year, on holidays. Different ways show in family education In GuaSha, Datong’s son Denis hit his friend Kunlun’s son Paul, Datong asks Denis to apologize to Paul, but Denis refuses to say sorry to Paul, then Datong hit Denis on the face in front of the public. In Chinese eye, it is perfectly justified to do so because they think they do this for children’s good, and to hit children is to love them and to make them bee a useful person. Chinese parents is always educating their own children first when they deal with the quarrel or fight among children, while American parents pay attention to the truth. That’s why Datong first asked Denis to apologize to Paul without finding who is wrong or right. However, in America, parents are just the children’s keepers. They can’t go too far scolding their children, let alone beat them. That’s why Datong’s friend Kunlun is startled when he sees Datong hit Denis on the face. There is another typical plot can embody the different family education views of China and America. When Datong’s father stays at the station, and Jane is at work, Datong has to leave Denis alone at home in order to pick his father home. In America, it is known that it is illegal to leave children at home.Chinese people, American people, all the peoples of the world love his family and children, but in xudatong’s and many Chinese hearts, they think families and children are the top of the world. Children, as the continuation of the family blood, are a family39。s wealth, and father’s private property. The “l(fā)ove” can perform as the stern, separation and even the cheating and hijack. The Oriental love is the responsibility but not just the expression. The love and the responsibility bine children, father and this home as one, just in this point, the Oriental give up the individual dignity and equality, freedom and the right to choose their own happiness because they think that love is to give. The family is the whole, in order to overall, individual interests can sacrifice.In Chinese culture, physical punishment is monly used by Chinese family. They think this will help to growing up. But in western society it is absolutely forbidden. Any abusing children were viewed as illegal conduct. As to show respect to friends, Datong Xu punished his own son physically in front of friends. But this was misinterpreted as violence by his foreign friends. This is a misunderstanding in culture between East and West. And it is also the problem of law consciousness, in the United States, if parents beat children, neighbors reported to the relevant agency immediately, because their culture tells them public aid force is the most effective, but China is not the same, if people see parents beating children, ordinary people firstly plain loudly, after all it is household chores, if it was too serious, neighbors sometimes e to mediate, and that means we will usually choose private aid force to solve the problem, of course, which not only show the Chinese law consciousness generally is not high, but also show distrust of public power! This distrust is not only in the theory of western governments, but because China39。s authorities have no way to win public trust through their actions.Part Ⅱ Reasons of Family Education Differences between China and America in the Film Guasha Treatment Difference of historical backgroundDuring the second half of the 19th century, the United States was the world39。s leading economic power. Economic prosperity created the necessary objective conditions and guarantees to education reform and development in that “Gilded Age”. When a large number of industrialists like Carnegie, Rockefeller and so on became rich, they became a philanthropist. A lot of money was donated to the school for education in the United States. Education of United States gains the advantage. However, even though China39。s economy is developing rapidly, modern education has just begun to take shape, and just began to spread. Even though there was “Western Learning thought” in the 18th century, it was only a small area. of attitudes to family educationThe United States has a developed modity economy, an advanced productivity, many employment opportunities, and less survival pressure, and The United States focus on individual ability, the mechanism of choosing a person for a job is perfect and The United States has free movement of labor. There are many opportunities to Change job. Therefore the American has an open outlook of profession and the wide choice of career. In The United States, parents think that as long as the child will be able to survive in society, there is no dis