【正文】 與父母的距離較遠，孩子一出生就和父母分開，單獨有自己的房間，父母走親訪友或購物時，通常用嬰兒車推著孩子；父母鼓勵孩子自己走路，摔倒了自己爬起來，自己學吃飯；有的父母干脆把孩子托付給保姆，培養(yǎng)孩子從小不依賴父母。父母是絕對的權(quán)威，發(fā)展到當今社會，父母又成了孩子的庇護神、債務(wù)人，父母辛苦一輩子就是為了孩子，使得中國家庭中的獨生子女成了家中的小皇帝，大多數(shù)孩子從一出生就很少離開過父母。中西家庭觀念差異“父為子綱”是中國家庭幾千年來延續(xù)下來的根深蒂固的觀念。而西方人將女士優(yōu)先、尊重婦女作為宴會排座位的標準，同時也作為宴會上其他行為的標準。中國人將長幼有序、尊重長者作為排座的標準。西方人在安排座位時將主賓席放在主人的右側(cè)，形成了餐桌座位以右為上、左為下的規(guī)矩。中國人認為宴會中座位通常是以面向南為上，以面向北為下，形成了“南尊”、“北卑”的傳統(tǒng)觀念。有時主人甚至故意將宴會時間定得“早”“遲到”提供更加充裕的時間。不注意遵守時間，不重視預約。否則將被視為不合禮儀，是對主人以及其他客人的不尊重。（4）出席時間的差異：“遲到”VS“準時”人類時間觀念大致有兩種文化模式，一種是單一性時間(Monochronic—time)。中西方這種文化上的差異，也造成各自在飲食特別是餐具使用方面存在差異：中國人使用筷子時溫文而雅，很少出現(xiàn)戳、溫柔的。（3）餐具的差異：“筷子”VS“刀叉”中國人自古以來大部分以農(nóng)耕為主，、“和”為貴，反對侵略和攻擊。通常中國人請客吃飯采取的是一種“共享”～席，在主人的殷勤招呼下，眾人群箸齊下，通力合作，共同“消滅”盤中之物，場景好不熱鬧，最后結(jié)帳也是爭相付錢。全球首富接待大國元首，競只上三道菜，或許很多人認為蓋茨太小氣，而這正是中美文化的差異，美國國宴不超過四道菜，動輒山珍海味、名酒名煙，一年吃掉2000億，“吃文化”極盡奢華浪費。甚至在胡錦濤主席2006年4月訪美抵達西雅圖接受比爾—luck，即在聚餐會上每人都帶一樣菜，讓大家共享。因此，西方的宴會并不重吃，而重宴會形式的自由化、多樣化。是重溫舊誼和結(jié)交新人的機會，也是獲得信息的場所。比如清朝出現(xiàn)的“滿漢全席”.菜至少108種，全席計有冷葷熱肴一百九十六品，點心茶食一百二十四品，計肴饌?cè)俣?，合用全套粉彩萬壽餐具，配以銀器?！敝袊嗽谡埧统燥垥r講究排場，重視飯菜的質(zhì)量和數(shù)量。法國人特別喜歡丁香色和薔薇色，也很迷戀含蓄的天藍和圣潔的白色；西班牙人崇尚高雅的玫瑰紅和灰色調(diào)；在英國，黑色被認為是神秘、高貴的色彩。中世紀時奇特式教堂中彩色玻璃窗被裝飾得輝煌燦爛，引導人們追求天堂的色彩，因此服飾上充滿宗教氣氛的色彩被人們向往。在民間，正色也是人們衣著配色所喜愛和追求的顏色。傳統(tǒng)服裝色彩受陰陽五行影響，有青、紅、黑、白、黃五色之說。夏、商、周時天子的冕服為黑色。（3）色彩一個民族對顏色的喜好從某種意義上來講正好反映了這個民族潛意識的性格特征。西洋古典服裝的外形強調(diào)橫向感覺，常采用橫向擴張的肩部輪廓、膨脹的袖型龐大的裙撐、重疊的花邊等，使服裝線條產(chǎn)生夸張和向外放射的效果。服裝外形的修長感是對東方人較為矮小的身材之彌補，在感官上產(chǎn)生視錯覺，在比例上達到完美、和諧。清代服裝相對來說比較肥大，袖口、下擺都有向外擴張之勢。（2）外形在外形特征上來講，中國傳統(tǒng)服裝的外形強調(diào)縱向感覺，常用下垂的線條、過手的長袖和筒形的袍裙。我們在探討中西服飾文化差異的同時，更應(yīng)該思考在全球化的沖擊下保持民族特色的重要性。隨著如今經(jīng)濟全球化的發(fā)展，中西服飾文化融合趨勢也空前加強。古代多流行花草放樣，意大利文藝復興時期流行華麗的花卉圖案，法國路易十五時期，受洛可可裝飾風格的影響，流行表現(xiàn)Ｓ形或旋渦形的藤草和輕淡柔和的庭院花草放樣。如龍鳳呈祥、龍飛鳳舞、九龍戲珠等圖樣，不僅隱喻著圖騰崇拜，而且抒發(fā)著“龍的傳人”的情感；象鶴鹿同春、喜鵲登梅、鳳穿牡丹等圖案，反映了人民對美滿生活的希望。中式服裝喜好運用圖案表示吉祥的祝愿。中西服飾經(jīng)數(shù)千年的歷史沉淀，形成了各具特色的風貌和體系。說起東方服飾文化，人們一定會想起雍榮華貴的唐裝，含蓄雋永的旗袍，而對于西方服飾文化我們卻知之甚少，能想到的除了近代的西裝，便是中世紀歐洲隆重華麗的貴族服飾。中西服飾差異中西服飾受其各自不同哲學和文化的影響體現(xiàn)出不同的特征：儒家思想和大陸文明使中國服飾呈現(xiàn)出繁冗，寬博的特征。它指本族語者與非本族語者之間的交際, 也指任何在語言和文化背景方面有差異的人們之間的交際。Americans think this behavior is ’s the appearance of not respecting the human , their laws don39。