【正文】 there are different ways of thinking. Americans are rationalism. The family education of USA uses the rational basic principle to treat family members and family affairs. They are equal in American view, the raising and educating obligation and the obligation due to the society. This transcends the personal position. It treats 攀枝花學(xué)院本科畢業(yè)論文 Body 9 the family education not totally from the family or parents39。 own advantages. They think that it is an obligation to bring up children. So do not just pursue to raise sons to provide for the aged. It is a person39。s finally home that enter to the old people39。s home when he is old. (Certainly, these Chinese are used to regarding as the immoral method ing from USA social security mechanism and culture). From the perspective of Chinese, the emotion is the most important thing. For example, Chinese regard emotion as the rule, dealing with family interpersonal relationships. Chinese parents regard children as own private property, from individual providing for the aged or individual reputation view realize children39。s education. Parents imply the strong personal relationships of return a favor with a favor” in the best care. Therefore, it is easy to understand why Chinese parents hope their children will have a bright future is stronger than USA. III. Measures to Improve Individual Ability This essay makes general parison between China and the United States。 there is specific particularity in family education. Moreover, there are obvious deficiencies in American family education after paring with China. For example, there are great deal of teenager social problems because of being too free。 too rational, make children lack responsibility on supporting the old man39。s。 etc. Obviously, this essay neither agrees with the American family education totally, nor negates the Chinese family education totally. The writer attempts to initiate the thinking of the Chinese family education reform on the brain of parison ChineseAmerican family education: A. Changing Suitable Educational Concept Many children with natural endowments have serious problems finally. To a great extent it is caused by parents’ wrong education concept. Children develop well with changing ideas. It is very important to change the education concept. Setting up the right concept of family education involves on building the new idea of children development. As for the education problem, parents must change their educational concept. Parents can not measure and tie modern children with old and back education idea continually. On the contrary, they pay attention to accept new 攀枝花學(xué)院本科畢業(yè)論文 Body 10 education thought. So the family education can catch up with the changing times. On the one hand, the parents should respect the children and find the advantages from them. The children are not the parents39。 attachment or private property. The children are an independent. The parents should get along with the children equally. Respecting the children is the true love. Because respecting can produce inner motion, the children can develop on their initiative. Along with the development of modern society, it is possible that the children are quicker and earlier than parents on accepting new knowledge, new idea and new method. The children’s independent abilities and educating themselves abilities are stronger with them growing up. This is a symbol of the society progress. It is the important way that parents study from the children to go out of the mistaken idea. On the other hand, setting up correct the children view is necessary. The correct children view must include the following several fundamental points. Firstly, children are human, and the same adults who have the emotion, have the individuality, and have the independent personality. They are not the mon animal。 they have the personality, and need to obtain the respect. Secondly, children are the underage people, so they need educating. But the parents should allow them to make mistakes, allow them to play, cannot request them to be perfect. Children have the activity。 they are not the parents’ hand. Any education must be able to turn their thing after children subjective filtration. Children have the potential. Their plasticity is very strong, the potential is very big. Finally, children grow up adults eventually. The parents should not worry about them excessively, must let them exercise, let them are independent gradually, let them are in the problem and difficulty. B. Understanding Definite Educational Purpose Changing the education for talents to the education for adult is a good way. Through analyzing, it is obvious that the education purpose of the American family is to produce more innovative talents, and raise more people who have the ability of adapting the modern society development. It is no doubt that there can appear mistaken idea in the atmosphere of examoriented education in the Chinese family education, the education purpose utility has strangled many talents. Changing the current situation will need efforts inside and outside the family. Along with the improvement of social productivity, the enhancement of social petition and the opening that people chose a job, children’s overall abilities will be paid attention to. In 攀枝花學(xué)院本科畢業(yè)論文 Body 11 fact, this kind of overall abilities is basic adult education. Regarding adult education as family education purpose, will make the Chinese family education go out of the mistaken idea, make teenagers39。 growth suit the need of one39。s own and social development. On the other hand, the parents should offer a good environment for children. The family members should respect e