【正文】 ection may cause the brain to swell to dangerous me, it’s worth the ，這種強烈的內(nèi)省會使大腦膨脹到危險的境地。不要管是誰動了你的奶酪，先問問自己為什么要尋找奶酪!For some people this will simply be a case of seeking out the moments in their life that are beautiful and true and then building a plan around ，這只不過是尋找生命中美麗而真實的時刻，并圍繞它們制定一個計劃。很簡單：“想從生活中得到更多的人請舉手。But the best way is to spend some quality time alone, asking yourself thetough ，最好的辦法是保證一些高質(zhì)量的獨處時間，好好想一想這些棘手的問題。And it’s guaranteed that you won’t find it on ，在電視上找到答案也純屬癡心妄想。你必須自己發(fā)現(xiàn)問題。Here are a few hints that may help you get on the right track: 下面是幾點啟示，也許能幫助你開始有益的思考：First, no one is going to tell you about ’s like walking around all day with a sign on your back that says ”Kick me.” You must discover it for，沒人會提醒你。So what is your life’s passion? What were you put on this earth to do? The answer to these questions will unlock the great mystery of life?！皃ungent foot odor in the shoe store” embarrassment.“買鞋時發(fā)出難聞的腳臭”般的尷尬，And “I can’t believe I did that on the first date” “我不敢相信第一次約會自己就做了那件事”般的焦慮。Sadly, we often discover this fact right at the end, when it’s too can’t start all over ，我們往往到最后才發(fā)現(xiàn)這個事實，但為時已晚。So we rush, rush, rush to get to a certain ideal point in our life, and thenwhat?于是我們跑啊，跑啊，奔向生活中的一個理想目標，可然后怎么辦呢？ It’s just like when you drive all the way to the store, get out of the car, and then can’t remember what you came ，趕快下車，然后竟然無法想起要買什么。Day and night blur into 。The truth is that often we’re so focused on what we are doing that we losesight of where we are ，我們經(jīng)常過于專注眼前的事情，而看不到前進的方向。They often feel they’ve been left 。We all know how wonderful it feels to be a rock for our family and，成為家人和朋友的可靠支柱是美好的感覺，But as good as it sounds, and as “you’re here to live the life you love” rings true, it still brings up a whole pile of sticky ，盡管這聽起來蠻不錯的，“你來到世上就是為了過自己喜愛的生活”，這好像也不錯，可是仍然有一大堆糾纏不清的問題。It’s the voice that says ”Celebrate life, be creative!” It brings with it the passion and understanding that some things in life are worth dying for, but there is so much more worth living ，在說：“擁抱生命，盡情創(chuàng)造吧！”隨之而來的時對生命的激情和理解：生命中有些東西是值得為之赴湯蹈火的，何況還有那么多值得為之It encourages us to greet each moment the same way we greet an old friend at the airport, to embrace opportunities to express ourselves in a way that makes us feel glad we ，就像在機場迎接一位故友，它鼓勵我們擁抱展現(xiàn)自我的機會，讓我們?yōu)榇嬖诙械娇鞓?。Of course, I’m not talking about romantic, “kissykissy” love, althoughthat is pretty stuff in ，我不是在談論羅曼蒂克、卿卿我我的愛，盡管那本身也是一種相當強大的力量。好吧，也許一個漫長的周末可以這樣，但是整個生命歷程呢？ In fact, e a tiny bit closer and I’ll let you in on a little secret事實上，靠近一點兒，讓我告訴你一個小秘密All these ideas sound pletely stupid!所有這些想法聽起來都愚蠢無比！!The only theme that resonates throughout the numerous popular life theories is , in all its fragile forms, is the one powerful, enduring force that brings real meaning to our everyday ，唯一永恒的主題就是愛。畢竟，繁衍后代的迫切需要已經(jīng)深深地印在了每個物種的基因圖譜中。it just “is”.Whoa, that’sjust so “deep!”也有人說，生命根本沒有目的，生命就是“存在”。So what is life all about? Well, you often hear that “l(fā)ife is a journey,” buta journey to where, exactly?那么生命的意義何在？嗯，你經(jīng)常聽人們說”生命是一段旅程”，但確切地說，這段旅程的目的地是哪兒？Some people say that life is all about acquiring that’s true, then why do smart people always dress so badly? 有些人說，生命的意義在于獲取知識。With those filters removed, you can take a closer look into yourself and ask objective questions about the universe and your place in other words, investigate the meaning of ，你可以更真切地發(fā)現(xiàn)自我，詢問有關宇宙以及你在其中的位置這類客觀問題。And then accept a degrading level of conformity in virtually every facetof our lives? 繼而又大言不慚地承認，幾乎在生命的每一個方面，我們都存在共性呢？Why do children believe in fairies, but “grownup” don’t?為什么孩子相信神話，而“大人”不相信呢？And why do we get so hung up on what we don’t agree on, when in fact it’s our differences that make life interesting?為什么我們對分歧毫不讓步，而事實上，正是彼此間的差異才使生命如此有趣？We all have filters on, so we mostly see only what we want to you finally open your eyes, you may be shocked at the obscured way you have been viewing the world to suit you own little ，所以大多數(shù)人只看到自己想看到的東西。Why do we create our own little worlds so we have the illusion of bein