【正文】 我還發(fā)現(xiàn)，我擁有比寶石更加珍貴的朋友。失敗讓我看清自己，這也是我通過(guò)其他方式無(wú)法體會(huì)的。failure gave me an inner security that i had never attained by passing taught me things about myself that i could have learned no other discovered that i had a strong will, and more discipline than i had suspected。生活不可能沒(méi)有一點(diǎn)失敗，除非你生活的萬(wàn)般小心，而那也意味著你沒(méi)有真正在生活了。所以困境的谷底，成為我重建生活的堅(jiān)實(shí)基礎(chǔ)。如果不是沒(méi)有在其他領(lǐng)域成功過(guò)，我可能就不會(huì)找到，在一個(gè)我確信真正屬于的舞臺(tái)上取得成功的決心。so why do i talk about the benefits of failure? simply because failure meant a stripping away of the stopped pretending to myself that i was anything other than what i was, and began to direct all my energy into finishing the only work that mattered to i really succeeded at anything else, i might never have found the determination to succeed in the one arena i believed i truly was set free, because my greatest fear had been realised, and i was still alive, and i still had a daughter whom i adored, and i had an old typewriter and a big so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which i rebuilt my ？因?yàn)槭∫馕吨鴦冸x掉那些不必要的東西。那段日子是我生命中的黑暗歲月，我不知道它是否代表童話故事里需要?dú)v經(jīng)的磨難，更不知道自己還要在黑暗中走多久。按照慣常的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)來(lái)看，我也是我所知道的最失敗的人。除了流浪漢，我是當(dāng)代英國(guó)最窮的人之一，真的一無(wú)所有。最終，我們所有人都必須自己決定什么算作失敗，但如果你愿意，世界是相當(dāng)渴望給你一套標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的。你們也許極其渴望成功，所以非常害怕失敗。擁有才華和智慧，從來(lái)不會(huì)使人對(duì)命運(yùn)的反復(fù)無(wú)常有所準(zhǔn)備；我也不會(huì)假設(shè)大家坐在這里冷靜地滿足于自身的優(yōu)越感。我有一個(gè)通過(guò)考試的訣竅，并且數(shù)年間一直讓我在大學(xué)生活和同齡人中不落人后。what i feared most for myself at your age was not poverty, but ，最害怕的不是貧窮，而是失敗。貧窮并不是一種高貴的經(jīng)歷，它帶來(lái)恐懼、壓力、有時(shí)還有絕望，它意味著許許多多的羞辱和艱辛。尤其是，我不會(huì)因?yàn)楦改赶Ｍ也灰^(guò)窮日子，而責(zé)怪他們。埋怨父母給你指錯(cuò)方向是有一個(gè)時(shí)間段的。the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with is more, i cannot criticise my parents for hoping that i would never experience had been poor themselves, and i have since been poor, and i quite agree with them that it is not an ennobling entails fear, and stress, and sometimes depression。我想，在全世界的所有專業(yè)中，他們也許認(rèn)為，不會(huì)有比研究希臘神話更沒(méi)用的專業(yè)了，根本無(wú)法換來(lái)一間獨(dú)立寬敞的衛(wèi)生間。i cannot remember telling my parents that i was studying classics。最后，達(dá)成了一個(gè)雙方都不甚滿意的妥協(xié)：我改學(xué)現(xiàn)代語(yǔ)言。i know the irony strikes like with the force of a cartoon anvil now, but?我現(xiàn)在明白反諷就像用卡通鐵砧去打擊你，但...they had hoped that i would take a vocational degree。i was convinced that the only thing i wanted to do, ever, was to write , my parents, both of whom came from impoverished backgrounds and neither of whom had been to college, took the view that my overactive imagination was an amusing personal quirk that could never pay a mortgage, or secure a ，自己唯一想做的事情，就是寫小說(shuō)?；仡?1歲剛剛畢業(yè)時(shí)的自己，對(duì)于今天42歲的我來(lái)說(shuō)，是一個(gè)稍微不太舒服的經(jīng)歷。在這美好的一天，當(dāng)我們一起慶祝你們?nèi)〉脤W(xué)業(yè)成就的時(shí)刻，我希望告訴你們失敗有什么樣的益處；在你們即將邁向―現(xiàn)實(shí)生活‖的道路之際，我還要褒揚(yáng)想象力的重要性。我問(wèn)自己什么是我希望早在畢業(yè)典禮上就該了解的，而從那時(shí)起到現(xiàn)在的 21年間，我又得到了什么重要的啟示。這個(gè)發(fā)現(xiàn)讓我釋然，讓我不再擔(dān)心我可能會(huì)無(wú)意中影響你放棄在商業(yè)，法律或政治上的大好前途，轉(zhuǎn)而醉心于成為一個(gè)快樂(lè)的魔法師（gay有快樂(lè)和同性戀的意思）。發(fā)表畢業(yè)演說(shuō)是一個(gè)巨大的責(zé)任，至少在我回憶自己當(dāng)年的畢業(yè)典禮前是這么認(rèn)為的。這真是一個(gè)雙贏的局面。president faust, members of the harvard corporation and the board of overseers, members of the faculty, proud parents, and, above all, graduates, 福斯特主席，哈佛公司和監(jiān)察委員會(huì)的各位成員，各位老師、家長(zhǎng)、全體畢業(yè)生們：首先請(qǐng)?jiān)试S我說(shuō)一聲謝謝。