【正文】 只有在我們回首過(guò)去的時(shí)候我們才會(huì)認(rèn)識(shí)到在過(guò)去的十年里發(fā)生了多么大的變化。s not likely to happen. Sorry, when people say I can39。比如說(shuō)，說(shuō)出你最好朋友的名字，你最喜歡什么樣的假期，你最大的愛(ài)好是什么，你最喜歡什么樣的音樂(lè)。s all sorts of other things. For example, personality. Many of you know that psychologists now claim that there are five fundamental dimensions of personality: neuroticism, openness to experience, agreeableness, extraversion, and conscientiousness. Again, we asked people how much they expected to change over the next 10 years, and also how much they had changed over the last 10 years, and what we found, well, you39。這里有3種價(jià)值觀。re going to bee, and then when we bee those people, we39。s personal values over time. Here39。為了讓你們了解這種影響有多大， 你們可以把這兩條線連接起來(lái)，你們現(xiàn)在看到的是18歲的人群預(yù)期的改變僅僅和50歲的人群實(shí)際經(jīng)歷的一樣。ll enjoy in 10 years, and yet, people who are 10 years older all say, Eh, you know, that39。re not entirely sure, but it probably has to do with the ease of remembering versus the difficulty of imagining. Most of us can remember who we were 10 years ago, but we find it hard to imagine who we39。它重塑了我們的價(jià)值觀。它是一個(gè)使我們最終成為我們自己的時(shí)刻。re describing.為什么會(huì)發(fā)生這樣的變化呢？我們也不是很確定，不過(guò)這可能與記憶的消逝和想象的難度相關(guān)?！盌oes any of this matter? Is this just a form of misprediction that doesn39。比如說(shuō)，人格。我們讓他們當(dāng)中一半的人預(yù)測(cè)了一下在未來(lái)10年中，他們的價(jià)值觀會(huì)發(fā)生多大的改變，讓另一半人告訴我們?cè)谶^(guò)去的10年中，他們的價(jià)值觀發(fā)生了多大的變化。中年人急著跟年輕時(shí)迫不及待想結(jié)婚的人離婚。今天我想讓大家明白的是，我們所有人都在圍繞著一種錯(cuò)覺(jué)生活，這種錯(cuò)覺(jué)就是，我們每個(gè)人的過(guò)去，都已經(jīng)結(jié)束了，我們已經(jīng)成為了我們應(yīng)該成為的那種人，在余下的生命中也都會(huì)如此。第二，你們錯(cuò)了，因?yàn)檫@種變化并不像我們想象的那么慢。s your favorite kind of music. People can name these things. We ask half of them to tell us, Do you think that that will change over the next 10 years? and half of them to tell us, Did that change over the last 10 years? And what we find, well, you39。然而，當(dāng)我們問(wèn)他們?cè)敢飧抖嗌馘X(qián)去看他們10年前喜歡的人現(xiàn)在的演出，他們說(shuō)只