ted演講：如何成為一個更好的交談者(中英對照)-展示頁
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【正文】 ave his kids a munication project. He wanted to teach them how to speak on a specific subject without using notes. And he said this:” I came to realize…”“I came to realize that conversational petence might be the single most overlooked skill we fail to teach. Kids spend hours each day engaging with ideas and each other through screens, but rarely do they have an opportunity to hone their interpersonal munications skills. It might sound like a funny question, but we have to ask ourselves. Is there any 21stcentury skill more important than being able to sustain coherent, confident conversation?”現(xiàn)在，我的職業(yè)就是跟別人談話。然后他說：“我開始意識到…我開始意識到交流能力，可能是最被我們忽視的，沒有好好教授的技能。《大西洋》雜志等過一篇很棒的文章，作者是高中教室保羅﹒巴恩維爾。We are less likely to promise, which means we’re not listening to each other. And we make decisions about where to live, who to marry and even who our friends are going to be based on what we already believe. Again, that means we’re not listening to each other. A conversation requires a balance between talking and listing, and somewhere along the way, we lost that balance. Now, part of that is due to technology. The smartphones that you all either have in your hands or close enough that you could grab them really quickly.根據(jù)皮尤的研究，大約三分之一的美國青少年每天發(fā)送超過一百條短信。交談需要平靜講述和傾聽，而不知怎么的，我們卻偏偏失去了這種平衡。我們做的各種決定，選擇生活在何處，與誰結(jié)婚甚至和誰交朋友，都只基于我們已有的信念。You know, it used to be that in order to have a polite conversation, we just had to follow the advice of Henry Higgins in “My Fair Lady”: Stick to the weather and your health. But these days, with climate change and antivaxxing, those subjects—are not safe either. So this world that we live in, this world in which every conversation has the potential to devolve into an argument, where our politicians can’t speak to one another, and where even the most trivial of issues have someone fighting both passionately for it and against it, it’s not normal. Pew Research did a study of 10,000 American adults, and they found that at this moment, we are more polarized。甚至為那些雞毛蒜皮的事情，都有人群情緒激昂地贊成或者反對，這太不正常了。但這些年隨著氣候變化以及反對疫苗運動的開展——這招不怎么管用了。下面是她在 TED 上分享的 10 條提高談話質(zhì)量的方法。TED演講：如何成為一個更好的交談者？（中英對照） Celeste Headlee 是一個靠交談吃飯的人，她的工作是電臺主持人。在幾十年的工作中，她學到了很多溝通技巧，同時也發(fā)現(xiàn)居然有如此多的人真的很不會聊天。全是干貨，來一起學習：【視頻請在wifi情況下觀看，文字為中英對照】如何成為一個更好的交談者格魯吉亞公共廣播節(jié)目主持人：Celeste Headlee首先，我想讓大家舉手示意一下，有多少人曾經(jīng)在 Facebook 上拉黑過好友，因為他們發(fā)表過關(guān)于政治，宗教，兒童權(quán)益，或者食物等不恰當?shù)难哉?，有多少人至少有一個不想見的人，因為你就是不想和對方說話？All right, I want to see a show of hands how many of you have unfriended someone on Facebook because they said something offensive about politics or religion, childcare, food? And how many of you know at least one person that you avoid because you just don’t want to talk to them?要知道，在過去想要一段禮貌的交談我們只要遵循亨利﹒希金斯在《窈窕淑女》中的忠告，只談論天氣和你的健康狀況就行了。因此，在我們生活的這個世界，這個每一次交談都有可能發(fā)展為爭論的世界，政客無法彼此交談。皮尤研
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