【正文】 認(rèn)為的。那天做演講的是英國著名的哲學(xué)家 baroness mary warnock，對(duì)她演講的回憶，對(duì)我寫今天的演講稿，產(chǎn)生了極大的幫助，因?yàn)槲也挥浀盟f過的任何一句話了。這個(gè)發(fā)現(xiàn)讓我釋然，讓我不再擔(dān)心我可能會(huì)無意中影響你放棄在商業(yè)，法律或政治上的大好前途，轉(zhuǎn)而醉心于成為一個(gè)快樂的魔法師（gay有快樂和同性戀的意思）。actually, i have wracked my mind and heart for what i ought to say to you have asked myself what i wish i had known at my own graduation, and what important lessons i have learned in the 21 years that has expired between that day and ，我為今天應(yīng)該和大家談些什么絞盡了腦汁。我問自己什么是我希望早在畢業(yè)典禮上就該了解的，而從那時(shí)起到現(xiàn)在的 21年間，我又得到了什么重要的啟示。我想到了兩個(gè)答案。在這美好的一天，當(dāng)我們一起慶祝你們?nèi)〉脤W(xué)業(yè)成就的時(shí)刻，我希望告訴你們失敗有什么樣的益處；在你們即將邁向―現(xiàn)實(shí)生活‖的道路之際，我還要褒揚(yáng)想象力的重要性。these may seem quixotic or paradoxical choices, but bear with ，但請(qǐng)先容我講完?；仡?1歲剛剛畢業(yè)時(shí)的自己，對(duì)于今天42歲的我來說，是一個(gè)稍微不太舒服的經(jīng)歷?？梢哉f，我人生的前一部分，一直掙扎在自己的雄心和身邊的人對(duì)我的期望之間。i was convinced that the only thing i wanted to do, ever, was to write , my parents, both of whom came from impoverished backgrounds and neither of whom had been to college, took the view that my overactive imagination was an amusing personal quirk that could never pay a mortgage, or secure a ，自己唯一想做的事情，就是寫小說。不過，我的父母，他們都來自貧窮的背景，沒有任何一人上過大學(xué)，堅(jiān)持認(rèn)為我過度的想象力是一個(gè)令人驚訝的個(gè)人怪癖，根本不足以讓我支付按揭，或者取得足夠的養(yǎng)老金。i know the irony strikes like with the force of a cartoon anvil now, but?我現(xiàn)在明白反諷就像用卡通鐵砧去打擊你，但...they had hoped that i would take a vocational degree。i wanted to study english ，而我想去攻讀英國文學(xué)。最后，達(dá)成了一個(gè)雙方都不甚滿意的妥協(xié)：我改學(xué)現(xiàn)代語言。可是等到父母一走開，我立刻放棄了德語而報(bào)名學(xué)習(xí)古典文學(xué)。i cannot remember telling my parents that i was studying classics。they might well have found out for the first time on graduation all the subjects on this planet, i think they would have been hard put to name one less useful than greek mythology when it came to securing the keys to an executive ，他們可能是在我畢業(yè)典禮那一天才發(fā)現(xiàn)的。我想，在全世界的所有專業(yè)中，他們也許認(rèn)為，不會(huì)有比研究希臘神話更沒用的專業(yè)了，根本無法換來一間獨(dú)立寬敞的衛(wèi)生間。i would like to make it clear, in parenthesis, that i do not blame my parents for their point of is an expiry date on blaming your parents for steering you in the wrong direction。the moment you are old enough to take the wheel, responsibility lies with is more, i cannot criticise my parents for hoping that i would never experience had been poor themselves, and i have since been poor, and i quite agree with them that it is not an ennobling entails fear, and stress, and sometimes depression。it means a thousand petty humiliations and out of poverty by your own efforts, that is indeed something on which to pride yourself, but poverty itself is romanticised only by ：我不會(huì)因?yàn)楦改傅挠^點(diǎn)，而責(zé)怪他們。埋怨父母給你指錯(cuò)方向是有一個(gè)時(shí)間段的。當(dāng)你成長到可以控制自我方向的時(shí)候，你就要自己承擔(dān)責(zé)任了。尤其是，我不會(huì)因?yàn)楦改赶Ｍ也灰^窮日子，而責(zé)怪他們。他們一直很貧窮，我后來也一度很窮，所以我很理解他們。貧窮并不是一種高貴的經(jīng)歷，它帶來恐懼、壓力、有時(shí)還有絕望，它意味著許許多多的羞辱和艱辛?？孔约旱呐[脫貧窮，確實(shí)可以引以自豪，但貧窮本身只有對(duì)傻瓜而言才是浪漫的。what i feared most for myself at your age was not poverty, but ，最害怕的不是貧窮，而是失敗。at your age, in spite of a distinct lack of motivation at university, where i had spent far too long in the coffee bar writing stories, and far too little time at lectures, i had a knack for passing examinations, and that, for years, had been the measure of success in my life and that of my ，明顯缺乏在大學(xué)學(xué)習(xí)的動(dòng)力，我花了太久時(shí)間在咖啡吧寫故事，而在課堂的時(shí)間卻很少。