【正文】 the end, without any visible break, they bee merged in the sea, and painlessly lose their individual ，開始是涓涓細流，受兩岸的限制而十分狹窄，爾后奔騰咆哮，翻過危巖，飛越瀑布，河面漸漸開闊，河岸也隨之向兩邊隱去，最后水流平緩，森森無際，匯入大海之中，個人就這樣毫無痛苦地消失了。Youth means a temperamental predominance of courage over timidity,of the appetite for adventure over the love of often exists in a man of sixty more than a boy of grows old merely by a number of grow old by deserting our 。往往一個60歲的老者比一個20歲的青年更多一點這種勁頭。人老不僅僅是歲月流逝所致，更主要的是不思進取的結(jié)果。Years may wrinkle the skin,but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the , fear, selfdistrust bows the heart and turns the spirit back to ，而熱情之火的熄滅則在心靈上刻下皺紋。煩惱、恐懼、缺乏自信會扭曲人的靈魂，并將青春化為灰燼。友情和愛情的區(qū)別愛情和友情的界限是什么呢？當(dāng)然，強烈的愛慕，震憾心弦的感情很容易區(qū)別出來。然而，淡淡的，細水長流的愛情與推心置腹、無所不談的友情往往只差一線。那么怎樣來區(qū)分呢？Both are so much related to each both are so dissimilar!What are the differences between friendship and love? Is platonic friendship possible between persons of opposite sex? Let us try and ，兩者卻又那么截然不同。友情和愛情有什么區(qū)別？異性朋友間的理想化的友誼真的存在嗎？我們來試著理解下。What is friendship? Why do we call a person our friend? When do we call someone a very good friend? If we care for a person, if we are always ready to help that person and if we share most of our thoughts with a person, they are our good can always count upon our good friends in an are always sure that our friend will understand why we acted in a certain need not explain anything to our very good friendship is so deep and the relationship is so intimate, that most of the things are automatically understood by our ？為什么我們管一個人叫“朋友”？什么時候我們管一個人叫作“好朋友”？如果我們關(guān)心一個人，我們總是準備幫助那個人；如果我們和某個人分享大部分的想法，那個人一定是我們的好朋友。在緊急情況下我們總是依靠好朋友。我們總是確定好友會理解我們行事的方式。我們不需要向親密的朋友解釋什么。友情如此深，關(guān)系如此牢，以致于朋友間的事雙方都會很自然地理解。What about love? In a relationship of deep love, all the sharing that we discussed above are taken for love transcends all love, we are attached with a particular person, while in friendship, one may have many loving relationship makes one so much attached to the other, that one gets pained if his/her beloved is hurt!Love also involves a physical does not have is a vital gives us love so that the specie can go does not give us ？在深愛中，上面我們討論的事情都是理所當(dāng)然的。但是愛情遠遠超過這些。戀愛中，我們總是和某個人關(guān)系密切。但是在友情中，一個人可能有很多朋友。戀愛的兩個人聯(lián)系得如此緊密，如果他/她受到了傷害，另一個人也會心痛。愛情總會有身體上的接觸。友情卻沒有。這是至關(guān)重要的區(qū)別。上蒼給予了我們愛情，以使種族延續(xù)。但是上蒼卻沒有給我們友情。Your heart beats will never increase in anticipation of meeting your will not lie awake at night thinking about your will not feel totally lost, if you don39。t meet your friend for a few will not have dreams in your eyes thinking about your in love, you will do all this and much , there is no parison between love and ，你的心跳不會增加；你不會夜不能寐地想著你的朋友；如果幾天沒見到朋友，你也不會完全迷失；想到朋友時，你的眼中不會有夢想。但是在戀愛中，這一切你都會做而且程度會更深。確實，愛情和友情沒有可比性。人生小感悟 is a gift, and the more the ，越多越好。2.“Do what you love and you39。ll never work a day in your life.” .”做你想做的，你的生活中就不會有工作“，是的。 friendly as a matter of the other cheek in the face of ad hominem might seem crazy, but it 。面對廣告時，側(cè)一下你的臉。它似乎很瘋狂，但很有用。 is an powerful solution for physical and social it39。