20xxted英語演講如何成為一個(gè)自信的人(編輯修改稿)
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【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 ts this week? If youamp。rsquo。re a woman, the first thing that always es: “。Damn I look fat in these pants!.”。
And if youamp。rsquo。re a man, itamp。rsquo。s the opposite: “。Oh god, I got no muscle, Iamp。rsquo。m so flabby!”。 Right? We all have this tape that plays in our a student, if they asked me the question, it was like: “。Oh, gee please professor donamp。rsquo。t pick me, I donamp。rsquo。t know the answer.”。 Iamp。rsquo。d look down. Right?
If youamp。rsquo。re in the b……。when I, let me tell you something, and the VP of business admin is here, I shouldnamp。rsquo。t repeat this, but when they hired me as an athletics director, I sat in an architectamp。rsquo。s meeting, and I am as dumb as a post when it es to anything to do with numbers and angles.
And they are like: the fundibulator valve of the architectural, uh, what do you think doctor Joseph? Uh, let me look into that for you and get back to you. Right? I was in a, oh god god, please donamp。rsquo。t ask me, please donamp。rsquo。t ask me. We all have this negative selftalk that goes in our head.
Guess what? Thereamp。rsquo。s enough people that are telling us we canamp。rsquo。t do it. That weamp。rsquo。re not good enough. Why do we want to tell ourselves that? We know for a fact that thoughts influence actions. We saw it there with the video Sheldon, Dr. Levy showed.
We know that our thoughts influence actions, why do we want to say that negative selftalk to ourselves? We need to get our own selfaffirmations. Muhammad Ali, what was his selfaffirmation? I am the greatest! Who else is going to tell you?
There need to be quiet moments in your bedroom, quiet moments when youamp。rsquo。re brushing your teeth. That we need to reaffirm: “。I am the captain of my ship and the master of my fate!”。 That is my affirmation.
I came from a school of one thousand people, I lived in a town of one thousand people for fifteen years。 thereamp。rsquo。s no reason that I should be in charge of an Athletics department, building maple leaf gardens. But I am the captain of my ship and the master of my fate.
If I donamp。rsquo。t say it, if I donamp。rsquo。t believe it, no one else do you build selfconfidence? Get away from the people who will tear you down. Thereamp。rsquo。s enough of that.
Muhammad Ali, I am the greatest! There is no one better than me. Thereamp。rsquo。s a difference between hubris, and ego, and false pride. Itamp。rsquo。s just reminding yourself in quiet silent moments, I put it down on a list, itamp。rsquo。s right beside my mirror, right? about all the things that make me who I am.
Because I make enough mistakes, and the newspapers will recognize it, and people around me will recognize it。 and theyamp。rsquo。ll tear me down, and pretty soon Iamp。rsquo。ll begin to believe it.
There was a time when my confidence was really low. There was a time when I took this job when I came from Iowa, I
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