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保簡不會離開他,他緊緊握住她。但是他的緊握卻把她推得更遠(yuǎn)。羅伯特害怕失去簡,因?yàn)槿绻嗠x開,他就得經(jīng)歷不被愛的苦楚。他不想經(jīng)歷,只有緊握。但是,如果他愿意接受這種痛苦,失去簡的恐懼也就不存在了。他不再急切地想抓住簡,而是可以接受她的離開。這種想法改變了兩人之間的關(guān)系,從單純需要簡轉(zhuǎn)變到學(xué)會珍惜她。簡感受到深深地被愛和獨(dú)立的存在感,她也就不愿離開。這就是生活。你能越好的學(xué)會放手,順其自然,生活也就能越輕松自在。你可能不會得到你想要的東西,但是可以得到內(nèi)心的自由釋放。內(nèi)心的平靜得以恢復(fù),工作也能高效率,也就能創(chuàng)造一個有效的生活了。Let goThe experience of love is an inner state. When this is present, you are happy, alive, and free. You feel good about yourself and good about life. As you bring this experience of love into your life, life works effortlessly and great things happen. The opposite of love is fear and upset. When this is present, you lose down inside. You lose your creativity and ability to see clearly. You get tunnel vision and you interact in a way that almost always makes your situation worse. Whether you live in a state of love or a state of upset depends, not on your circumstances, but on how you relate to your circumstances. A good way to see this is to look at upset. Upsets seem to be caused by what happens but they are not. Upsets are caused by your fighting and resisting what happens. To see this in your life, select a recent upset, now not