【正文】 與其一味顧慮重重，不如從局外人的角度看待決策之事。其實(shí)，我們有能力面對(duì)這些痛苦的感受，從中領(lǐng)悟到出路。Whenever a painful situation arises in your life, try to embrace it instead of running away or trying to mask the hurt. When the sadness strikes, take a deep breath and lean into it. When we run away from sadness that’s unfolding in our lives, it gets stronger and more real. We take an emotion that’s fleeting and make it a solid event, instead of something that passes through us.當(dāng)生活中出現(xiàn)痛苦的事情時(shí)，別再逃跑或隱藏痛苦，試著擁抱它吧；當(dāng)悲傷來(lái)襲時(shí)，試著深呼吸，然后直面它。 instead of letting the world soften us, we let it drive us deeper into ourselves. We try to deflect the hurt and pain by pretending it doesn’t exist, but although we can try this all we want, in the end, we can’t hide from ourselves. We need to learn to open our hearts to the potentials of life and let the world soften us.生活發(fā)生不幸時(shí)，我們常常會(huì)關(guān)上心門(mén)；世界不僅沒(méi)能慰藉我們，反倒使我們更加消沉。 Have declared the end of the encounter that haven39。那些曾經(jīng)所謂的非做不可，只是青蔥年華里自己給自己注射的一支強(qiáng)心劑，或者說(shuō)，是自以為是的精神寄托罷了。s time, your ideas are always special to clear. Want, want, line is clear, as if nothing could shake his. Also once seemed to be determined to do something, but more often is he backed out at last. Dislike his cowardice, finally found that there are a lot of love, there are a lot of miss, like shadow really have been doomed. Those who do, just green years oneself give oneself an arm injection, or is a selfrighteous spiritual.　　一個(gè)人的時(shí)候，自己的想法總是特別地清晰。t want to give vent to out your inner voice can be in the high school children of the feelings in a period, but was eventually infarction when graduation party in the throat, later again stood on the pitch he has sweat profusely, looked at his thrown a basketball hoops, suddenly found himself has already can39。The end of our life, and can meet many things really do?　　而窮盡我們的一生，又能遇到多少事情是真正地非做不可？During my childhood, think lucky money and new clothes are necessary for New Year, but as the advance of the age, will be more and more found that those things are optional。 May be back in the past, to oneself the paranoid weird belief disillusionment, these days, my mind has been very messy, in my mind constantly. Always feel oneself should go to do something, or write something. Twenty years of life trajectory deeply shallow, suddenly feel something, do it.　　一字開(kāi)頭的年齡已經(jīng)到了尾聲。s 21 win.Michel Platini, president of European football39。s about how he felt and I would like to speak to him first to find out what his experience was.Uefa hasEmployment tribunals.The (lack of) air up there Watch m Cay man Islandsbased Webb, the head of Fifa39。