【正文】 f education for children. When we treat to others and society, Chinese prose golden mean and harmony but Americans petition and strive for life. attention to the children39。s leading economic power. Economic prosperity created the necessary objective conditions and guarantees to education reform and development in that “Gilded Age”. When a large number of industrialists like Carnegie, Rockefeller and so on became rich, they became a philanthropist. A lot of money was donated to the school for education in the United States. Education of United States gains the advantage. However, even though China39。 parents will not be too much interference in it, but friendships don39。s so fierce petition world, only the strong can get achievement. China’s education system is not to shape a real child, but always to take the children bee what they want. Not to give children right to bee their own shape, but what others make they bee. Interest is very important for both adults and children, and let a man do what he don’t want to do, only the waste of efforts. Respect your child, regard him as an equal man, and they enjoy equal rights to speak, for example, the rights of criticizing and resisting .An obedient child is not necessarily good boy, and he will not necessarily have ambition. China has repeatedly stressed how solid his foundation education is, how bad children in the United States science. But we see the fact that the United States is forever frontier in the world for science and technology In China, when children do something wrong, parents will scold and beat children as a punishment. Chinese family education is famous for strictness. There are Chinese old sayings can show the strictness, such as “to feed without teaching is the father’s fault”, spare the rod, “spoil the son”, just as the words Datong’s father said: “to scold and to beat a naughty boy is due to love”. It is also mon for parents, especially parents in the rural areas, to leave their children alone at home, Chinese parents are always busy with their jobs or farming, and there is not enough time for them to take care of their children, so they have to leave their children at home. It is not surprising at all in the rural areas to find children lying on the floor with fly flying around them. Nowadays, with the popularization of the television, it is safer and more convenient for parents to leave children at home.Family is the most basic element and carrier in the Chinese culture. Chinese family stresses the love of family and the love of consanguinity. They think that dog doesn’t eat dog, so when the Children Welfare Bureau accuses Datong of child abuse, he thinks it incredible and ridiculous. He says to his wife Jane, A father loves his son. That’s the way where it works. Why do I have to prove my love, make up speeches? What the hell are we doing, Jane? It’s turning upside down. Everything is turning upside down!” However, it is acceptable in America, which is a place pays more attention to the truth and evidence. Filial piety is also a very important virtue in Chinese family. In the movie, Datong lies to the judge that he is the one who does GuaSha to Denis in order to protect his father who is the real one does GuaSha to Denis. He thinks that if he tells the judge it is his father does GuaSha to Denis, he sells his own father out, and then he will not be a filial son. However, Americans will never understand the concept of filial piety in Chinese culture. That kind of filial piety of Chinese people in concept seems to be incredible to the foreigners, to old father, we Chinese people use a heart to repay the parents39。s allround development...........................9 Raising independent thinking ability of children........................................9Conclusion 11Bibliography 12IntroductionThe story in the Chinese movie GuaSha took place in America. The movie shows us a legal conflict resulted from GuaSha, a Chinese medical treatment or a maltreatment of children. It seems that the story is a misunderstanding or a legal dispute, but actually, it indicates a education conflict between China and America The film GuaSha Treatment tells us a story in America about problems which happened to a Chinese immigration family． Education is a social activity of cultivation and the inheritance of experiences in the daily life. It is a sort of social culture phenomenon which reflects different social cultural implication from different ones. In a sense, cultural transmission is education which is also cultural originally. Family, school and social education are the three main part of the education. But family education should not be replaced by school and social education. When children were born they had been in the atmosphere of family education, Generally speaking it indicates that behaviors of criticism, guidance, cultivation and administration by the parents. It plays an important role not only in modeling values but also cultivate a unique nationalism to our children. For instance, Chinese culture attaches importance to the harmony between human and nature but Americans pay more attention to overe the nature by them. The family education between China and American exist a significant difference. For example, in the mutual relationship of family members, Chinese parents almost in the dominant position of it but American parents attach more importance to getting along with their kids equally. About the concept of childcare, Chinese parents almost hope their kids can find a good job to be prosperous in the future but American parents lay stress on promoting their kids’ capability of living adaptation. About the ways of education between China and America, Chinese parents are willing to undertake the whole things for giving their kids more time to spend on study but American parents tend to make their children do many practical things all by themselves. The disparity between two countries w