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【正文】 說(shuō)白了，沒(méi)人在乎那些年份、名字、日期等等這些你努力試圖在腦中回想的種種細(xì)節(jié)，別人不在乎，他們關(guān)注的是你，對(duì)方關(guān)心你是什么樣的人，和你有什么共同點(diǎn)。所以忘掉細(xì)節(jié)吧，別管它們。Number eight: Stay out of the weeds. Frankly, people don39。t care about the years, the names, the dates, all those details that you39。re struggling to e up with in your mind. They don39。t care. What they care about is you. They care about what you39。re like, what you have in mon. So forget the details. Leave them out.第九條：這不是最后一條，但是最重要的一條。認(rèn)真傾聽(tīng)。我說(shuō)不上來(lái)到底有多少重要人士都說(shuō)過(guò)傾聽(tīng)可能是最重要的，第一重要的你可以提升的技能。 佛曰——我轉(zhuǎn)述一下，“如果你嘴不停，你就學(xué)不到東西?！笨栁目铝⒅ピf(shuō)：“從沒(méi)有人是因?yàn)槁?tīng)太多而被開(kāi)除的?！盢umber nine: This is not the last one, but it is the most important one. Listen. I cannot tell you how many really important people have said that listening is perhaps the most, the number one most important skill that you could develop. Buddha said, and I39。m paraphrasing, 39。If your mouth is open, you’re not learning.39。 And Calvin Coolidge said, 39。No man ever listened his way out of a job.39。第十條：簡(jiǎn)明扼要。“好的交談就像恰到好處的迷你裙；足夠短，能夠吸引人，又足夠長(zhǎng)，能夠包納（蓋?。┲黧w——我妹妹的比喻”，所有這些都濃縮成同一個(gè)概念，那就是：對(duì)他人產(chǎn)生興趣。我在一個(gè)名人外公身邊長(zhǎng)大， 我家里賓客絡(luò)繹不絕。訪客會(huì)前來(lái)和我的外祖父母交談，而那些人離開(kāi)后，我母親會(huì)過(guò)來(lái)對(duì)我們說(shuō)：“你們知道那是誰(shuí)嗎？她是美國(guó)小姐的亞軍。他是薩克拉門(mén)托市長(zhǎng)。她拿過(guò)普利策獎(jiǎng)。他是俄羅斯芭蕾舞蹈家?！蔽以诔砷L(zhǎng)中默認(rèn)了每個(gè)人都有不為人知的精彩。說(shuō)真的，我想是這一切讓我成為了更好的主持人。我盡量少說(shuō)話，但開(kāi)放自己的思想，永遠(yuǎn)準(zhǔn)備著大吃一驚，而我從不會(huì)感到失望。你們也可以這樣。走出門(mén)去，和別人交談，聽(tīng)別人說(shuō)，以及最重要的，準(zhǔn)備好大吃一驚。One more rule, number 10, and it39。s this one: Be brief. [A good conversation is like a miniskirt。 short enough to retain interest, but long enough to cover the subject. My Sister] All of this boils down to the same basic concept, and it is this one: Be interested in other people. You know, I grew up with a very famous grandfather, and there was kind of a ritual in my home. People would e over to talk to my grandparents, and after they would leave, my mother would e over to us, and she39。d say, 39。Do you know who that was? She was the runnerup to Miss America. He was the mayor of Sacramento. She won a Pulitzer Prize. He39。s a Russian ballet dancer.39。 And I kind of grew up assuming everyone has some hidden, amazing thing about them. And honestly, I think it39。s what makes me a better host. I keep my mouth shut as often as I possibly can, I keep my mind open, and I39。m always prepared to be amazed, and I39。m never disappointed. You do the same thing. Go out, talk to people, listen to people, and, most importantly, be prepared to be amazed.以上就是今天分享的全部?jī)?nèi)容。不冒犯任何人，不三心二意，不好為人師，不要把自己的經(jīng)歷和他人比較，認(rèn)真傾聽(tīng)，謹(jǐn)言慎行，但開(kāi)放自己的思想，永遠(yuǎn)準(zhǔn)備著大吃一驚。希望 Celeste Headlee 幾十年工作總結(jié)出的 10 條交談心得能幫助大家在與人溝通上更游刃有余。 END “設(shè)計(jì)”是商業(yè)工具，“設(shè)計(jì)力”則是創(chuàng)造性的商業(yè)思維和方法，未來(lái)所有公司都將是設(shè)計(jì)公司。新物種方法論下，“設(shè)計(jì)力” 如何從商品附加功能轉(zhuǎn)變?yōu)樯唐泛诵膬r(jià)值？為什么“設(shè)計(jì)力”是每個(gè)組織、品牌、個(gè)人最應(yīng)該掌握的跨領(lǐng)域科學(xué)思維？以用戶情緒流動(dòng)為核心， 融合場(chǎng)景、用戶行為的“設(shè)計(jì)力”商業(yè)應(yīng)用方法是什么？新物種學(xué)院一期一會(huì)之“設(shè)計(jì)力”報(bào)名中，詳情請(qǐng)點(diǎn)擊??▼關(guān)注場(chǎng)景實(shí)驗(yàn)室第一時(shí)間獲取場(chǎng)景、超級(jí)IP、新物種的干貨內(nèi)容有任何想法、問(wèn)題與建議，歡迎留言與我們互動(dòng)內(nèi)容總結(jié)
（1）TED演講：如何成為一個(gè)更好的交談?wù)?br />（2）我和我喜歡的人交談，也和我不喜歡的人交談
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