ted演講：如何成為一個(gè)更好的交談?wù)?中英對(duì)照)-閱讀頁
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【正文】 think about it, and you39。也就是說，想法會(huì)自然流入你的頭腦，而你需要將它們表達(dá)出來。這說明主持人可能兩分鐘前就沒在聽，因?yàn)樗氲搅诉@個(gè)非常機(jī)智的問題，于是就心心念念想著問這個(gè)問題。當(dāng)我們和某人坐在一起交談時(shí)，我們突然想起那次和休Number four: Go with the flow. That means thoughts will e into your mind and you need to let them go out of your mind. We39。s already been answered. That means the host probably stopped listening two minutes ago because he thought of this really clever question, and he was just bound and determined to say that. And we do the exact same thing. We39。廣播節(jié)目里的人，尤其在全國公共廣播電臺(tái)（NPR）中，非常明白他們的談話會(huì)被播放出去。要學(xué)著這樣做，謹(jǐn)言慎行，談話應(yīng)該是負(fù)責(zé)任的行為。t know, say that you don39。re going on the record, and so they39。如果對(duì)方談?wù)撌チ思胰?，不要就?shì)開始說你失去家人的事情。這不一樣的，永遠(yuǎn)不可能一樣。而且，更重要的是，這不是在談?wù)撃愕氖?。有人曾問史蒂芬拿智商吹牛的人都是屌絲。re talking about having lost a family member, don39。re talking about the trouble they39。t tell them about how much you hate your job. It39。I have no idea. People who brag about their IQs are losers.39。這很咄咄逼人，也很無聊。尤其是在工作交談中，或者和孩子的交談中。Number seven: Try not to repeat yourself. It39。s really boring, and we tend to do it a lot. Especially in work conversations or in conversations with our kids, we have a point to make, so we just keep rephrasing it over and over. Don39。說白了，沒人在乎那些年份、名字、日期等等這些你努力試圖在腦中回想的種種細(xì)節(jié)，別人不在乎，他們關(guān)注的是你，對(duì)方關(guān)心你是什么樣的人，和你有什么共同點(diǎn)。Number eight: Stay out of the weeds. Frankly, people don39。re struggling to e up with in your mind. They don39。re like, what you have in mon. So forget the details. Leave them out.第九條：這不是最后一條，但是最重要的一條。我說不上來到底有多少重要人士都說過傾聽可能是最重要的，第一重要的你可以提升的技能?！笨栁摹盢umber nine: This is not the last one, but it is the most important one. Listen. I cannot tell you how many really important people have said that listening is perhaps the most, the number one most important skill that you could develop. Buddha said, and I39。If your mouth is open, you’re not learning.39。No man ever listened his way out of a job.39。“好的交談就像恰到好處的迷你裙；足夠短，能夠吸引人，又足夠長，能夠包納（蓋?。┲黧w——我妹妹的比喻”，所有這些都濃縮成同一個(gè)概念，那就是：對(duì)他人產(chǎn)生興趣。訪客會(huì)前來和我的外祖父母交談，而那些人離開后，我母親會(huì)過來對(duì)我們說：“你們知道那是誰嗎？她是美國小姐的亞軍。她拿過普利策獎(jiǎng)?！蔽以诔砷L中默認(rèn)了每個(gè)人都有不為人知的精彩。我盡量少說話，但開放自己的思想，永遠(yuǎn)準(zhǔn)備著大吃一驚，而我從不會(huì)感到失望。走出門去，和別人交談，聽別人說，以及最重要的，準(zhǔn)備好大吃一驚。s this one: Be brief. [A good conversation is like a miniskirt。d say, 39。s a Russian ballet dancer.39。s what makes me a better host. I keep my mouth shut as often as I possibly can, I keep my mind open, and I39。m never disappointed. You do the same thing. Go out, talk to people, listen to people, and, most importantly, be prepared to be amazed.以上就是今天分享的全部?jī)?nèi)容。希望 Celeste Headlee 幾十年工作總結(jié)出的 10 條交談心得能幫助大家在與人溝通上更游刃有余。新物種方法論下，“設(shè)計(jì)力” 如何從商品附加功能轉(zhuǎn)變?yōu)樯唐泛诵膬r(jià)值？為什么“設(shè)計(jì)力”是每個(gè)組織、品牌、個(gè)人最應(yīng)該掌握的跨領(lǐng)域科學(xué)思維？以用戶情緒流動(dòng)為核心， 融合場(chǎng)景、用戶行為的“設(shè)計(jì)力”商業(yè)應(yīng)用方法是什么？新物種學(xué)院一期一會(huì)之“設(shè)計(jì)力”報(bào)名中，詳情請(qǐng)點(diǎn)擊??▼關(guān)注場(chǎng)景實(shí)驗(yàn)室第一時(shí)間獲取場(chǎng)景、超級(jí)IP、新物種的干貨內(nèi)容有任何想法、問題與建議，歡迎留言與我們互動(dòng)內(nèi)容總結(jié)
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