【正文】 per, sooner or later youamp。t pay attention to lifeamp。ve found is that difficulties e when you donamp。
　　And what Iamp。如果你真正吸取了教訓(xùn)，你就會(huì)順利通過(guò)考驗(yàn)，不用再取經(jīng)受失敗了。如果事情出錯(cuò)了，你進(jìn)入了死胡同，這正是生活在告訴你是時(shí)候改變了。沒(méi)有人他的一生是一帆風(fēng)順的。or skirt。39。39。this is what I do withevery failure, every crisis, every difficult time。39。39。as you will。39。如果感覺(jué)不對(duì)，就不要做了。因此，第一個(gè)經(jīng)驗(yàn)，跟隨你的心靈。你所希望得到的是被信任你珍視你的人包圍。你想你的工作更有意義。t do it.
　　但是擁有很多錢(qián)并不能使你自然而然的成為一個(gè)成功者。t feel right, donamp。re really , lessonone, follow your feelings. If it feels right, move forward. If it doesnamp。s when youamp。
　　But having a lot of money does not automatically make you a successful person. What youwant is money and meaning. You want your work to be meaningful. Because meaning is whatbrings the real richness to your life. What you really want is to be surrounded by people youtrust and treasure and by people who cherish you. Thatamp。我喜歡錢(qián)。s goodfor buying things.
　　那么我是如何定義成功的呢?讓我告訴你，錢(qián)很美好。cause money is very nice. I like money. Itamp。s not about money, amp。m not going to stand uphere and tell you that itamp。s pretty nice. Iamp。
　　So, how do I define success? Let me tell you, moneyamp。每一個(gè)人都會(huì)有的。如果你真的像飛翔，就把你的力量投入到你的激情當(dāng)中。re involving the wholeness ofourselves in our work, both our expertise and our emotion.
　　當(dāng)我們做自己喜歡的事時(shí)，當(dāng)我們?nèi)硇牡耐度氲焦ぷ髦袝r(shí)，這些特質(zhì)就會(huì)煥發(fā)生機(jī)。re doing what we love, when weamp。
　　These qualities bloom when weamp。他說(shuō)，重要的不僅僅是邏輯上的，線性的，直尺式的思維方式。正如Daniel Pink在他的暢銷(xiāo)書(shū)A Whole New Mind中所說(shuō)的那樣，我們進(jìn)入了一個(gè)新時(shí)代，一個(gè)他稱之為概念時(shí)代的時(shí)代。s also empathy and joyfulness and purpose,inner traits that have transcendent worth.
　　當(dāng)你什么也不要做時(shí)，讓你的內(nèi)心作為驅(qū)動(dòng)力。s no longer just the logical, linear,rulesbased thinking that matters, he says. Itamp。as well as our heads. Itamp。re entering a whole newage. And he calls it the Conceptual Age, where traits that set people apart today are going toe from our hearts。
　　And when you do get still and let your internal motivation be the driver, not only will yourpersonal life improve, but you will gain a petitive edge in the working world as , as Daniel Pink writes in his bestseller, A Whole New Mind, weamp。這就是我所學(xué)到的。我的朋友，這個(gè)經(jīng)驗(yàn)會(huì)幫你避免很多痛苦。t know what to do, get still, get very still, untilyou do know what to do.
　　如果感覺(jué)不好，就不要去做。t know what to do. When you donamp。ve learned. There are many timeswhen you donamp。t. This is what Iamp。s the lesson. And that lesson alone will save you, myfriends, a lot of grief. Even doubt means donamp。t do it. Thatamp。t feel right, donamp。
　　If it doesnamp。我所做過(guò)的所有正確選擇都是源自我內(nèi)心的。當(dāng)你應(yīng)該或者不應(yīng)該改做某事時(shí)，你的內(nèi)心會(huì)告訴你怎樣去做。ve ever made was a result of me not listening to thegreater voice of myself.
　　這是真的。has e frommy gut. And every wrong decision Iamp。39。ve made。resupposed to do something or not supposed to do something, your emotional guidance systemlets you know. The trick is to learn to check your ego at the door and start checking your gutinstead. Every right decision Iamp。re doing something right? How do you know that? Itfeels so. What I know now is that feelings are really your GPS system for life. When youamp。s true. And how do you know when youamp。
　　Itamp。當(dāng)你做的是一份你喜歡的工作時(shí)，那感覺(jué)棒極了。39。39。39。這就是我工作的真正開(kāi)始。當(dāng)我開(kāi)始主持節(jié)目的時(shí)間侯，就像呼吸一樣。從我開(kāi)始主持那檔節(jié)目的一刻開(kāi)始，我感覺(jué)好像回到了家一樣。他們說(shuō)我太情緒化了。39。39。39。這就是我如何養(yǎng)成了那個(gè)習(xí)慣。我晚上回到家后，我會(huì)記錄下我是多么的不幸和沮喪。晚上回到家后我會(huì)記日記。39。39。39。ve kept a journalsince I was 15。cause Iamp。d go home at night and fill up my journals, amp。
　　So, I was juggling these messages of expectation and obligation and feeling reallymiserable with myself. Iamp。還是做你的本職工作吧。這是晚間新聞?！?。這是你一生的機(jī)會(huì)。quot。39。quot。quot。quot。我應(yīng)該做回我自己。一天當(dāng)我播新聞時(shí)，我把加拿大讀錯(cuò)了。s not going too well. I should trybeing myself.
