【正文】 y mood while their have a dinner. Many people sit together to eat and drink,they are talking and laughing. Everybody together to build a kind of a warmly lively dining it is in a very formal banquets, Chinese people have not very special etiquette on the table. While the westerners in the dinner, all of them like quiet and gracful environment. They think they must pay attention to manners when they are on the table, and not to lose courtesy. For instance, when they have a meal and can not with a very unpleasant sound.When Chinese and western host a dinner ,it also has its own characteristics. In China, most of them base on the left for honour throughout the ages. When fete guests, we will firstly arrange the honorest guest seat on the left position,and arrange others in turn. In the west, right is for honour, men and women seat interval , and the couple also separatly seat. Female guests’ seats is slightly more honour than male guests’ seats, for the man, he ready for the chair to the woman in his right is to show his respect. In addition, westerners have meal must sit upright ,they think bend down, with the mouth gather to food is very rude, but this is exactly the way Chinese people usually to eat. Eatting westernstyle food, owners do not advocate drink the more alcohol, in China39。t like urge others to drink . In China, the banquet demands to have dishes in a table,while westerners think it is not health, practicing separate eating. When Chinese banquets,they toast each other and dance and sing. Westerner requires less noise and less action, and there is many dining programs .Dress etiquette man usually wear a conservative style suit in formal social occasions, they wear white shirt and tie inside. They like black, so they usually wear black leather shoes. Western lady usually wear a dress suits in formal occasions. Another custom is woman wear earrings when they go out . Western countries, especially in the United States, people like to wear leisure clothes at ordinary times, such as Tshirts with jeans.Today39。s dressing have noting difference with the west. In the usual civic life,you can see many people wear vest, shorts and slippers,which are not keep up with etiquette.In all ages, dress represents a kind of social culture, which embodies a person39。s identity, temperament, and the inherent quality wordless remendation. In a sense, the dress is an art, dress can convey emotion and meaning that isn39。s identity, and damage his own image.In a social situation, appropriate dress is a polite behavior, to a certain extent, it directly influences the interpersonal factors of the dressing effects, the important one is to have a culture and elegant aesthetic ability, the socalled Knowledge makes a gentleman（腹有詩書氣自華）.Second, it has a sports bodybuilding quality. Strong and handsome body is natural condition for dressing beauty . Third is to grasp ordinary knowledge of dressing, dress principle and dress etiquette knowledge, this is indispensable conditions that reaching the inside and outside harmonious and unified beauty .Westerners pay attention to identity, they ragard the clothes as the symbol,while Chinese pay attention to lasting appeal(韻味).If the western dress culture painstakingly pursue to performance beauty, and totally ignore the dress ethics, so, China dress culture retains some moral systems more or less because it was affected by the traditional ethical values. But the most representative dress is our country39。t allow to buckle on singlebreasted suit39。s bottom .Generally speaking, 39。Clothes makes the man,and saddle makes a horse .39。 (人靠衣裝，馬靠鞍)。s dress, which is the most true portraiture of his upbringing, grade, and the status.(一個人的衣著是他的教養(yǎng)，地位，品味的最真實寫照). So in daily work and interactions, especially in the formal occasions, and dress is a problem that is more and more important ,and we are modern people pay more attention .Background difference between China and eastern civilization and western civilization is boring and developing in certain social historical conditions , without which is excellent or worse. The history of the west, it is only 200 years,a very short history and its people from various places and they came here to immigrate,so many different nationalities and races got together.They embrace the oath: As long as what we can dream of what we will be able to realize!(只要是我們能夠夢想的我們都能實現(xiàn)). This is the western spirit, which was built by the foundation of heroism and devotion. With it just 200 years history, could creat the splendid civilization in human39。s dependence is very strong. While western culture advocating independence and individual freedom. For example, China focus on cultivating individual moral character,running the family unison,manage the nation in order,and peace will prevail throughout the universe.(修身，齊家，治國，平天下) .The personality is vital, and this kind of personality is built on caring about the country, love the collective, harmonious family, interpersonal harmony and so on basic things .While people in the west ,their concept of legal system is stronger. In this premise, they advocate personal freedom, and don39。 bundle, they don39。 selfdependence ability is poor, even in today39。 If you see others return, also cannot ask where he gone or where he is from, otherwise they will disgust at you , usually western use the sentence of nose e into the somebody’s private life to express their disparagement to the people who asked.While in China, people take littal attention to boundaries of privacy, people would not care about others in their own lives and not take any behavior to people who want to get a general understanding. But between Chinese and American people, Chinese always take very mon words to ask each other family’s life , Americans might think you violated his privacy, having a hidden purpose, and a business would probably have be killed.When Chinese people meet ，we often like noding heads and