【正文】 , affecting the national quality and social development in the future. the Influence of Marriage Concept in ChinaWith the rapid development of economy and society, people39。s living standard are improved greatly, Hedonism of western capitalist culture has had a huge impact on our daily life. Meanwhile the idea of money worship, individualism and other decadent ideas also have quickly spread in the society which causes great impacts on traditional concept and marriage concept. Nowadays, people bee more and more reality, when choosing mates, they care much about one’s economic condition. Money can39。t buy you love, but in modern China it can bring you the pick of 50,000 of China39。s prettiest girls after one of the country39。s largest online dating agencies held a petition to find the perfect match for 18 of its dollarmillionaire members. Earlier this year one female contestant on a television dating show caused an online outcry when she flippantly remarked that she would rather be crying in the backseat of BMW than smiling on the back of a bicycle。The brazen nature of such dating petitions, has raised concerns in China about society39。s obsession with money and the extreme moditizing of sex and relationships。Money worship is seriously harmful to the society. From the perspective of the development of people, it deprived of the richness of human nature and makes people bee slaves of money. Certainly, the marriage can not be happiness. For they simply care about money, do not consider if they are suitable. From the point of society, the prevalence of money worship would make the society lack of social moral and faith. Most of Chinese marriage concept still traditional, in my opinion, it may be good for our society.In China, parents often interfered with their children’s marriage, which is called arranged marriage. It has many impacts. First of all, men and women are arranged to get married, they do not know each other clearly. Thus there would be great possibility of divorce. How could they gain the happiness? Besides the relationship with their parents may be getting worse and worse. But for Chinese people, once they are married, they will go through the hard time together and their love will be everlasting. Therefore in my opinion, there is good aspect of Chinese marriage concept, China is a warm country, and the relationship between people is easy to get along with. the Influence of Marriage Concept in AmericaAs is known to all, the United States is a country of high divorce rate, which causes serious problems. First of all, in a plete family, parents are easier to establish good relationship with children. Besides, high divorce rate is a serious problem that treating to the health of millions of innocent children and the stability of American society.Marriage is an important social charity. It has a wide range of positive significance to children and adults. As we all know, America is an open, democratic country. They are freedom to choose mates. For young Americans, they are pletely based on their fondness. While it causes a lot of problems. Such as there are many homosexual in America. Even if the homosexual is legal in America now, it causes a hot debate on many countries. In my opinion, most people against homosexuality, the bination of different gender is a real marriage. Homosexuality would make the sexual confusion in the country. In addition, love freedom would make the illegitimate culture more serious. No matter for people themselves or family and society, it will be unfavorable.However, as the freedom to choose their mates, Americans may have stronger feeling of happiness. Conclusion The essence of marriage is mutual love, wonderful life and the continuation of his own life. In order to finish this paper, I have consulted many materials, which will definitely be helpful for me. This paper analyses the different marriage concept between China and America and the causes and influence of it, which will be useful to the people to know more about the two countries. Different culture system between China and the United States has the different cultural values, so it is natural that there are large differences of the marriage concept. We can not say which kind of values is good or bad. Everyone has his own way of life, with the increasing international munication, the intercultural munication between China and the United States is being more and more frequently, which makes the two countries’ values from perception to recognition, then they mix together slowly. 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