【正文】 orld, this Earth, to be like a school and our life the sometimes here in this Planet Earth school the lessons often e dressed up as detours or sometimes as fullblown the secret I39。m a talk show host.” He39。s my middle name—“I don39。cause, you know, I39。d rather be, because I39。s been see, Kirby39。s a very smart wants people to get to know her on her own terms, she in terms of who she , she never wants anyone who39。m so proud of Kirby, who graduates today with two degrees, one in human bio and the other in you, Kirby Cakes!That39。m not going to march with my by that point, I was already on 39。t know what you39。d say, “I don39。ve learned to getting ahead is being open to the lessons, lessons from the grandest university of all, that is, the universe 39。re all trying to do, bee more of I believe that there39。re like, “Listen, this is my is not about you.” So, it39。re only when you39。s a friendly name: Suzie.” Hi, can39。s then they said they didn39。d go back and I39。d one day I was reading copy and I called Canada “ca nada.” And I decided, this Barbara thing39。s where I learned that after eight months, I lost that said I was too was too since they didn39。re doing something right? How do you know that? It feels I know now is that feelings are really your GPS system for you39。 is what I39。re involving the wholeness of ourselves in our work, both our expertise and our , I say to you, forget about the fast you really want to fly, just harness your power to your your has your heart and success will e to , how do I define success? Let me tell you, money39。t feel right, don39。t pay attention to life39。it means acting with of you know that, as President Hennessy said, I started this school in I founded the school, where I39。s the simplest of Brooks wrote a poem for her 39。ve bequeathed to all of you know the story of how this great school came to be, how the Stanfords lost their only child to typhoid at the age of had every right and they had every reason to turn their backs against the world at that time, but instead, they channeled their grief and their pain into an act of a year of their son39。s actually a helper39。s no better way to make your mark on the world and to share that abundance with constant prayer for myself is to be used in service for the greater , let me end with one of my favorite quotes from Martin Luther said, “Not everybody can be famous.” And I don39。t have to make your subject and verb agree to don39。s up to you to decide, really, where will you now use those gifts? You39。t pull that off!Congratulations, 39。因為一開始我的“感覺”就不對。但直覺告訴我，我必須為這些人做點什么。感覺，就像你生命中的GpS導航器，會引導你做或不做。但有很多錢并不表示你成功了。這也是我今天要說的最后一課，如何尋找幸福?這聽起來是一個廣泛的大題目，但是有一個再簡單不過的方法。當你陷入一團糟，惟一走出迷霧的辦法，就是帶別人走出迷霧。08, is my , I was thrilled when President Hennessy asked me to be your Commencement speaker, because this is the first time I39。s Gayle King!” Because a lot of people know Gayle King as my BFF [best friend forever].正如你們知道的那樣Kirby是一個非常聰明的女孩。s my mom.”And so the person says, “Ohmigod, does it mean, like, you know OprahWinfrey?”And Kirby says, “Sort of.” 有些人走到Kirby面前，對Kirby說：“我的天啊，那是Gayle King嗎？”Kirby說：“嗯，她 是我媽媽。s how well I know can call her ：“有一點。我可以叫她Cakes。m just going to forget it, 39。但是我本來不會拿到我 的畢業(yè)證，因為我本應該在1975 年畢業(yè)，但是我少了一個學分。m going to let this college thing go and I only had one credit , my father, from that time on and for years after, was always on my case, because I did not 39。我在走我自己的路。re going to do without that degree.” And I39?！?So, in 1987, Tennessee State University invited me back to speak at their then, I had my own show, was nationally 39。我的爸爸非常的驕傲。有時這些課程會是彎路和障礙。不斷自我提高，去追求人 生的更高境界，去追求更高級別的憐憫和自我提高。” And that is really what we39。So, today, I just want to share a few lessons—meaning three—that I39。你們難道不覺得高興嗎？你們是否會反感，當有人 對你說：“我想分享一些”但事實上卻是10 個經驗。它那時對我來說它仿佛是世界上最重要的事。s where I met my best friend, Gayle, who was an intern at the same TV once we became friends, we39。因此這里只有三個經驗我想和大家分享。t you glad? Don39。s a lesson in almost everything that you do and every experience, and getting the lesson is how you move 39。ve ever received: I interviewed with a reporter when I was first starting out in then many years later, I saw the same she said to me, ”You know what? You really haven39。我所學的應付這一切的秘密就是去勇于面 對，正如我們面對大學課程一樣。t ending many ways, it39。s still saying I39。m a talk show host.“ He39。但是我的父親從那時起卻成了問題。s my middle name—“I don39。你們知道，我不會比得上我的同班同學。m not going to march with my by that point, I was already on 39。s asked me in the past couple of weeks what I was doing, I would say, “I39。我還有照片為證?！盞irby說：“有點吧。因此她從來不希望每一個第一次見到她的人知道她認識我。s been 。因此，不論你在哪個領域，就讓你的工作成為一種回饋吧。”你得活在當下，因為不論過去有多少歡樂，現(xiàn)在都用不上。當你的身邊充滿了你信任、珍惜的人，而他們也同樣珍惜你，這才是真正的財富。我做的每個對的決定，都來自內心的感覺。8個月后，我被新聞臺開除了，但受制于我們簽的合約，他們把我轉去主持一個談話節(jié)目。我越想越不對，心想，不管好記不好記，那終究是我的名字。事實上，我連田納西州立大學都沒有畢業(yè)。cause I know great things are sure to know, I39。t have to know Einstein39。s just—try to pee doesn39。t describe to you or measure when I stopped just being on TV and looking at TV as a job and decided to use television, to use it and not have it use me, to use it as a platform to serve my alone changed the trajectory of my , I know this—that whether you39。s children what they were not able to do for their own lesson here is clear, and that is, if you39。s saying, like Eckhart Tolle, that you have to live for the have to be in the has happened to you in your past has no power over this present moment, because life is I think she39。s get to it。ll get a you resist , if you ask the right question—not why is this happening, but what is this here to teach me?—it puts you in the place and space to get the lesson you friend Eckhart Tolle, who39。s journey is seamless or all all have things go wrong, you hit a dead end—as you will—it39。m not going to stand up here and tell you that it39。t know what to you don39。ve made—every right decision I39。d e realized that TV could be more than just a playground, but a platform for service, for helping other people lift their the moment I sat down, doing that talk show, it felt like felt that39。re an anchor, not a social