【正文】 can develop children39。 they are equal to municate. Fourth, the American parents respect children on privacy.Chinese parents promote closed education. Chinese family education methods are also reflected in four aspects: First, Children rarely have the right to express their views. Second, the right of Chinese children to choose is limited. Third, the parents and their children have a clear position. Fourth, China39。s privacy. of family education between China and AmericaBecause the concepts and the methods of family education are different, the education results show some obvious differences. The children and youth in the United States show the following characters when they are young. Firstly, their abilities of independence are very strong. They do not depend on their parents or families once they are 18 years old. They often do some parttime jobs to supply their consuming requirements. Even many students from rich families also do parttime jobs. Secondly, they are able to adapt to the market economy. American children begin to manage the finance when they are young, which let children deeply understand that it is not easy to earn money, and help them to form a good habit. For instance, There are two brothers (one is 12 years old, the other is 14 years old) in New York, who establish a pany of washing cars independently under the affection of their parents. They work very hard and ask for little payments. In order to reduce the cost and get more customers, they would rather walk to the stores where the price is lower to buy tools, wax scours and so on. Thirdly, they have abilities adapting to social environments, because they have experienced the life through their own work. Many teenagers in America are not afraid of bitterness and have the perseverance of overing difficulties. They can face difficulties calmly and live harmoniously with people around them。 and in society, they lack social responsibilities. Supposing if a person only cares about himself, what can he bring for the society? It is not difficult for us to distinguish the better one between the two kinds of family education. problems of family education between China and America Main problems of Chinese family education Parents’ wrong values and wrong behaviors are the main problems. If the parents often talk about some positive perspectives, for example, money talks, their children may form an idea that people are living for money. Chinese parents seldom care about family education and they may force their children to live in the design for the future without considering the child39。 they do not have enough time to get along with their children. Main problems of American family educationDue to spoiling the children and lack of munication, a lot of social problems came out. Americans believe that every member of the family should have their own space. They have little time being together with their parents and therefore they do not have much sense of responsibility to their parents. American people emphasize the enjoyable learning too much.4. Reasons for differences of family education between China and AmericaChina and the America are the modern society。 stable working in China, Chinese people always put all the happiness in the workplace. Their job choices are limited. Chinese parents believe that good grades can bring their children good work. Different social conditions.America has a good economic condition。s education is closely linked to their lives. They regard their children as their own property and they will ask their children to repay them. Different traditional cultures Different valuesAmericans pay attention to personality. They pay attention to their own interests, promoting personal improvement and to find their true value. Unlike the Americans, the Chinese people don’t pay attention to personality. They have one of the most important ideas, which is the collective spirit. In other words, they are used to taking things to an overall consideration. Emphasizing the collective interest is more important than individual interests. Chinese believe that a pers