　　有時(shí)出于內(nèi)心的本能，我不會(huì)去播報(bào)一些新聞。 And I decided, this Barbara thingamp。ca nada.amp。d mispronounce. And one day I was reading copy and Icalled Canada amp。t know and Iamp。d eacross a list of words I didnamp。and Iamp。t read the copy。
　　And sometimes I wouldnamp。有時(shí)，我不會(huì)播報(bào)像6個(gè)人在連環(huán)車(chē)禍中受傷這類(lèi)的新聞。有時(shí)我并不讀我的稿件，因?yàn)槲业膬?nèi)心告訴我這是不自主的。如果我做回我自己，我就會(huì)成為一個(gè)很棒的Oprah。t read my copy and it would be, like, six people on a pileup on I40. Oh, my goodness.
　　與此同時(shí)我盡量表現(xiàn)的優(yōu)雅一些，使我更像Barbara。t read my copy, because something inside me said, this should bespontaneous. So, I wanted to get the news as I was giving it to the people. So, sometimes, Iwouldnamp。
　　And, meanwhile, I was trying to sit gracefully like Barbara and make myself talk like I thought, well, I could make a pretty goofy Barbara. And if I could figure out how to bemyself, I could be a pretty good Oprah. I was trying to sound elegant like Barbara. Andsometimes I didnamp。t be able to sleep at night because of all the things I wascovering during the day.
　　正如Hennessy校長(zhǎng)所說(shuō)的那樣，我播報(bào)了一起火災(zāi)，然后應(yīng)當(dāng)去給受害者拿毯子。d try to give thevictims blankets. And I wouldnamp。d go back and Iamp。d cover a fire and then Iamp。
　　So, as President Hennessy said, Iamp。我深知我期待去觀察，我的內(nèi)心告訴我，我應(yīng)該做些什么了。39。因?yàn)樽鳛橐粋€(gè)光頭黑人坐在攝影機(jī)前，我肯定不漂亮的。我不得不剃光我的頭發(fā)。于是他們把我送到沙龍，給我燙了發(fā)?！薄？墒悄菚r(shí)他們還是說(shuō)：”。那是在1976年，你的老板可以那么說(shuō)。39。39。quot。39。quot。quot。39。quot。39。我也不介意人們是否記得住我的名字，這沒(méi)什么大不了的。s OK.
　　我從小就不怎么喜歡我的名字，但是當(dāng)我被告知去改名字時(shí)，我想，好吧，那時(shí)我的名字，但是Suzie真的適合我嗎?因此我想，它并不適合我。m not going tochange my name. And if people remember it or not, thatamp。t feel right. Iamp。
　　So, I grew up not loving the name, but once I was asked to change it, I thought, well, it is myname and do I look like a Suzie to you? So, I thought, no, it doesnamp。你們可以看到，自小我就不怎么喜歡我的名字。記住Suzie吧。re never going to findOprah.
　　Suzie，一個(gè)很友善的名字。re looking foryour little name on the lunch boxes and the license plate tags, youamp。d grown up not really loving my name, because when youamp。tSuzie. And, you know, Iamp。t be angry with Suzie. Remember Suzie. But my name wasnamp。
　　Hi, Suzie. Very friendly. You canamp。Suzie。因此我們想讓你改名字。那時(shí)導(dǎo)演對(duì)我說(shuō)：”。
　　這就是我，22歲時(shí)每年掙22,000美元，然而，這種感覺(jué)并不好。s a friendly name: Suzie.amp。ve e up with a name we think that people will remember and peoplewill like. Itamp。s going to remember Oprah. So, we want tochange your name. Weamp。Nobodyamp。t feel right. Thefirst sign, as President Hennessy was saying, was when they tried to change my name. Thenews director said to me at the time, amp。t feel right. It didnamp。
　　So, here I am, 22, making $22,000 a year and, yet, it didnamp。39。想象一下吧，當(dāng)你40歲時(shí)你每年就會(huì)掙40,000美元”。我的天啊，真難以置信。我遇到了在電視臺(tái)做實(shí)習(xí)生的Gayle，我們立刻成了好朋友。而她正是我從業(yè)以來(lái)一直效法的對(duì)象。q