【文章內(nèi)容簡(jiǎn)介】 uring force that brings real meaning to our everyday ，唯一永恒的主題就是愛。愛，盡管它的存在形式非常脆弱，卻是唯一強(qiáng)大而持久的力量，它給我們的日常生活帶來了真正的意義。Of course, I’m not talking about romantic, “kissykissy” love, althoughthat is pretty stuff in ，我不是在談?wù)摿_曼蒂克、卿卿我我的愛，盡管那本身也是一種相當(dāng)強(qiáng)大的力量。It’s well documented that a broken heart feels far more painful than squeezing lemon juice over a deep paper ，But the love I mean is the fire that burns inside us all, the inner warmth that prevents our soul from freezing in the winters of ’s the loveof life ，我所說的愛是在我們內(nèi)心深處燃燒的火焰，是這種內(nèi)心的溫暖是的心靈不會(huì)被令人絕望地的冬天冰封。It’s the voice that says ”Celebrate life, be creative!” It brings with it the passion and understanding that some things in life are worth dying for, but there is so much more worth living ，在說：“擁抱生命，盡情創(chuàng)造吧！”隨之而來的時(shí)對(duì)生命的激情和理解：生命中有些東西是值得為之赴湯蹈火的，何況還有那么多值得為之It encourages us to greet each moment the same way we greet an old friend at the airport, to embrace opportunities to express ourselves in a way that makes us feel glad we ，就像在機(jī)場(chǎng)迎接一位故友，它鼓勵(lì)我們擁抱展現(xiàn)自我的機(jī)會(huì)，讓我們?yōu)榇嬖诙械娇鞓?。This love of life leads us to help others simply because it feels great tocontribute to those around ，僅僅因?yàn)闉橹車娜俗鲂┦虑楦杏X實(shí)在是太好了。We all know how wonderful it feels to be a rock for our family and，成為家人和朋友的可靠支柱是美好的感覺，But as good as it sounds, and as “you’re here to live the life you love” rings true, it still brings up a whole pile of sticky ，盡管這聽起來蠻不錯(cuò)的，“你來到世上就是為了過自己喜愛的生活”，這好像也不錯(cuò)，可是仍然有一大堆糾纏不清的問題。Specifically: Why exactly are you here? What is it that you truly love? 特別是:你到底為什么來到這世上？你真正摯愛的是什么？ People who don’t ask themselves these questions invariably go through life wondering why it isn’t a lot more ，不知道為什么沒有更多的樂趣。They often feel they’ve been left 。Or they can’t quite put it into words, but they sense that something justsmells a little ，但的確察覺到有些東西味道不對(duì)。The truth is that often we’re so focused on what we are doing that we losesight of where we are ，我們經(jīng)常過于專注眼前的事情，而看不到前進(jìn)的方向。But what are we actually doing? The modern world is filled with questionable distractions, deadlines, and ，我們實(shí)際上在做什么呢？現(xiàn)代世界充滿了令人質(zhì)疑的干擾、時(shí)限和次序。Day and night blur into 。We get caught up in an avalanche of fears and desires that propel us into arace we can’t possible ，強(qiáng)迫我們加入一場(chǎng)不可能獲勝的賽跑。So we rush, rush, rush to get to a certain ideal point in our life, and thenwhat?于是我們跑啊，跑啊，奔向生活中的一個(gè)理想目標(biāo)，可然后怎么辦呢？ It’s just like when you drive all the way to the store, get out of the car, and then can’t remember what you came ，趕快下車，然后竟然無法想起要買什么。So many of us start off dreaming about a wonderful life that is wild and，我們?cè)S多人一開始都?jí)粝脒^一種無拘無束、自由馳聘的美好生活，But that’s usually a long way from where we actually end 。Sadly, we often discover this fact right at the end, when it’s too can’t start all over ，我們往往到最后才發(fā)現(xiàn)這個(gè)事實(shí)，但為時(shí)已晚。And let me tell you, there are some awfully bad feelings in this “bubbles in the bath” ，這個(gè)世界上有許多極其糟糕的感覺，比如，“洗澡時(shí)水面冒泡”般的內(nèi)疚?！皃ungent foot odor in the shoe store” embarrassment.“買鞋時(shí)發(fā)出難聞的腳臭”般的尷尬，And “I can’t believe I did that on the first date” “我不敢相信第一次約會(huì)自己就做了那件事”般的焦慮。But of all the awful feelings that make you feel sick to your stomach, nothing feels half as bad as knowing you had a chance to do what youtruly love, and you didn’t take ，最糟糕的么莫過于明明知道曾經(jīng)有機(jī)會(huì)做真正喜愛的事，卻沒有抓住機(jī)會(huì)。So what is your life’s passion? What were you put on this earth to do? The answer to these questions will unlock the great mystery of life。it’s asbig as they ，你生活中的激情是什么呢？你被帶到這個(gè)地球上，到底是為了什么?這些問題的答案將解開生活的難解之謎，它就像問題來臨時(shí)一樣重大。Here are a few hints that may help you get on the right track: 下面是幾點(diǎn)啟示，也許能幫助你開始有益的思考：First, no one is going to tell you about ’s like walking around all day with a sign on your back that says ”Kick me.” You must discover it for，沒人會(huì)提醒你。這就像整天背著一塊“踢我一腳”的招牌走來走去。你必須自己發(fā)現(xiàn)問題。It’s also highly unlikely that one day you’ll suddenly be bathed in bright light and your life’s purpose will be laid out in a divine ，這樣的事情也極不可能：突然有一天，你沐浴在明亮的陽光下，你的生活目標(biāo)神奇地展示在眼前。And it’s guaranteed that you won’t find it on ，在電視上找到答案也純屬癡心妄想。Yes, it’s remotely possible that one day the blood will rush to your brain and enable you to work it all out wi