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為已先用“No”牽制對(duì)方,而站在溝通的有利位置上了。當(dāng)你和客戶談好了一切細(xì)節(jié)以后,你對(duì)他說“I'll have my secretary type the contract for you to sign at once, then I'll drive you to the airport for your flight at 7:00. (我會(huì)讓我的秘書立刻將合同打好給您簽名,然后,我開車送您去機(jī)場(chǎng)搭七點(diǎn)鐘的飛機(jī)。 達(dá)到目地,立即離開 ?I'm glad to have met you, Mr. Lee. 如果協(xié)議達(dá)成,而你仍流連忘返,則有以下兩種危險(xiǎn):溝通對(duì)手改變主意;或者你可能因松懈而目不擇言,說錯(cuò)了話。)收?qǐng)?,告別離去??墒?,這該不是你所要的結(jié)果吧?因?yàn)槿绱艘粊?lái),溝通不但要破裂,也會(huì)招來(lái)對(duì)手的怨恨。因此向?qū)Ψ教岢鲑|(zhì)疑時(shí),要確定將矛頭指向事情本身,而不是對(duì)手身上:“Your views regarding management differ mine.”(您的經(jīng)營(yíng)觀點(diǎn)和我的不同。)這樣的說法可以引導(dǎo)對(duì)方修正他的觀點(diǎn),而不會(huì)觸怒了他,使他拂袖