【正文】 He loved music, then could be Mozart；He liked drawing，may be another Van. Gogh. As the result of these, she devoted her life unselfishly to Einstein, and with the encouragement, Einstein developed faster and faster, finally a great scientist has been made. It was the policy of the good old gentlemen to make his children feel that home was the happiest place in the world。 6. When children are young, they are allowed to have private space，lay stress on children39。 have the right of speech and the right to participate，parents encourage children “reserve opinion”，”disobedient” in thought，American psychologist Torrens found naughty boy usually have high creativity。 2. Rich rather than luxury. Western family average ine is decades times higher than Chinese，but difference is they don’t reward children through pocket money，the purpose is to let children know studying hard is not for anybody，but for themselves。 6. Lightheeled economy，not only rich family，but also poor family，they will fasten waist belt to satisfy what their children’s request and lust，they care about kid’s physiological need，but despise their psychological goal，ignore culturing the health personality and chastening the mind，this make our children with lower psychological withstanding ability, and even a small knock can make them sad or confuse，and all of these are cause by ourselves, we must dope it out. Chinese parents want children do what they want them to do, no matter they like it or not，which produces a great impact on children’s future. Almost every Chinese parents expect their children to be outstanding, so they would like to spare their no efforts to provide children with a more favorable growing environment——for they believe it is worth if children get a better future. And during this process of giving, parents usually make a example, then tell their children “this is what you should be，if you don’t do, you will not improve and unsuccessful”. At the same time, they sacrifice their children’s imagination to build extraordinary abilities. That’s why Chinese parents pay more attention to class lessons than learning in life. The method in China is often no more than the mode of “Teaching by holding his hand”. Parents prefer to directly telling children the results, rather than show the process. Over time, they will suffer from psychological dependence, ignoring the importance of selfexploration. And that’s why most Chinese students lack of creativity. In China, a promising future, a good job, a good life of their children is the most important thing parents only care. Based on these expectations, the majority of parents feel that their responsibility for their children is to create as good conditions as possible they can so that the children will not worry about anything in the future. In short, they prepare what they can to ensure their children have a better life. In Chinese family, affected by Chinese traditional culture, parents educate children by “control” and “seal” type. To sum up, we can get some enlightenment from the organization of Chinese and western family education. We should encourage our children to finger things out by themselves，and believe they can research alone，manipulate alone，make a tolerant environment for them，build a more beneficial atmosphere to create. Kids’s quest usually with proactive and certain attitude，so what we need to do is not prevent them，but allow them to explore the world，change the world. In the film 《Gua Sha Treatment》, there is a scene that Datong ordered his son to apologize to his boss’s son when his saw his son was fighting with his boss’s son . What’s more, he slapped his son in the face when his son refused to apologize, which gave his boss quite a shock . His boss became confused why the father would show the regret by striking his son. This scene and the boss’s confusion reflect the different concepts between the two countries. Traditional Chinese family education emphasize kindheartedness and obedience, so we can say that Chinese parents like Datong in the film always want to model their children . On the contrary, America children have more rights of autonomy because their parents emphasis on justice and freedom in the process of family education.B. The Western Family Education MethodsIn western countries, parents pay attention to train children’s selfcare ability and selfreliance, because the mental health is important to them. They like municating with children, to observe their emotional change, and to take care of children’s need, here by to make sure them with goahead spirit，allround development and can be a person who earned his own living. Most American parents emphasize more to train their children’s ability of independence once they are born because they think that children should form a selfsupporting will and the capacity to live independently since their childhood. And the capacity es from the training in the early age What do western parents insist on their children all the way is to let them learn how to survive and how to adapt to different environment. There is one slogan among them，that’s “if you want to spend money earn it yourself.” Parents always give children confidence and inspiration，emphasize personal striving，and pay more attention to respect others from inside，they put daily routine a very significant position. Western children usually have following characters：1. Preferring suffer than lovability. During the time of children39。 ，Chinese parents protect the children to excess in social activities . Many children are prevented from exposure to the outer world because their parents worry about children’s being affected by bad things ,they afraid children would burn their fingers, when something bad or quarry happen between their boys and others’，parents usually help their own kids accuse the opposition，even give rise to a dispute，this make a negative effect to children。 field sport. Chinese students have endless h