k人生確實(shí)只有一個(gè)目標(biāo)，那就是：最大程度地、最真實(shí)地展現(xiàn)自己。談成功和快樂(lè)的關(guān)鍵 you will find true success and happiness if you have only one really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human want to max out your humanity by using your energy to lift yourself up, your family, and the people you will find true success and happiness if you have only one really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human being。然后我想，我會(huì)將這一頁(yè)翻過(guò)去，我會(huì)好起來(lái)的。談自身最大的失敗 then the words came to me, trouble dont last always, from an old too shall i thought, i am going to turn this thing around and i will be better for it。要從錯(cuò)誤中吸取教訓(xùn)，因?yàn)槟愕拿恳淮谓?jīng)歷、尤其是你犯下的錯(cuò)誤，都將幫助你、推動(dòng)你更好地做自己。世間并不存在“失敗”，那不過(guò)是生活想讓我們換條道走走罷了?！皁mg，我竟然在哈??佛！”奧普拉溫弗瑞（oprah winfrey）在哈佛的畢業(yè)典禮上為畢業(yè)生們獻(xiàn)上了一場(chǎng)精彩勵(lì)志演講?！安灰獑?wèn)自己世界需要什么，問(wèn)問(wèn)是什么讓你精神抖擻地活著，然后就去做，因?yàn)槭澜缢枰木褪且粋€(gè)個(gè)朝氣蓬勃的人。they all want to know: was that okay? did you hear me? did you see me? did what i said mean anything to you? 我的采訪對(duì)象都想知道：“我的表現(xiàn)ok嗎？你聽到我看到我嗎？我說(shuō)的話對(duì)你有價(jià)值嗎？” the key to success and you will find true success and happiness if you have only one really is only one, and that is this: to fulfill the highest, most truthful expression of yourself as a human ，那你就能獲得真正的成功和快樂(lè)。然后我想，我會(huì)將這一頁(yè)翻過(guò)去，我會(huì)好起來(lái)的。learn from every mistake, because every experience, particularly your mistakes, are there to teach you and force you into being more who you ，因?yàn)槟愕拿恳淮谓?jīng)歷、尤其是你犯下的錯(cuò)誤，都將幫助你、推動(dòng)你更好地做自己。第一篇：奧普拉2018年安嫩伯格畢業(yè)典禮演講Speech by Oprah Winfrey at the Commencement of USC Annenberg School for Communication and Journalism May 11, 2018 You did you, Wallis Annenberg, and a special thank you to Dean Willow Bay for inviting me here to the parents, again, I say, and faculty, family, friends, graduates, good want to give a special shoutout because I was happy that Dean Bay invited me, but I was going to be here anyway, because one of my lovely daughter girls attends the Annenberg School of Journalism and is getting her masters today, so I was ing whether I was speaking or a special shoutout to a young woman who I met when she was in the seventh grade and it was the first year that I was looking for smart, bright, giving, resilient, kind, openhearted girls who had “it” – that factor, that means you keep going no matter this was the year that I chose everybody I remember her walking into the office in a little township where we were doing interviews all over South Africa and she came in and recited a poem about her teacher and when she walked out the door I go, “That’s an ‘it’ girl.” Thando Dlomo, I am here to say I am so proud of you – long way from the township in South Africa and her Aunt, has flown 30 hours to be here for this celebration you so today, I e bearing some good news and some bad news for anybody who intends to build their life around your ability to , I want to get the bad news out first so you can be always like to get the bad stuff upfront, so here it is: Everything around us, including – and in particular, the internet and social media – is now being used to erode trust in our institutions, interfere in our elections, and wreak havoc on our hands advertisers a m