【正文】 r own spouses .When you are seated, your feet should be under your chair, and you can?t make them arbitrarily straight, and your elbows shall not lean on the table, not putting your arms on the chair next to you. 2 .The etiquettes of tableware use display and use of Chinese table wares The principles of chopsticks The table wares are simple。 generally, it should be placed on the left of bowl, which is used for holding food getting from the public plate. When you are using food plate, don?t get too much food for a time. Different dishes shouldn?t be put together, in case of mixed favor. The residue bone and sting should be put in the food plate, and you should spit them on the food plate, and you should put it on the side of plate with chopsticks. The principles of glass The glass is for holding water, soft drink, fruit juice, and so on. Don?t hold wine with it. It should be put on the left and up side of the plate. The principles of napkin Before the dinner, the particular host and restaurant will prepare a wet cloth for the guests, and it is used for wiping hands, after this, the waiters will take it away. At times, before the end of the banquet, a wet towel will be provided, which is used for wiping mouth, but face and sweat. The principles of toothpick When picking teeth, you should hide your mouth with one hand。t make noises while eating。t burp, let alone other sounds. If there is a sneeze, bowel and other involuntary sound, you?d better say “sorry” to show your apology. The Chinese usually make mistakes like this, so you have to attach importance to them, not making a bad impression on others, and these details will have a bad effect on your interpersonal relations. When eating, you should talk interesting things with others to adjust atmosphere, and you shouldn?t have a greedy meal. The etiquettes of fetching and eating food in western countries When having a dinner, you should avoid the noises made by knife and plate. You shouldn?t eat a fruit pletely。 But the western countries advocate democracy, freedom, equality, they pay attention to the value of the power of the individual, personal value , and the individualism, Socialist. The main religious belief is Christian for the country. And it has a great impact on the people. The people believe in Christian doctrine, which deems the God created man. The table wares can represent the cultural connotation. 2. The different thinking pattern between China and western countries The Chinese thinking is more prehensive, with perceptual and intuitional thinking, at the same time, it has China style. The Chinese attach importance to psychological bias and short in logic analysis. The western countries emphasizes analytical and bureau Logic thinking, and emphasizes the things of itself, with scientific standard for thought. At the same time in the west countries, they put the value of the individual into an important position. Take the example of tableware chopsticks and knife and fork, a few in China. Chopsticks have been saved as a symbol of china civilization. Using chopsticks means unity and collective social concept. And western countries are the reflection of modern civilization, a knife and fork in the process of use reflect the analytic philosophy thinking. 3. The different values between China and western countries The China with etiquette Bond , stresses filial piety, loyalty, reflects the values of collectivism. The Chinese emphasize respecting elders, as a result, Seats are put regularly, which has not only a fluctuation, and level, but also the specific sort of seats. For the westerners, the individualism is dominant, which emphasizes individual strength. This is western philosophy, tending to focus on Individualism, personality development and selfexpression. They think if a 11 man can?t reach their own purpose, that is not the day Life, it is laziness. At dinner time, each Individual choose their favorite things, it will not appear in China that they will be unwilling to eat dishes the host get for them. IV. Conclusion Comparing the differences of table manners between China and western countries, I find the deportment of a person has an impact on others. Confronted with everfierce