【正文】 colorful attire at the wedding party, in the display of the table decorations. The guests are waiting for the arrival of the wedding party (who are busy taking photographs or right after dinner). In western country, there are something old、 something new、 something borrowed. Old means that mother put the headdress or jewelry to the daughter, it behalf of all beautiful and good things. Borrow means that you can borrow something from some wealthy people, which can make you wealthy. Blue means that the bride should wear blue ornaments, which represent the bride39。s marriage is the bination of yin and yang, the aim is to meet mitments by the nature of heaven and earth. The main secular view of marriage is peopleoriented. China has thousand years of feudal society, so it has already included some strong feudalistic ideal. The marriage concept of Perfect match is out of the traditional Chinese marriage which belongs to the secular ideology. Under the clan system of “three obedience and four virtues”, the women cannot have their own ideals. As if everything is arranged, their fate cannot change. The policy of cementing friendly relations through political marriages was a typical example in history. Western marriage custom is influenced deeply by religion. So they are equal unlike Chinese who pay more attentions to boy, western people regard girl as the love of crystal. Although there are also some unequal in foreign countries in the history, pare with Chinese traditional custom that is not obvious. . Marriage Concepts The Bible says “the man shall leave his father and his wife, and they shall bee one. Jesus teaches us, they are no longer two, they are one body, so god has joined together, he do not let the two person separate. Today, the bride and groom in front of god are given the covenant. People have to remember whether you have mon thought, your actions must consider your other half, the other side should feel that you are one body. Friends are excited in the three words, those words is not just the words, it behalf the god will bless you. Thus we can see the western wedding care more about in spirit. In traditional Chinese concept, people regard the marriage as a kind of ways to increase families, to protect and enhance family’s reputation and position. The marriage was looked as the important 16 event of family that was not just behalf of one’s own event. The love between the man and the woman was not the first selection of marriage. In western countries, they are equal in position。s lives . Marriage shows the face of the social life and ethnic groups, as well as aesthetics, ethics, values, religion and the development trend of the national psychology. The marriage custom is the man who creates the culture and accumulates the spiritual wealth. As a union of a man and a woman and a family formation stage, marriage includes not only marriage, but also the preparation phase for the marriage and the performance stage after the festivities. It runs through the whole process of life. Western country also has a long history. Due to the influence of a particular environment in the west, they have their distinctive culture, which is differ from Chinese culture. Ancient China has many plex and traditional customs. It reflects the various customs in ancient Chinese culture, which is formed in the long life gradually. With the development of economic and the acceleration of globalization, the Western culture began to advance a more extensive impact and blending. The study of Marriage make us have a better understanding of Western culture, marriage customs, it also broaden our horizons. Comparative study of the marriage custom between Chinese and western culture, we will have a study of specific values in different countries. Because of these gorgeous, colorful wedding customs, we can see more 14 beautiful landscape in human society. In modern Chinese wedding, if the two people begin to invite guests, it represent that they will hold the wedding ceremony. Generally, guest received a wedding invitation in one week in advance, but there are also some couples will be notified people in one month in advance. The bride and groom just want we know they will get married. This is only a small different point in wedding. In the middle Ages, there was a big difference between Chinese and western countries in the marriage ceremony. The main reason is that the wedding has different cultural roots. The concept of marriage and religious factors, cultural factors are examples of influencing factors between different countries. Chinese wedding culture is shocked by the Western wedding culture, now many young people in the wedding ceremony often adopt the western wedding. Hence, what is the influence of cultural interaction among the different environment? what kind of differences between Chinese wedding and Western wedding? Chapter Two Three factors affect Chinese and Western Wedding Religions Different countries have different cultures, so they may believe in a different religion. Most people in china believe in Buddhism. Christianity is the most influential religion in the west. Hence, the wedding usually holds in the Western church and the priest presides at Wedding ceremony. Under the witness of the godfather, according to their individual thought, they get married. Every phase of man’s life is touched by this religion, so that it has bee part and parcel of western culture. The most important part of traditional Chinese wedding is preparing for the wedding, once this process pleted, the man and woman bee couples. Confucian patriarchal ideology is the core values in ancient Chinese traditional wedding。 [關(guān)鍵字 ]： 婚俗 ,不同點(diǎn) ,文化 13 Chen Yufeng Business English 0901 30 March 2020 Differences between