【正文】 e to be big gestures, but it39。s the little things they do for you that people may be reacting to the energy you39。re putting out。perhaps you think they don39。t care about you so you don39。t make any effort in your showing people you care, so they can show you back in if you don39。t have good relationships with the people you know, what39。s stopping you from making new friends?家人朋友都不關(guān)心你，這種情況其實不太常見?？赡苣氵^于消極的想法使你忽略了他們對你表達的愛。他們甚至并不需要為你做什么驚天動地的大事，正是一些小事才真正打動人心?；蛘吣阌X得沒人關(guān)心你，所以無需再經(jīng)營人際關(guān)系，但其實也許人們只有在感知到你的付出后，才會對你進行回報。關(guān)心別人，別人才會關(guān)心你。如果你和周圍人的關(guān)系處理不好，為何不結(jié)交些新朋友? really dislike this 。If you dislike a person in your work or personal life, focusing on her bad qualities is not going to make things need to let go of your assumptions about her and know that she is human too, which means she makes you move on and stop thinking and talking about her, or learn to approach her or think about her in a positive on her good qualities, and repeat them to yourself instead of honing in on the unpleasant ，只關(guān)注她的缺點有害無益。你需要放下對她的所有成見，告訴自己她也是個人，也有犯錯的時候。要么就不再談?wù)撍拖胫?，要么學(xué)著去接近她，或想想她好的一面。多想想她的優(yōu)點，不要再專注于讓你不開心的事情。 is she better off?為什么她比我好?Comparing yourself to someone else is never productive or 39。s always going to be someone who is younger, prettier, smarter, or richer than you keep coveting what someone else has, then this may cause you to be resentful of them, which will open a whole other negative can of , what they don39。t have is your whole appreciative of what you have, because if you want to play the parison game, remember that there are people who are also worse off than you ?？傆斜饶隳贻p，漂亮，聰明，富有的人。如果你始終關(guān)注別人擁有什么，會帶來你對他們的恨意，隨即帶來更多消極的想法。記住，你所擁有的也是他們所沒有的。珍惜你所擁有的東西，如果真的想和別人比較，也別忘了總有比你差的人。39。ll never reach my 。If you think you39。re not going to be able “get there,” think are many people who are worse off and have overe bigger obstacles than what you are , for example, Olympic sprinter Oscar Pistorius, an amputee who overcame his handicap to pete in the Olympics against his ablebodied is within your reach as long as you work hard and have a a positive ，再想想。比你差的人比比皆是，他們遇到的困難也比你的更大。比如，奧運會短跑選手刀鋒戰(zhàn)士奧斯卡皮斯托利斯，一個被截肢的運動員，戰(zhàn)勝了自己的阻礙，在其他健壯的對手中脫穎而出贏得了奧運會的冠軍。只要你努力付出，有著積極的信念，任何事都能夠做到。英文勵志文章：越困難越要做You have to make the call you’re afraid to ，即使心里很怕。You have to get up earlier than you want to get 。You have to fight when you are already injured, bloody, and 、流血、疼痛時要反擊。You have to lead when no one else is following you ，你要當(dāng)領(lǐng)導(dǎo)。You have to invest in yourself even though no one else ，你也要投資自己。You have to look like a fool while you’re looking for answers you don’t ，看起來笨一點沒什么。You have to deliver results when making excuses is an ，你也要給出結(jié)果。You have to search for your own explanations even when you’re told to accept the “facts.”即使你被告知要接受事實，也要自己找原因。You have to make mistakes and look like an 。You have to try and fail and try 。You have to run faster even though you’re out of ，你也要盡力跑的快一些。You have to be kind to people who have been cruel to 。You have to meet deadlines that are unreasonable and deliver results that are ，并做的很出色。You have to be accountable for your actions even when things go ，你也要對自己的行為負責(zé)。You have to keep moving towards where you want to be no matter what’s in front of ，不管橫在你面前的是什么。You have to do the hard things that no one else is things that scare things that make you wonder how much longer you can hold 。沒人做的事情。你害怕的事情。讓你知道自己能堅持多久的事情。Those are the things that define are the things that make the difference between living a life of mediocrity or outrageous 。它們能讓生活有平庸和成功的天壤之別。The hard things are the easiest things to excuse pretend like they don’t apply to 、找借口不做、假裝看不見。The simple truth about how ordinary people acplish outrageous feats of success is that they do the hard things that smarter, wealthier, more qualified people don’t have the courage to ，他們做困難的事情，這些事是那些更聰明、更富有、更稱職的人沒勇氣做的。Do the hard might be surprised at how amazing you really 。你可能會驚訝自己有多了不起。英文勵志文章：You Have Only One LifeThere are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!Dream what you want to dream。go where you want to go。be what you want to be,because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to you have enough happiness to make you sweet,enough trials to make you strong,enough sorrow to keep you human,enough hope to make you happy? Always put yourself in others’ you feel that it hurts you,it probably hurts the other person, happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything。they just make the most of everything that es along their lies for those who cry,those who hurt, those who have searched,and those who have tried,for only they can appreciate the importance of peoplewho have touched their begins with a smile,grows with a kiss and ends with a brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in lifeuntil you let go of your past failures and you were born,you were crying and everyone around you was your life so that when you die,you39。re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is send this message to those people who mean something to you,to those who have touched your life in one way or another,to those who make you smile when you really need it,to those that make you see the brighter side of things when you are really down,to those who you want to let them know that you appreciate their if you don’t, don’t worry,nothing bad will happen to you,you will just miss out on the opportunity to brighten someone’s day with this message.