s also a major cause of emotional 。不幸的是，它是情感困惑的主要原因。 you39。re an adult, religious people will leave you alone if you leave them ，大家將會孤立你，如果你孤立大家的話。 vary more widely than you yourself it39。s nobody39。s 。告訴自己，那不是他們的錯誤。 is the key to social yourself with true friends who love you just as you you don39。t see any around, quest for 。選擇他們愛你你也愛他們的真正的朋友相處。如果你周圍還沒有這樣的人，去追尋。 your children with kindness and respect.“I39。m your parent, not you39。re friend” is a reason to treat your kids better than their peers do, not ?！蔽沂悄愕母改?，不是你的朋友“是一個比他們同齡人對待你的孩子的更好的原因，而不會更糟。 mind ages at a slower rate than you expect when you39。re young, your body at a faster 。你身體的年齡比你想象的要快。 There are a million books out there about how to “boost” your here are recent ones I39。ve read that bring a unique perspective to the goal is to treat your career as if you are a freelancer offering your ’s your job to make sure your services are in rarer and more valuable those services are, the better off you’ll be。有百萬本圖書是關(guān)于如何“促進”你的職業(yè)生涯的。但最近有幾本書，我讀過后對這一領(lǐng)域有了獨特的視角。它們的目的是把你的職業(yè)看成是一個提供服務(wù)的自由職業(yè)者。你的工作是確保服務(wù)被需要。你的服務(wù)越稀有越有價值，你賺的就會越多。 News Make the news a part of your ’s important that you stay “in the know” about what’s happening in the job market, what industries are getting coverage, and what’s “hot”(and more importantly...what39。s not)。讓看新聞成為你的日常生活的一部分。重要的是：你要始終知道就業(yè)市場上發(fā)生了什么，哪些行業(yè)被報導(dǎo)了，什么是“熱點”(更重要的是??哪些不熱門了)。 LinkedIn is a great way to keep in touch with people in your industry and keep track of what they’re doing and worrying someone you admire tweets about a problem, you have a cool opportunity to help them ’s also a great way to study up on a potential new boss/employer。一個很好的途徑是用LinkedIn和行業(yè)里的人保持聯(lián)系，并“追蹤”他們在做的事和擔(dān)心的事，如果你欣賞的人因為遇到困難發(fā)了微博，你就有一個很好的機會協(xié)助他們解決難題。這也是一個了解潛在老板/雇主的好方法。 Work The people you work with today are the people your next job will be calling for don39。t have to be a fake, just remember that the goal is to get things done and for the entire group to be a team can’t do it all by yourself — and you will have a heck of a time getting anything done if your colleagues don’t like your attitude。今天你共事的人是你下一份工作的引薦人。你不必弄虛作假，只要記得你的宗旨是把事情做好，整個團隊是成功的就可以了。要友好些。成為團隊的一員。你不能自己完成所有事——如果同事不喜歡你的態(tài)度，你就得花很多時間去做所有的事。 a Mentor Mentors are essential in developing your all think we can do it on our own, but that’s just youthful bravado someone you respect and trust that has experience and try to learn as much as you can from might be your boss or it might be a former boss...you never know。導(dǎo)師在你職業(yè)發(fā)展中必不可少。我們都認為靠自己就能做好工作，但那只是年少輕狂的妄想。找那些你尊重信任、且經(jīng)驗豐富的人，從他們身上盡可能多學(xué)一些。這些人可能是你的老板，也可能是前任老板....。你也猜不到是誰。 a Coworker Keep an eye out for someone that has too much on their plate or is obviously try to help them on some of their a deadline back for them out to coffee to give them a let them know you’re there to your team today, and they will be there to help you down the line。找出那些有太多事要做或能明顯看出受挫的人。然后盡力幫助他們。承擔(dān)一些他們的工作。把最后期限延遲一些。帶他們出去喝咖啡休息。任何事都可以。只要讓他們知道你愿意伸出援助之手。今天幫助你的“人脈團隊”，