【正文】 , but believe strong relationships need time and patience to build to make them solid and longlasting.China’s education has too much expectation for children, the children were controlled, accused too much, they bee weak, they most fear to make mistakes, and they are afraid of failure, so in order to avoid mistakes, they give up the chance to put forward questions, give up learning in failure process. When children grew up, children lost not only creation and power of imagination, but also will probably be afraid of lost, because their knowledge of studying, thinking, logic and reasoning is passive. In today39。 love regardless of the return, so that in the most painful moments, Chinese people also can39。s performance is their own things.In America, parents never hit their children for their mistakes. They do not think it will do any help to scold and beat them. It will be more useful to encourage them to stand up again than to scold and beat them, which will only discourage their confidence. And most importantly, it is illegal to beat children. In America, it is also illegal to leave their children alone at home. In the west, after the adult children, parents not to bring up their obligations, and go home to have a meal a points to a hair also calculated clear.In Western countries, children can make easily lots of friends。t last long and they change a lot over time. Young adults generally have their own lives and see their parents and families a few times a year, on holidays. Different ways show in family education In GuaSha, Datong’s son Denis hit his friend Kunlun’s son Paul, Datong asks Denis to apologize to Paul, but Denis refuses to say sorry to Paul, then Datong hit Denis on the face in front of the public. In Chinese eye, it is perfectly justified to do so because they think they do this for children’s good, and to hit children is to love them and to make them bee a useful person. Chinese parents is always educating their own children first when they deal with the quarrel or fight among children, while American parents pay attention to the truth. That’s why Datong first asked Denis to apologize to Paul without finding who is wrong or right. However, in America, parents are just the children’s keepers. They can’t go too far scolding their children, let alone beat them. That’s why Datong’s friend Kunlun is startled when he sees Datong hit Denis on the face. There is another typical plot can embody the different family education views of China and America. When Datong’s father stays at the station, and Jane is at work, Datong has to leave Denis alone at home in order to pick his father home. In America, it is known that it is illegal to leave children at home.Chinese people, American people, all the peoples of the world love his family and children, but in xudatong’s and many Chinese hearts, they think families and children are the top of the world. Children, as the continuation of the family blood, are a family39。s authorities have no way to win public trust through their actions.Part Ⅱ Reasons of Family Education Differences between China and America in the Film Guasha Treatment Difference of historical backgroundDuring the second half of the 19th century, the United States was the world39。s economy is developing rapidly, modern education has just begun to take shape, and just began to spread. Even though there was “Western Learning thought” in the 18th century, it was only a small area. of attitudes to family educationThe United States has a developed modity economy, an advanced productivity, many employment opportunities, and less survival pressure, and The United States focus on individual ability, the mechanism of choosing a person for a job is perfect and The United States has free movement of labor. There are many opportunities to Change job. Therefore the American has an open outlook of profession and the wide choice of career. In The United States, parents think that as long as the child will be able to survive in society, there is no distinction between high and low rank (of course it must be legitimate）. Therefore, in the United States, the purpose of education for parents focuses on the breeders. The people are more macro and wider, cope with shifting events by sticking to a fundamental principle. But the Chinese population is large, has relatively low levels of productivity 。 reading is almost the only way. The thought “All lowgrade, high reading is the only” deeply occupied these parents brains. So the Chinese parents have 3 steps, the Imperialpoppingrich then it converted to the new track “good results good work good ine”. Therefore, the educational purposes of Chinese parents is to be able to get into good schools, to have an outstanding academic performance, to obtain a higher degree Difference of thinking mode The Americans are rational and United States family respected fundamental principles of rational treatment to family members and Family Affairs. In The United States, parents raise and educate their children, as the duty to the munity, and this is beyond the individual position, rather than from the family itself or its own best interest of their parents to look at family education. Since they believe that raising children is a duty, it is not the childprotection for the old, and they do not have an return to their own homes for the elderly who enterer the old folks home (of course, the practices which the Chinese people treat as immoral practices originate in the United States social security mechanisms, and cultural costumes) Chinese people are supreme affection. Family education in China based on the ethical, emotional sense to rule, to deal with family relationships. My parents treat the child as their own private property, and they consider their children39。s allround developmentAmerican parents pay more attention to the children’s allround development. American p