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ests or at least respect them 169。 2022 Law Offices of Laurie Israel Brookline, MA Financial Security for Married People ? The third leg of a threelegged stool ? Work hard to create financial security ? Make sure money is not scarce ? Enjoy your life 169。 2022 Law Offices of Laurie Israel Brookline, MA Fiveness ? Everybody makes mistakes ? Everybody says things wrong ? Let things pass ? Assume your living panion (and you) will learn from your mistakes 169。 2022 Law Offices of Laurie Israel Brookline, MA Fidelity in Marriage ? Be faithful and do not have an affair ? What to do if your spouse has an emotional affair ? What to do if your spouse has an actual affair ? What to do if you are having an emotional affair ? What to do if you are having an actual affair ? Infidelity is not necessarily the end of your marriage ? The different types of infidelity ? How people can heal their marriages 169。 2022 Law Offices of Laurie Israel Brookline, MA Expectations about Marriage ? Don’t think marriage is perfect ? Don’t think marriage is easy ? Be satisfied with the things you have ? Know that both or you are doing the best that you can ? Always assume the best of your spouse ? Don’t think it is greener on the other side ? Compliment your spouse at least once a day 169。 2022 Law Offices of Laurie Israel Brookline, MA Why Divorce Generally Should be Avoided ? Unnecessary ? Starting over with same problems ? Financially devastating ? Should you stay married because of the children? ? Learning about life and reconciliation ? A shared history of memories and experiences 169。 2022 Law Offices of Laurie Israel Brookline, MA Where to Get Help ? It’s never too late to get your marriage back on track ? Read books on marriage ? Go to marriage websites ? Attend marriage retreat programs ? Marriage counseling ? Individual counseling/therapy ? Marital mediation (Mediation to Stay Married) ? See a divorce lawyer to get a “read” on what a divorce would look like 169。 2022 Law Offices of Laurie Israel Brookline, MA