t be the old father did not to live in his home, but in his son’s? Americans are puzzled, because in American, parents and children do not live when parents visit children, they have to make an appointment few weeks or even a few months behavior in Chinese eyes seems think that the relationship between American parents and children is too a word, both sides look at each other and feel nothing is ? They have different like four generations under one roof, family happiness。t like him smoking in the order to avoid his son and the daughterinlaw’s quarrel, he decided to put out the this time, Janine became order to make obedient husband don’t feel disgusted, she said: “Dad, go ahead, I don39。the old father used Guasha to treat the little boy for he didn’t know how to read bruises were noticed by the child welfare bureau, and all the rough broke out after , they had a universal satisfactory end of the story is to the satisfaction of all, but a variety of cultural conflict is the we see is the initial irreconcilable to accept, people will think that Chinese and Western have cultural differences, I think so, but I also think that behind these differences, there are many following, I will be on the film to talk something about filial piety plot makes concrete analysis, and explore how cultural differences reflected in the filial piety? Why is it? What are the similarities?But before that, we will first do a general understanding of filial the ancient clan and tribal society, meaning of “filial piety” is very refers to the family of the elder respect, love, support and the family as the basic unit of society and social development in a long time, “filial piety” changes from the family elder respect to parental care, and bee an important ethical rule to do with family , “filial piety” to living gets more often say that the parents contribute to our upbringing, so we will repay the in the west, has no concept of “filial piety”.The Western belief in God, that God has given human in the western culture, the concept of “filial piety” is corresponding to “piety”.” Filial piety “ is also derived from “piety”.Piety in the ancient Greek dictionary definition is: 1, sacred, permitted by the laws of God, to God。第一篇：跨文化交際 英文Analysis of Deferent Views on “Filial Piety” Between China and American from Movie GuashaAbstract: “While one’s parents are alive, one should not travel to distant places.” “The gentleman works hard on the basic principles, thereafter es morality。filial piety is the basic principle