【正文】 love him. Is this sex or rape? Number Four: You need to know that you DESERVE a person who treats you well physically and emotionally. What does that mean? 1. That means your partner never hurts you physically in any way. (This is called domestic abuse, 家庭虐待 ) 2. That means that your partner does not try to make you feel stupid or insignificant by saying mean things to you or about you to other people. (This is called verbal abuse or emotional abuse.) Not leaving a physically abusive relationship could mean you might end up like this, or worse! No matter how much you love someone, you should NEVER allow them to hit you. If they hurt you physically, you should leave the relationship while you can. REMEMBER: IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT. If your partner doesn’t hit you but is verbally insulting you or belittling you, it’s time to leave. Things won’t get better, only worse. Make a decision to keep yourself safe and healthy: LEAVE. Number Five: You need to have other outlets in your life besides your partner. What does that mean? That means you have other things you enjoy doing, friends that make you happy, a job you love or a hobby you like, a physical outlet like sports or exercise, and things that are important to you besides your partner. Waiting for Prince Charming? You shouldn’t! Why? Because NO ONE can make you happy but YOURSELF! You should never expect a romantic relationship to solve your problems or make life wonderful! Things are more plicated than that. Number Six: Understand that sexuality is a very personal thing and some people feel differently about it than others. Homosexuality Is homosexuality a disease or something people can change? As of 2020, social sciences now say homosexuality is NOT a disease, and China got rid of its laws against homosexuality in 1997. Although there is disagreement, most scientists and biologists say that being gay is NOT a choice. It is part of who that person is geically, just like their height and their hair color. What about gay people in China? It is said now that Chinese gays have moved into a legal and social environment often described as the three no39。 explore your sexuality and to release sexual tension without all the associated risks of sexual intercourse, like diseases and pregnancy. Health professionals generally agree that this private touching is a natural, normal mode of selfexploration and sexual expression. Want to know more? Check out So, what about oral sex(口交 )? Oral sex is safer than sexual intercourse in that you cannot get pregnant BUT you can still contract STDs through oral sex, including HIV/AIDS. Many girls also feel the same emotional issues acpany oral sex that acpany sexual intercourse. For a step by step how to for first time sex, try .. Worried about the first time? So, babies e from.… where exactly? Conception can only occur inside a woman’s body. During sexual intercourse, a man ejaculates(射精 ), and his sperm enter the woman’s body. If the woman is ovulating (if she has an egg(卵子 ) at the time,) she can bee pregnant. The egg and the sperm unite to bee a zygote, and the zygote is implanted in the wall of the woman’s uterus (子宮 ). The body has everything the baby needs to grow and be nurtured for nine months. If a sperm cell finds the egg and unites with it, a zygote is formed. The zygote grows and divides. It moves down the fallopian tubes towards the uterus. It is then implanted in the wall of the uterus, where the baby will grow and develop. Illustration: Development of Embryo 4 weeks 5 weeks 6 weeks 7 weeks 8 weeks A fetus (胎兒 ) at 56 months A pregnancy at 9 months, just before delivery Conception and birth slides from Magnus Hirschfeld Archive for Sexology And nine months later… A pregnant woman should not smoke or drink alcohol, because this could harm her baby. She should also try to be as healthy as possible: get lots of sleep, eat well, and exercise regularly as fit. REMEMBER Step Two Protecting yourself What are the potential dangers to being sexually active? SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES (Also called STDs) 性傳播疾病 Introduction ? Sexually transmitted disease (STDs) are among the most mon infectious diseases in the world and have been responsible for devastating epidemics that killed millions of people. ? In the . alone, they affect more than 13 million men and women each year. ? STD’s affect men and women of all backgrounds and economic levels. ? The incidence of STDs are rising, in part because people are more likely to have multiple sex partners. Complications of STDs ? Infertility (the inability to have a child). ? Cancer of cervix, vagina, anus and penis. ? STDs can be passed from mother to baby. ? Painful symptoms ? Possible death ** Remember, in most cases, these plications can be avoided if you see a doctor for treatment soon enough. Common STDs 1. Syphilis 2. Genital Herpes 3. Genital Warts/ HPV 4. Gonorrhea 5. Chlamydia 6. Trichomoniasis Possible symptoms of STDs Itching, burning, or pain in the genital region Pain during urination Abnormal genital discharge Growths or blisters on the penis and vagina Abdominal pain or bleeding Skin rashes, fevers, and headaches If you have any of these symptoms, you should see a doctor immediately. Don’t wait! Pictures that illustrate the possible symptoms of STDs in the genital region Primary Syphil