if you win the case.you39。appealedFurther help. Employment tribunals are less formal than some other courts, but it is still a legal process and you will need to give evidence under an oath or affirmation. Most people find making a claim to an employment tribunal challenging. If you are thinking about making a claim to an employment tribunal, you should get help straight away from one of the organisations listed under最后，要感謝所有同學(xué)及朋友對(duì)我的支持和幫助。改革的基本要求是：首先，資水平應(yīng)該具有較大的彈性；其次，工資總額由勞動(dòng)力供求競(jìng)爭(zhēng)和國(guó)家計(jì)劃雙向調(diào)控。其次要加大執(zhí)法力度，依法保護(hù)流動(dòng)勞動(dòng)者的利益，最后要加強(qiáng)配套的規(guī)章制度建設(shè)，制定全國(guó)統(tǒng)一規(guī)范的勞動(dòng)力流動(dòng)的制度，有利于勞動(dòng)力在全國(guó)范圍內(nèi)自由流動(dòng)。（三）、逐步改革勞動(dòng)就業(yè)制度當(dāng)前，對(duì)于流動(dòng)的勞動(dòng)力來(lái)說(shuō)，勞動(dòng)就業(yè)制度改革一是要建立相對(duì)穩(wěn)定的勞動(dòng)合同關(guān)系，通過(guò)簽訂勞動(dòng)合同來(lái)保障《勞動(dòng)法》賦予勞動(dòng)者的合法權(quán)益，徹底改變過(guò)去對(duì)外來(lái)勞動(dòng)力招之即來(lái)、揮之即去的狀況，二是逐步實(shí)施最低工資標(biāo)準(zhǔn)并納入全社會(huì)工資體系之中，對(duì)于缺少社會(huì)保障體系支持的外來(lái)流動(dòng)人口，實(shí)施最低工資標(biāo)準(zhǔn)是保護(hù)他們基本權(quán)益的最起碼的手段。最后再逐步推廣，過(guò)渡到建立全國(guó)統(tǒng)一平等的戶籍制度。在當(dāng)前無(wú)法完全按全新的戶籍制度運(yùn)行和完全做到自由流動(dòng)的情況下，可以考慮首先在鄉(xiāng)鎮(zhèn)和小城市中以漸進(jìn)方式推開(kāi)。并相應(yīng)地進(jìn)行綜合配套改革，這是實(shí)現(xiàn)勞動(dòng)力有效流動(dòng)的基礎(chǔ)。觀念障礙主要表現(xiàn)是擔(dān)心離開(kāi)國(guó)有企業(yè)之后，難以找到好的工作，沒(méi)有失業(yè)保障等。經(jīng)過(guò)近20年的改革，我國(guó)勞動(dòng)力市場(chǎng)已初具規(guī)模，市場(chǎng)機(jī)制在勞動(dòng)力資源配置中已開(kāi)始發(fā)揮作用，但從總體上看，我國(guó)勞動(dòng)力市場(chǎng)的發(fā)育和發(fā)展仍滯后于其他要素市場(chǎng)的發(fā)展還不適應(yīng)于勞動(dòng)力合理流動(dòng)的需要。機(jī)構(gòu)的不統(tǒng)一給外流人員的社會(huì)保障帶來(lái)了一系列困難，尤其是涉及到身份、職業(yè)、行業(yè)、區(qū)域變動(dòng)的流動(dòng)勞動(dòng)力更是苦不堪言。這不僅有害于我國(guó)城市化、工業(yè)化和現(xiàn)代化的進(jìn)程而且會(huì)由此衍生出一系列社會(huì)問(wèn)題。這一結(jié)論預(yù)示著結(jié)構(gòu)性、局部性的農(nóng)村勞動(dòng)力短缺現(xiàn)象，將會(huì)在中國(guó)時(shí)常發(fā)生從而對(duì)中國(guó)全方位的制度創(chuàng)新和發(fā)展戰(zhàn)略調(diào)整提出了新的要求。但中國(guó)的戶籍制度鎖定了多數(shù)農(nóng)民工的生活預(yù)期目標(biāo)，從而對(duì)這種驅(qū)動(dòng)力產(chǎn)生了消解作用，形成特殊的生命周期，即年輕時(shí)外出打工年齡大了以后回鄉(xiāng)。 （二）、中國(guó)農(nóng)村勞動(dòng)力流動(dòng)問(wèn)題的專(zhuān)題研究 農(nóng)村勞動(dòng)力流動(dòng)的基本特征 流動(dòng)人口的基本特征是農(nóng)村勞動(dòng)力流動(dòng)問(wèn)題研究的起點(diǎn)和基礎(chǔ)。 ２、 二十世紀(jì)八十年代末至九十年代中期關(guān)于農(nóng)村勞動(dòng)力流動(dòng)問(wèn)題的專(zhuān)門(mén)研究開(kāi)始起步20世紀(jì)80年代末各種限制農(nóng)村勞動(dòng)力流動(dòng)的政策開(kāi)始放寬區(qū)域差距、城鄉(xiāng)差距也不斷擴(kuò)大為農(nóng)村勞動(dòng)力跨區(qū)域城鄉(xiāng)流動(dòng)提供了可能。當(dāng)然，并不是每個(gè)人通過(guò)流動(dòng)都可以達(dá)到這種效應(yīng)，但對(duì)勞動(dòng)力流動(dòng)的管理起碼要朝著這個(gè)目標(biāo)來(lái)努力。第三流動(dòng)力流動(dòng)的合理性如何，還要看對(duì)勞動(dòng)者