20xxted英語(yǔ)演講在死亡面前，生活如何有意義-文庫(kù)吧資料
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【正文】 in order to spite cancer,but because we were learningthat living fully means accepting suffering.
我記得問(wèn)過(guò)Paul要跟一個(gè)襁褓中的孩子告別會(huì)不會(huì)讓死亡更加痛苦。
I remember asking Paulif he thought havingto say goodbye to a childwould make dying even more his answer astounded said,Wouldnamp。只有不到一兩年的預(yù)期壽命意味著Paul無(wú)法看到女兒長(zhǎng)大。
Families can struggle with those conversations,but for us, we also found that information immensely helpful with big notably,whether to have a to a few years meant Paul was not likely to see her grow he had a good chance of being there for her birthand for the beginning of her life.
一個(gè)家庭在討論這類(lèi)話題時(shí)可能非常痛苦，但是我們同樣發(fā)現(xiàn)在做重大決策時(shí)真實(shí)信息的重要性。這是一種出于本能的友善。有時(shí)候我們會(huì)強(qiáng)調(diào)最好的可能性，以期讓希望顯得更大一些。s an instinct born out of researchers have foundthat when people better understand the possible outes of an illness,they have less anxiety,greater ability to planand less trauma for their families.
有些人愿意不去知道還有多少時(shí)日，有的人想知道。s amp。t want to know how long they have left,others way, we never have those we substitute hopeby emphasizing the bestcase a survey of physicians,55 percent said they painted a rosier picturethan their honest opinionwhen describing a patientamp。
Some people donamp。我們的工作很難。rsquo。rsquo。rsquo。rsquo。”。就像是一場(chǎng)沙塵暴將所有熟悉的東西都刮跑了。根本不是一條路，Paul寫(xiě)到，”。rsquo。d be able to see the path,that because he treated so many patients,maybe he could follow in their footsteps.
在那段時(shí)間，Paul記錄了他從醫(yī)生到病人的轉(zhuǎn)變，他談到了突然感覺(jué)自己站在了十字路口，以及他是如何以為自己能看清道路，因?yàn)樗呀?jīng)幫助過(guò)那么多病人，或許他可以追蹤他們的腳步。
During that time,Paul wrote about his transition from doctor to talked about feeling like he was suddenly at a crossroads,and how he would have though theamp。當(dāng)真的自己遇到的時(shí)候，親身經(jīng)歷悲傷和不確定性是完全不同的體驗(yàn)。我們并沒(méi)有感到憤怒，很幸運(yùn)，因?yàn)槲覀冊(cè)缇湍慷锰辔Ｖ氐牟∪?，我們知道，死，是生命的一部分。s one thing to know that。d seen so many patient sin devastating situations,and we knew that death is a part of itamp。t angry about it,luckily,because weamp。
As physicians,Paul and I were in a good positionto understand and evenaccept his werenamp。我會(huì)完成你的愿望。一種照料對(duì)方的契約，將誓言銘刻下來(lái)直到生死相隔，我永不言棄。like a wedding pact to take care of someone,codifying the promisethat til death do us part,I will be needed, I will speak for will honor your paperwork became a tangible part of our love story.
我意識(shí)到預(yù)留醫(yī)療指示(ADS)是一種愛(ài)的舉動(dòng)。當(dāng)真正面對(duì)時(shí)并沒(méi)有那么可怕。像是立遺囑這樣的事情，完成預(yù)留醫(yī)療指示(ADS)。同時(shí)也是一種大度，同時(shí)也非常舒心，因?yàn)槲覀兺耆恼\(chéng)實(shí)，這種誠(chéng)實(shí)正是我們最需要的。tasks that I had always avoided 。rsquo。我當(dāng)時(shí)想，哇，我覺(jué)得我們當(dāng)時(shí)什么都敢說(shuō)了。我希望你能再嫁。我知道了當(dāng)我們一起努力，我們就能知道成功是什么樣子。過(guò)程充滿痛苦，讓人傷透腦筋。這些經(jīng)歷讓我學(xué)會(huì)了堅(jiān)強(qiáng)并不意味著回到過(guò)去的自己，或假裝那些很痛苦的事情沒(méi)什么大不了的。而照顧Paul的經(jīng)歷讓我對(duì)于照料者的理解更深刻。s the I learned that when we approach it together,we get to decide what success looks like.
我一直認(rèn)為自己是一名照料者。s painful, messy itamp。t is so amp。those experiences taught methat resilience does not mean bouncing back to where you were before,or pretendin
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