我有一個(gè)通過考試的訣竅，并且數(shù)年間一直讓我在大學(xué)生活和同齡人中不落人后。i am not dull enough to suppose that because you are young, gifted and welleducated, you have never known hardship or and intelligence never yet inoculated anyone against the caprice of the fates, and i do not for a moment suppose that everyone here has enjoyed an existence of unruffled privilege and ，因?yàn)槟銈兡贻p、有天份，并且受過良好的教育，就從來沒有遇到困難或心碎的時(shí)刻。擁有才華和智慧，從來不會(huì)使人對(duì)命運(yùn)的反復(fù)無常有所準(zhǔn)備；我也不會(huì)假設(shè)大家坐在這里冷靜地滿足于自身的優(yōu)越感。however, the fact that you are graduating from harvard suggests that you are not very wellacquainted with might be driven by a fear of failure quite as much as a desire for , your conception of failure might not be too far from the average persons idea of success, so high have you already flown ，你們是哈佛畢業(yè)生的這個(gè)事實(shí)，意味著你們并不很了解失敗。你們也許極其渴望成功，所以非常害怕失敗。說實(shí)話，你們眼中的失敗，很可能就是普通人眼中的成功，畢竟你們在學(xué)業(yè)上已經(jīng)達(dá)到很高的高度了。最終，我們所有人都必須自己決定什么算作失敗，但如果你愿意，世界是相當(dāng)渴望給你一套標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的。所以我想很公平的講，從任何傳統(tǒng)的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)看，在我畢業(yè)僅僅七年后的日子里，我的失敗達(dá)到了史詩般空前的規(guī)模：短命的婚姻閃電般地破裂，我又失業(yè)成了一個(gè)艱難的單身母親。除了流浪漢，我是當(dāng)代英國最窮的人之一，真的一無所有。當(dāng)年父母和我自己對(duì)未來的擔(dān)憂，現(xiàn)在都變成了現(xiàn)實(shí)。按照慣常的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)來看，我也是我所知道的最失敗的人。now, i am not going to stand here and tell you that failure is period of my life was a dark one, and i had no idea that there was going to be what the press has since represented as a kind of fairy tale had no idea how far the tunnel extended, and for a long time, any light at the end of it was a hope rather than a ，我不打算站在這里告訴你們，失敗是有趣的。那段日子是我生命中的黑暗歲月，我不知道它是否代表童話故事里需要?dú)v經(jīng)的磨難，更不知道自己還要在黑暗中走多久。很長一段時(shí)間里，前面留給我的只是希望，而不是現(xiàn)實(shí)。so why do i talk about the benefits of failure? simply because failure meant a stripping away of the stopped pretending to myself that i was anything other than what i was, and began to direct all my energy into finishing the only work that mattered to i really succeeded at anything else, i might never have found the determination to succeed in the one arena i believed i truly was set free, because my greatest fear had been realised, and i was still alive, and i still had a daughter whom i adored, and i had an old typewriter and a big so rock bottom became the solid foundation on which i rebuilt my ？因?yàn)槭∫馕吨鴦冸x掉那些不必要的東西。我因此不再偽裝自己、遠(yuǎn)離自我，而重新開始把所有精力放在對(duì)我最重要的事情上。如果不是沒有在其他領(lǐng)域成功過，我可能就不會(huì)找到，在一個(gè)我確信真正屬于的舞臺(tái)上取得成功的決心。我獲得了自由，因?yàn)樽詈ε碌碾m然已經(jīng)發(fā)生了，但我還活著，我仍然有一個(gè)我深愛的女兒，我還有一個(gè)舊打字機(jī)和一個(gè)很大的想法。所以困境的谷底，成為我重建生活的堅(jiān)實(shí)基礎(chǔ)。you might never fail on the scale i did, but some failure in life is is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by ，但有些失敗，在生活中是不可避免的。生活不可能沒有一點(diǎn)失敗，除非你生活的萬般小心，而那也意味著你沒有真正在生活了。無論怎樣，有些失敗還是注定地要發(fā)生。failure gave me an inner security that i had never attained by passing taught me things about myself that i could have learned no other discovered that i had a strong will, and more discipline than i had suspected。i also found out that i had friends whose value was truly above the price of ，這是我從考試中沒有得到過的。失敗讓我看清自己，這也是我通過其他方式無法體會(huì)的。我發(fā)現(xiàn)，我比自己認(rèn)為的，要有更強(qiáng)的意志和決心。我還發(fā)現(xiàn)，我擁有比寶石更加珍貴的朋友。the knowledge that you have emerged wiser and stronger from setbacks means that you are, ever after, secure