20xxted英語演講在死亡面前，生活如何有意義(編輯修改稿)
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【文章內(nèi)容簡介】 么多病人，或許他可以追蹤他們的腳步。
But he was totally than a path,Paul wrote,I saw insteadonly a harsh, vacant,gleaming white if a sandstorm had erased all had to face my mortalityand try to understand what made my life worth living,and I needed my oncologistamp。rsquo。s help to do so.
但是他徹底的迷失了方向。根本不是一條路，Paul寫到，”。我看到的是只有一片荒蕪、空虛、泛著光的白色的沙漠。就像是一場沙塵暴將所有熟悉的東西都刮跑了。我必須面對我將死的事實，嘗試搞清楚如何能夠活得有意義，我需要我的腫瘤醫(yī)生幫助我?！薄?br /> The clinicians taking care of Paulgave me an even deeper appreciation for my colleagues in health have a tough amp。rsquo。re responsible for helping patients have clarity around their prognosesand their treatment options,and thatamp。rsquo。s never easy,but itamp。rsquo。s especially toughwhen youamp。rsquo。re dealing with potentially terminal illnesses like cancer.
臨床醫(yī)生們對Paul的照料讓我對于我醫(yī)療界的同事有了更深的感激。我們的工作很難。我們有責任幫助患者清楚的知道預(yù)期后果以及他們治療的選擇，這向來不是簡單的事情，尤其是處理癌癥等不治之癥的時候，選擇更加的艱難。
Some people donamp。rsquo。t want to know how long they have left,others way, we never have those we substitute hopeby emphasizing the bestcase a survey of physicians,55 percent said they painted a rosier picturethan their honest opinionwhen describing a patientamp。rsquo。s amp。rsquo。s an instinct born out of researchers have foundthat when people better understand the possible outes of an illness,they have less anxiety,greater ability to planand less trauma for their families.
有些人愿意不去知道還有多少時日，有的人想知道。無論哪種，我們都不知道答案的。有時候我們會強調(diào)最好的可能性，以期讓希望顯得更大一些。一次面向醫(yī)生的調(diào)查中，55%的醫(yī)生說當他們跟病人描述預(yù)后時，相比于他們真實的意見，他們會嘗試說得更有希望一些。這是一種出于本能的友善。但是研究人員發(fā)現(xiàn)當患者能夠更好的理解疾病的預(yù)期后果時，他們的焦慮更少，更有可能好好規(guī)劃，并可能減少給家庭帶來的傷痛。
Families can struggle with those conversations,but for us, we also found that information immensely helpful with big notably,whether to have a to a few years meant Paul was not likely to see her grow he had a good chance of being there for her birthand for the beginning of her life.
一個家庭在討論這類話題時可能非常痛苦，但是我們同樣發(fā)現(xiàn)在做重大決策時真實信息的重要性。最重要的是，要不要生孩子。只有不到一兩年的預(yù)期壽命意味著Paul無法看到女兒長大。但是他能夠有機會看到女兒的出生并在生命開始的時候陪伴左右。
I remember asking Paulif he thought havingto say goodbye to a childwould make dying even more his answer astounded said,Wouldnamp。rsquo。t it be great if it did?And we did in order to spite cancer,but because we were learningthat living fully means accepting suffering.
我記得問過Paul要跟一個襁褓中的孩子告別會不會讓死亡更加痛苦。他的回答震撼了我。他說，”。真能這樣，難道不會更好么?”。于是我們懷孕了。并不是為了跟癌癥斗爭，而是因為我們學(xué)會了有意義的生活，包括了接受苦難。
Paulamp。rsquo。s oncologist tailored his chemoso he could continue working as a neurosurgeon,which initially we thought was totally the cancer advancedand Paul shifted from surgery to writing,his palliative care doctor prescribed a stimulant medicationso he could be more asked Paul about his priorities and his asked him what tradeoff she was willing to conver
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