【正文】 that the formation of the influence of such factors. Both for people identity and for the people had to follow, For the purpose of establishing harmonious relations,and the sum of the various line with the spirit and requirements of ritual code of conduct .First we must understand the different etiquette is based on their cultural roots. The Concept of Etiquette and the Reasons for Studying Etiquette. Etiquette is the process and means to show waht respect to each other in interpersonal relationship .Etiquette can be said to be a person’s external appearance of inward cultivation and quality. From the aspect of munication, interpersonal etiquette can be regarded as a kind of art and a method of munication. It is a mon respect for person and a friendly practice in interpersonal the respect of transmitting, interpersonal rituals can be roughly divided into chief etiquette, business etiquette, service etiquette, social etiquette, foreign etiquette and several other major branches. An important reason that different countries have different histories and cultures, there are a lot of differences in the habit of conducts and the ceremony, especially between China and the West, the jokes and the mistakes caused by misunderstanding is not unusual. This shows that the understanding of the different etiquettes between Chinese and the Westerners is absolutely necessary. In the office, to understand each other’s customer will be conductive to the exchanges between the countries. A person who understands others’ rituals and folk customs can be seen as respecting for others and can be easier to make a good impression on the other side. Along with the constant development of Chinese culture and the Western culture, Chinese ritual and the Western ritual are fusions. The Westerners have accepted the reasonable factors in Chinese culture and other important feelings. Chinese people have gradually accepted the advanced civilization of the Western culture and etiquette style. However, in real life, the etiquette’s impact due to cultural differences between China and the West still exists. The paper explores the differences between Chinese etiquette and the Western etiquette to make Chinese municate with the Westerners more easily.The Origin of Chinese China, etiquette is equal to courtesy and ceremony. The essence of etiquette is the method of dealing with people and the belief in ghosts and spirits. People consider that all things are controlled by the ghosts which can not be seen. Therefore, the etiquette is originated from the belief in ghosts and spirits, as well as a special form of belief in ghosts and spirits. China is a state of ceremonies. Back to five thousand years ago, etiquette used to be the core of traditional culture. Up to now, the etiquette has been really reformed. Thus it bees rituals of modern civilization. Chinese etiquette in Chinese culture plays a “quasilegal” role. Etiquette’s origins can be traced back to the early time of human beings. It should be said that at the very beginning of the history of the Chinese nation, etiquette was generated along with the human activities and with a primitive religion. Etiquette is the system to deal with the three relationships among the people, God and the ghosts. It is said that there were “five ceremonies” in ancient China. In fact etiquette can be divided into two main parts, one is politics, and the other is life. Chinese legal system was bred during the establishment and implementation of the protocol. The essence of etiquette is the way how to deal with people and the belief in ghosts and group culture, attaches great importance to the family friends relationship, regard it as of society cells。t dispute between equal status with young boundaries, friends. Chinese traditional ideas always advocating four generations family reunion, has a parents, not in the words ancient precept. In the Western countries, the word ‘etiquette’ used to mean “keep off the grass”. Louis XIV’s(路易十四) gardener noticed that the aristocrats were walking through his gardens and then he put up signs (etiquette) to warn them off. The dukes and duchesses walked right past these signs. Due to this blatant disregard, the king of Versailles decreed that no individual was to go beyond the bounds of the etiquettes. The meaning of etiquette would later include the ticket to court functions that lists the instructions on which a person would stand and what was to be done. Etiquette, like language, has evolved, but it still means literally “keep off the grass”. Until the 1960’s, the importance of good manners was taught without question, but with the liberated 70’s, it came a decline in the popularity of teaching proper etiquette. In 2004, a new emphasis has been placed on returning to traditional values. Proper etiquette and protocol have given children and adults a vital tool that provides not only a petitive edge, but a sense of While in AngloAmerican countries, 18 children still lives at home depend on their parents life is incredible things, they must rely on our own hands to live independently. Similarly, older parents even lost selfcare ability, general won39。39。t know the name . You can call ten or twenties woman young lady,and married women could be called lady, etc. Between family members, it can absolutely regardless of degress, generally can call the name each othe. In the home,they can directly call father and mother39。t accept the invitation, you can politely declined to say you can39。t go to or I don39。t know you exactly mean wether you accept the invitation, or decline the you meet people firstly, you usually shake hands. In addition, longlost friends when we meet and we usually shake hands. However, when they met and don39。s nutrition and neglect of the food color, fragrance, taste, shape, diet is to survive and health, it seems does not important to taste .In the dining atmosphere,all of the Chinese like livel