【正文】 do your job.” So, I was juggling these messages of expectation and obligation and feeling really miserable with 39。t be able to sleep at night because of all the things I was covering during the , meanwhile, I was trying to sit gracefully like Barbara and make myself talk like I thought, well, I could make a pretty goofy if I could figure out how to be myself, I could be a pretty good was trying to sound elegant like sometimes I didn39。t like the way you look.” Now that would be called a lawsuit, but back then they could just say, “I don39。t , you know, I39。re making $40,000!” When I turned 40, I was so glad that didn39。clock news in Baltimore, because the whole goal in the media at the time I was ing up was you try to move to larger Baltimore was a much larger market than , getting the 6 o39。s how you enrich your , trust me, I know that inner wisdom is more precious than more you spend it, the more you , today, I just want to share a few lessons—meaning three—that I39。cause that39。re going to get another job without that degree.” So, in 1987, Tennessee State University invited me back to speak at their then, I had my own show, was nationally 39。d say, “But, Dad, I have my own television show.” And he39。clock curfew doing the 10 o39。s asked me in the past couple of weeks what I was doing, I would say, “I39。s Gayle King!” Because a lot of people know Gayle King as my BFF [best friend forever].And so somebody es up to Kirby, and they say, “Ohmigod, is that Gayle King?” And Kirby39。08, is my , I was thrilled when President Hennessy asked me to be your Commencement speaker, because this is the first time I39。m so happy to be here, just happy that I finally, after four years, get to see her 39。t go to went to Tennessee State I never would have gotten my diploma at all, because I was supposed to graduate back in 1975, but I was short one I figured, I39。m going to let this college thing go and I only had one credit , my father, from that time on and for years after, was always on my case, because I did not 39。re going to do without that degree.” And I39。m not going to get anywhere without that , I finished my coursework, I turned in my final paper and I got the my dad was very I know that, if anything happens, that one credit will be my I also know why my dad was insisting on that diploma, because, as put it, “The beautiful thing about learning is that nobody can take that away from you.” And learning is really in the broadest sense what I want to talk about today, because your education, of course, isn39。ve ever received: I interviewed with a reporter when I was first starting out in then many years later, I saw the same she said to me, “You know what? You really haven39。t you hate it when somebody says, “I39。d say, “Ohmigod, I can39。t feel first sign, as President Hennessy was saying, was when they tried to change my news director said to me at the time, “Nobody39。re never going to find , I grew up not loving the name, but once I was asked to change it, I thought, well, it is my name and do I look like a Suzie to you? So, I thought, no, it doesn39。t like the way I now I am black and bald and sitting on a pretty even worse than being bald, I really hated, hated, hated being sent to report on other people39。t read the copy—because I wanted to be spontaneous—and I39。ve kept a journal since I was 15—so I now have volumes of , I39。re meant to do, it feels right and every day is a bonus, regardless of what you39。t feel right, don39。s no longer just the logical, linear, rulesbased thinking that matters, he 39。s good for buying having a lot of money does not automatically make you a successful you want is money and want your work to be meaning is what brings the real richness to your you really want is to be surrounded by people you trust and treasure and by people who cherish 39。t have to repeat the you don39。t react against a bad situation。d built that school from the outside in, when what really mattered was the inside , it39。s a lesson that39。s when you39。ve been called, as so many of you here today getting doctorates and other degrees, to the professions of business, law, engineering, humanities, science, medicine, if you choose to offer your skills and talent in service, when you choose the paradigm of service, looking at life through that paradigm, it turns everything you do from a job into a I know you haven39。s the fame trip, so I don39。ll all be officially Stanford39。s A New Earth is my current book club New Earth webcast has been downloaded 30 million times with that Daniel Pink39。這跟我今天要談的三件事：感覺、失敗與快樂，息息相關(guān)。他們把我送進(jìn)美容院，把頭發(fā)燙起來，不消幾天，卷發(fā)全垮下來，怎么梳也不行，我只好全部剃光，重頭來過?！案杏X”就像生命中的GpS我要講的第一件事：就是相信你的“感覺”。今天，個(gè)人成功的路徑不再靠邏輯、規(guī)則、線性思考，而是感情、喜悅、動(dòng)機(jī)。否則，失敗總是會(huì)換一種樣式，繼續(xù)出現(xiàn)在你面前，你得補(bǔ)考，考不過就得再考。往前行必須有所回饋，生命中最可貴的，就是你能夠回饋。第三篇：奧普拉在斯坦福大學(xué)2008年畢業(yè)典禮上的演講奧普拉在斯坦福大學(xué)2008年畢業(yè)典禮上的演講Feelings, Failure and Finding Happiness 感覺、失敗及尋找幸福Thank you, President Hennessy, and to thetrustees and the faculty, to all of the parents and grandparents, to you, the Stanford you for letting me share this amazing day with ，全體教員，家長，還有斯坦福的畢業(yè)生門，非常感謝你們。You see, Kirby39。因?yàn)楹芏嗳硕贾繥ayle King是我最好的朋友。s really nowhere else I39。我非常高興來到這里，因?yàn)樗哪?來我第一次來到她的寢室。但是在過去的幾周里，每當(dāng)人們問我在做什么時(shí)，我都會(huì)說：“我正 準(zhǔn)備去斯坦福”I just love saying “Stanford.” Because the truth is, I know I would have never gotten my degree at all, 39。clock （用一種奇怪的語調(diào)）。我是唯一一個(gè)電視節(jié)目主持人，雖然有11 點(diǎn)的宵禁，卻做著 10 點(diǎn)鐘的新聞。d say, “But, Dad, I have my own television show.” 嚴(yán)肅地說，我爸爸告訴我，“好吧，新聞10：30結(jié)束?！盇nd he39。re going to get another job without that degree.“ 他說：“好吧，但是我還是不知道沒有那個(gè)學(xué)位你能干什么。我制作了一部電影，并被奧斯卡提名，而且成立了 我自己的公司Harpo。The world has so many lessons to teach consider the world, this Earth, to be like a school and our life the sometimes here in this Planet Earth school the lessons often e dressed up as detours or sometimes as fullblown the secret I39。cause that39。很多年以后我們又見面了。這樣你們豐富了心靈。s 10 lessons later? And, you39。clock news in Baltimore, because the whole goal in the media at the time I was ing up was you try to move to larger Baltimore was a much larger market than , getting the 6 o39。re making