【正文】 erest is very important for both adults and children, and let a man do what he don’t want to do, only the waste of efforts. Respect your child, regard him as an equal man, and they enjoy equal rights to speak, for example, the rights of criticizing and resisting .An obedient child is not necessarily good boy, and he will not necessarily have ambition. China has repeatedly stressed how solid his foundation education is, how bad children in the United States science. But we see the fact that the United States is forever frontier in the world for science and technology In China, when children do something wrong, parents will scold and beat children as a punishment. Chinese family education is famous for strictness. There are Chinese old sayings can show the strictness, such as “to feed without teaching is the father’s fault”, spare the rod, “spoil the son”, just as the words Datong’s father said: “to scold and to beat a naughty boy is due to love”. It is also mon for parents, especially parents in the rural areas, to leave their children alone at home, Chinese parents are always busy with their jobs or farming, and there is not enough time for them to take care of their children, so they have to leave their children at home. It is not surprising at all in the rural areas to find children lying on the floor with fly flying around them. Nowadays, with the popularization of the television, it is safer and more convenient for parents to leave children at home.Family is the most basic element and carrier in the Chinese culture. Chinese family stresses the love of family and the love of consanguinity. They think that dog doesn’t eat dog, so when the Children Welfare Bureau accuses Datong of child abuse, he thinks it incredible and ridiculous. He says to his wife Jane, A father loves his son. That’s the way where it works. Why do I have to prove my love, make up speeches? What the hell are we doing, Jane? It’s turning upside down. Everything is turning upside down!” However, it is acceptable in America, which is a place pays more attention to the truth and evidence. Filial piety is also a very important virtue in Chinese family. In the movie, Datong lies to the judge that he is the one who does GuaSha to Denis in order to protect his father who is the real one does GuaSha to Denis. He thinks that if he tells the judge it is his father does GuaSha to Denis, he sells his own father out, and then he will not be a filial son. However, Americans will never understand the concept of filial piety in Chinese culture. That kind of filial piety of Chinese people in concept seems to be incredible to the foreigners, to old father, we Chinese people use a heart to repay the parents39。通過比較這兩種家庭教育，我希望能取他人之長補己之短，從而促進我國的家庭教育。本論文以《刮痧 》為切入點,剖析中美教育的差異。我國主要是主張封閉式的教育，成績好是頭等大事。 Differences. ContentsIntroduction 1PartⅠ Family Education Differences Reflected in the Film...........................3 Chinese family education view...................................................................3 American family education view................................................................4 ways show in family education .................................................5Part Ⅱ Reasons of Family Education Differences between China and America in the Film Guasha Treatment............................................................7 Difference of historical background………………………………............7 Differences of attitudes to family education………………………….......7 Difference of the thinking mode. ..8Part Ⅲ Inspiration of the American family education to Chinese family education..............................................................................................................9 Updating the concept of family education...................................................9 Paying attention to the children39。s performance is their own things.In America, parents never hit their children for their mistakes. They do not think it will do any help to scold and beat them. It will be more useful to encourage them to stand up again than to scold and beat them, which will only discourage their confidence. And most importantly, it is illegal to beat children. In America, it is also illegal to leave their children alone at home. In the west, after the adult children, parents not to bring up their obligations, and go home to have a meal a points to a hair also calculated clear.In Western countries, children can make easily lots of friends。 reading is almost the only way. The thought “All lowgrade, high reading is the only” deeply occupied these parents brains. So the Chinese parents have 3 steps, the Imperialpoppingrich then it converted to the new track “good results good work good ine”. Therefore, the educational purposes of Chinese parents is to be able to get into good schools, to have an outstanding academic performance, to obtain a higher degree Difference of thinking mode The Americans are rational and United States family respected fundamental principles of rational treatment to family members and Family Affairs. In The United States, parents raise and educate their children, as the duty to the munity, and this is beyond the individual position, rather than from the family itself or its own best interest of their parents to look at family education. Since they believe that raising children is a duty, it is not the childprotection for the old, and they do not have an return to their own homes for the elderly who enterer the old folks home (of course, the practices which the Chinese people treat as immoral practices originate in the United States social security mechanisms, and cultural costumes) Chinese people are supreme affection. Family education in China based on the ethical, emotional sense to rule, to deal with family relationships. My parents treat the child as their own private property, and they consider their childr