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issues/fears/needs? 4 Where are they in the process of change in the 9 steps? The next step/task is? 5. Are there pivotal incidents that crystallize issues, in relationship history, in session? 6. Are there key images, definitions of self that partners use? 7. What are the current blocks to engagement with emotions, engagement with other? 8. Is the alliance with the therapist in tact? 9. What happened in the last session (process)? 10. What are this couple’s strengths? Beginning an EFT Session ? Check the alliance, Is it intact with both partners? How do you know? ? What is the main negative cycle? Who does what? ? What are the primary emotions underlying the cycle? ? What are the linked attachment fears and issues related to the cycle? Beginning an EFT Session ? Where is the couple in the EFT steps? ? What are the pivotal incidents in the relationship which have defined the relationship as safe or unsafe? ? What are the key images/definitions of self and each partner? ? How is the cycle playing a role in blocking emotional engagement within relationship? Beginning an EFT Session ? Review the highlights and processes of the last session. ? What are the strengths in this relationship? What are the strengths of each partner? ? Review the focus and direction of the session. ?Review steps and make a tangible therapeutic goal for the session. 。 Reformulating Emotion ? Heightening ?Using repetition, images, metaphors, enactments ?Highlighting key experiences that anize responses to the partner and new formulations of experience that will reanize the interaction Exploring amp。 Reformulating Emotion ? Validation ?Legitimizing responses and supporting clients to continue to explore how they construct their experience and their interactions ?Building the alliance Exploring amp。 Reformulating Emotion ? Reflecting Emotional Experience ?Focusing the therapy process ?Building amp。 catching the bullet Reflection ? Reflecting client’s experience ? Reflecting nonverbal munication ?Verbal and nonverbal munication incongruence Validation ? Validating client’s experience ? Careful validation Reframing ? Need to understand issues the clients are struggling with. ? Shifts focus, validates and redirects. Catching the bullet ? Interrupting hurtful ments/negative cycles – works to create safety Remember the 3 Tasks of EFT 1. Create and maintaining a therapeutic alliance. 2. Accessing and reformulating emotion. 3. Restructuring key interactions. Core Interventions ? Once