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t be blamed because there is a democratic equal relationship between parents and children . Few parents pel their children to obey their thoughts . They won?t ask their children to lead a life according to their way of life . What I have just mentioned is good for children to municate with their parents . Children and parents , think each other as friends . families’ values of educating In China , parents ask their children to go to school in order that their children can make a living . In parents? opinion , degree is the most important . Children must be educated in a serious way and get a good performance . Only in this way can they get the degree , thereby obtaining a decent job . If their children do good in studying , parents will hold their head high and lift up their horn . Parents tell their children to bine their own interest with their family?s interest . Therefore , for a child ,to go to school is not only for the sake of themselves , but also the whole family?s . Children should assume the responsibility to get a decent job for family?s face . What?s more ,in China , parents from different families always like paring their children . Parents often take their own children?s advantages to pare other children?s disadvantages , thereby achieving to fort themselves . Parents also chat about children?s grade . “ whose child is the first ? whose child is admitted to a famous university ? ” Parents will feel lose face if their children have poor learning performance. families’ values of educating . In Western countries , parents teach their children how to survive in the petitive society . Children learn knowledge ,without utilitarianism , and they just learn something that they are interested . In western parents? views ,one person?s ability is the most important in all learning . They focus on that children?s prehensive quality should be cultivated .Therefore , for a child , to occupy enough abilities is much more important than to learn knowledge . What?s more , in western families ,individual interest is separated with the whole family?s . They attach importance to individual freedom and power . cause of forming the difference . The different background of economics. For China ,on one hand, backward economics , pressured survival , a “ Degree of social ” whose the mobility of industry is not very good . As a result , Chinese often want to devote their whole life to the one job . On the other hand , social pension insurance in China is not perfect . Parents consider their children? education from the perspective of personal pension . However , in western countries , especially the United States , the advanced productive forces , developed economic , small pressure on the survival . What