【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 ______ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ 5． 你是否說出自己與異性交往時(shí)所表現(xiàn)出的模式？例如：“我的傾向是投入得又快又猛，然后傷痕累累?！被颉霸诮煌校医?jīng)常是比較投入的一方?！? ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ★ 給再婚者 1. 若你離過婚，談?wù)劄槭裁磿x婚？你離婚的原因是什么？ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ 2. 想過與過去的配偶復(fù)合嗎？若有過，用什么方法？ 若沒有，為什么沒有？ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________________ 3．有沒有和牧師或輔導(dǎo)人員討論過，以圣經(jīng)立場來看，你是否可以再婚？寫下你的結(jié)論。 _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ 3. 寫出三個(gè)你已走出前次婚姻挫敗，做好再婚準(zhǔn)備的理由。 _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ 4. 寫出三個(gè)你可能還不確定要再婚的理由。 _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________ 第二部份：家庭 ★家庭環(huán)境 1． 你成長的過程中，家庭的經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況如何？現(xiàn)在呢？ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ 2． 你會如何形容家中的氣氛？ ____________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 3． 從小到大，你遭受過任何虐待嗎？（包括身體、情感，以及性等方面）請說明。 ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 4． 你的家庭經(jīng)歷過什么劇變或財(cái)務(wù)危機(jī)嗎？ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 5． 回想一下你的家庭歷史，有沒有什么代代相傳的傳統(tǒng)？（例如，有的家庭所遺留的傳統(tǒng)是在困境中信靠神，另外一個(gè)家庭則是用酒精逃避問題。） ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ★ 父母 1． 你會用那些話來形容你父母的婚姻？說出你選擇這些形容詞的原因。 ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 2． 身為父母，什么是你爸媽做得最好的？ 爸 媽 3． 身為父母，你希望他們在那些方面改變作法？ 爸 媽 4． 寫出父母對你最大的影響（正面或負(fù)面）。 爸 媽 5． 你父母在家務(wù)事上各扮演什么角色？ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 誰是一家之主？ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 孩子聽誰的？ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 他們?nèi)绾巫鰶Q定？ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 6． 選出三到五個(gè)形容詞，描述你與父親的關(guān)系，并說明原因。 ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 7． 選出三到五個(gè)形容詞，描述你與母親關(guān)系，并說明原因。 ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 8． 你在那些方面和父親或母親很像？ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 9． 有那些方面和他們完全不同嗎？ ___________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________ 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