【正文】 能干的人，不在情緒上計較，只在做事上認真；無能的人！不在做事上認真，只在情緒上計較。什么是奮斗？奮斗就是每天很難，可一年一年卻越來越容易。t imagine the problem was. Analysis：the definition of friendship is different between Chinese and Western countries culture, in China, we think that we should do things all as one wishes and stay together everyday—eating together, shopping together and so on. We always say—“A friend indeed is a friend in need”.In this case, ruifang treat his secretary like this way makes her secretary feel unfortable. In western countries, no matter how intimate their friendship is, they should make an appointment in advance, and they should have their own private space.Case 2：Linhua has acpanied an American delegation to visit have experienced the hospitality of the Chinese people. After returning to America, Linhua once visited were so glad to meet again. Linhua offered to host the meal, but they refused. They ordered their own dish, and Linhua ordered her own. When footing the bill, they only paid their part, and no one wanted to pay for found them so inhospitable, though she knew the .Analysis:In China, people usually invite guests to have a meal at home to express their hospitality, and even have a meal outside, they also always pay the overall bills. However, in America, they always pay the bill for themselves when they have a meal outside to express the equality.Case 2:One cold winter day in a Chinese city, Wang Lin on his way to the library met an American professor who knew very little about greeting him,Wang said:“It’s rather ’d better put on more clothes.”But the professor didn’t appear happy on hearing this. Analysis:Americans and most western countries’ people dislike to be told how to do the things. They intend to be independent. However, in China, people are accustomed to care about others. In this case, Wang lin’s suggestion express a regard to others, but to Americans, it’s not they want to accept.Analysis:In the West,it is very Common for family members to praise each other ,and they will fell very happy and fortable to do ,Chinese people seldom praise their family members in tend to be very humble,and are used to depreciating their family Members’ good the west , it is not proper to describe one’s wife as old woman, and “you have a beautiful wife” is a very mon and popular praise. While in China , it is not proper to praise one’s wife in this way.A famous Chinese actress married a German. One day when she was acting, her husband was There watching,saying again and again that she was the best actress. The actress’ colleaguesPresent asked her afterwards to tell her husband not to praise his own wife like that in public. On Learning this,the German wondered what he did wrong. Once the actress and her husband were talking with their Chinese friends at a 3, the definition of friendship is different between Chinese and Western countries culture, in China, we think that we should do things all as one wishes and stay together everyday—eating together, shopping together and so on. W