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as their favorite 10 years ago perform today, they say only 80 dollars. Now, in a perfectly rational world, these should be the same number, but we overpay for the opportunity to indulge our current preferences because we overestimate their stability.這有什么關(guān)系嗎?這只是一種并不會(huì)有什么后果的錯(cuò)誤的預(yù)測(cè)嗎?不,這有很大的關(guān)系,我會(huì)舉例告訴你們?yōu)槭裁础H藗兛梢哉f(shuō)出這些事情。ll enjoy in 10 years, and yet, people who are 10 years older all say, Eh, you know, that39。s your favorite hobby, what39。回到原來(lái)的話題,我們問(wèn)人們他們期待未來(lái)的10年中自己會(huì)有多大的變化,以及他們?cè)谶^(guò)去的10年中發(fā)生了多少變化,我們發(fā)現(xiàn)了,你們會(huì)習(xí)慣不斷地看到這個(gè)圖表,因?yàn)橛忠淮危兓俾孰S著我們的年齡增長(zhǎng)減慢了。re going to get used to seeing this diagram over and over, because once again the rate of change does slow as we age, but at every age, people underestimate how much their personalities will change in the next decade.現(xiàn)在不僅僅是價(jià)值觀了。為了讓你們了解這種影響有多大, 你們可以把這兩條線連接起來(lái),你們現(xiàn)在看到的是18歲的人群預(yù)期的改變僅僅和50歲的人群實(shí)際經(jīng)歷的一樣。首先,你們是對(duì)的,隨著我們年齡的增長(zhǎng),變化會(huì)減緩。Here39。每個(gè)人的生活都與這三個(gè)價(jià)值觀相關(guān),但是你們可能知道,隨著你們慢慢長(zhǎng)大,變老,這三個(gè)價(jià)值觀的平衡點(diǎn)會(huì)不斷變化。s personal values over time. Here39。那么生命中這個(gè)讓變化突然間從飛速變得緩慢的神奇轉(zhuǎn)折點(diǎn)應(yīng)該叫什么呢?是青少年時(shí)期嗎?是中年時(shí)期嗎?是老年階段嗎?其實(shí)對(duì)大多數(shù)人來(lái)說(shuō),答案是,現(xiàn)在,無(wú)論現(xiàn)在發(fā)生在什么。如此沒完沒了。re not always thrilled with the decisions we made. So young people pay good money to get tattoos removed that teenagers paid good money to get. Middleaged people rushed to divorce people who young adults rushed to marry. Older adults work hard to lose what middleaged adults worked hard to gain. On and on and on. The question is, as a psychologist, that fascinates me is, why do we make decisions that our future selves so often regret?在我們生命的每個(gè)階段,我們都會(huì)做出一些決定,這些決定會(huì)深刻影響未來(lái)我們自己的生活,當(dāng)我們成為未來(lái)的自己時(shí),我們并不總是對(duì)過(guò)去做過(guò)的決定感到高興。re going to bee, and then when we bee those people, we39。老年人很努力的揮霍著作為中年人時(shí)不停工作所賺的錢。你們每個(gè)人都知道變化的速度隨著人的年齡增長(zhǎng)不斷放慢,孩子們好像每分鐘都有變化,而父母?jìng)兊淖?