【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 to accept value , the family members of the values once formed, it will not easily change, it will exist for a long time, and even affect people39。s , the impact of family values on people is more farreaching, broad and , family values are closely related to the development of , the study of family values is necessary and on the thinking of crossChinese and American family between Chinese and American Families Values The Values of Chinese FamiliesChina39。s history is long, its deep heritage to the Chinese social form is very clear and difficult to society is a collectivist cultural group, the core value of individual behavioral interests must obey the collective interests, therefore, the behavior of family members to meet the collective interests of their loved most direct manifestation of Chinese family ethics is the strong clan the context of the ancient agricultural economy and society, most of the rural areas are homed with the same ethnic groups, clan or family organizations have the production, education and even selfdefense functions, the family mayor, in accordance with the family management family , the development of economy and society makes the form of clan change, the clan split into a family, but the clan concept has been inherited, still stressed the harmony between different levels of family hierarchical concepts and the traditional moral system makes the clan between the clan to strict pliance, such as the call must be for the long and young people have been living in the family, the young people must respect the elders, daily life to the elders to please, respect for smoke, seat, let way, eat when sitting is also very particular about the elderly in his later years Need to be piety, raising children and other traditional concepts reflect the characteristics of Chinese child in a family before the general situation is the need to live with their parents, and even after marriage and their parents live together is also affirmed and contact in marriage is also very close, often together to eat, meet, in the Spring Festival and other important festivals will meet, kind of spiritual contact and concern is a deeprooted standard of Chinese family clan concept, often not with the social change, the development of the times and The Values of American Families The history of the United States is relatively short, as a new system from the British society split out of the country, it has before the traditional British classical social values, but more of a variety of cultural inclusion and recognition, and gradually formed a large fusion Of the society advocates the recognition of personal dignity, respect for human personality is the basic position of its social concept of family gradually formed in the family also makes the recognition of individual rights to the point where nothing is the United States, both economic, political, and cultural are impacted by the principle of personality first, American family values are influenced by this , in American society, often pay great attention to the cultivation of individual thinking, the collective concept is relatively the American society to see the value of the position of the family, you can understand that this family concept is individualcentered, respect for the individual on the first children in adulthood, with independent ability, the family is independent of the individual, the young people will take the initiative to divorce from the original family, even in the major festivals did not meet the moral requirements, even if not family and Reunion is not condemned, which in a certain sense is respect for the individual39。s status is protected in a family, and the integrity of the family can not replace personal in the family of their own relatives are more general terms, the title of the simplification is also to a certain extent, showing the recognition of social 39。s respect for the class, the collective sense of identity makes in the decisionmaking of large things on the more consistent, more efficient transmission of information capabilities, but the personality has been a certain degree of repression。American concept too much respect for individuals, making the United States Collective concept is relatively weak, clan concept is not strong, some collective projects to be successful to do is relatively in Family Education between China and America The family is the most important place for enlightenment education for children, and plays an important role in the development of good habits and the development of education is the most important part of all the earliest education, it is the child39。s thinking mode and the formation of the world view of great Xiaoping once said: “The basis of national modernization in the talent, the basis of talent in education, education based on the family.” China is a country that attaches importance to family education, China39。s deep educational and cultural traditions contain excellent family education thousands of years, many people in the field of family education hard work, accumulated a lot of fruitful difference between Chinese and American educational concepts has always been the focus of the family environment, we can significantly feel the impact of family ideas on the growth of environment mapping in the concept of family education, making the concept of family education in China and