【正文】
ildren has grown up . The article attempts to analyze the differences in Chinese and Western family education , and the causes of forming the differences . Besides , it provides a conducive family educational remendations. Key words Family education Ways of educating Values Differences Introduction. Family education indicates the influence to the development of children in the process of municating between parents and a child . It is also the most important one among all the ways of education . In view of many differences in culture , economy , family background , educated ways , hence it results in the obvious difference in family education between China and Western countries . To recognize the fact correctly will promote the development of family education in our country . For Chinese families , what they focus on is “ order ” and “ obedience ” , while they pay attention to “ fairness ” and “ freedom ” in West .Chinese parents are dominators who control their children , thus what the children only do is to accept all the arranged things submissively . Parents always decide their children?s natural development . Consequently , they have deprived of free agency of children . However , in Western countries , parents often focus on children?s decisionmaking power .Under the permitted circumstances by society , children is allowed the problem they have met . familys’ ways of educating . On studying Chinese parents pay a special attention to their children ?s achievement in learning . No matter what their children want , they will satisfy children?s all the needs only is children can get a perfect performance in examination . Therefore , in daily life ,children are demanded to reading , practice and learning . As a result , their genius are ignored . Parents limit children?s creativity .Consequently , in order to cultivate the socalled genius but snuff out a real genius . Besides ,Chinese family education , the inculcated education which asks children to recite some experienced knowledge without any prehension . Thus it leads to kill the children?s imagination and creativity .At the same time ,Chinese children is lacking of operating by hand . On life At first , what most of Chinese parents is always thinking is how to protect their own child , when his child quarrels even fights with others .Even if they know their children have made a mistake , they still try to have their children got rid of the responsibility . Under this condition ,the conflicts is often raised between the two sides of parents . Besides , in China , it is the mon fact that parents help their children wash clothes , make a bed ,etc . They even want to help their children resolve any problems that their children ha