【正文】 .............................16 Change Parents’ “Autocracy” into Family “Democracy”......................16 Change the Cold War “Silence” into Constructive “Communicate”......17Chapter 6 Conclusion.............................................................................18Bibliography...............................................................................................19學(xué)習(xí)參考 Chapter One Introduction Research Purpose Family Education is an inseparable and important part in the whole teaching system, it is related to the improvement of Chinese nation’s overall quality and children’s healthy growth. Its problems have been receiving great concerns since long time ago. But family education’s problem wasn’t used as a conducted research subject in our country until the past few years. This is actually determined by the development of the time and by the demand of the talents. Besides, it is also a demand that should be solved under the increasing of Chinese nation’s overall equality. Western family education patterns have been receiving highly praise since ancient time. However, when it es to Chinese Family Education, there will always get various criticizes. Under the increasingly growth of the social petition, nowadays, all of Chinese parents expect their son to grow as a dragon, or expect the daughter to grow as a phoenix (In Chinese traditional culture, dragon is stand peace and powerful, also the dragon is super king of all animals。研究首先從中美兩國(guó)文化差異和兩國(guó)家庭教育的差異這兩個(gè)方面，結(jié)合譚恩美小說(shuō)《喜福會(huì)》中所反映的中西方家庭教育的差異盡可能的全面的闡述和梳理。學(xué)習(xí)參考XXXXXX學(xué)院 畢 業(yè) 論 文 從文化的角度分析《喜福會(huì)》中的 中西方家庭教育的差異 系 別： XX系 專 業(yè)： XX 年 級(jí)： XXXX班 學(xué) 號(hào)： XXXXXXXX 姓 名： XXX 指導(dǎo)教師： XX XXXXXX學(xué)院教務(wù)處印制年 月 日BACHELOR’S DEGREE THESISOF LUOJIA COLLEGE WUHAN UNIVERSITY Analyzing the Cultural Difference of Family Education between East and West In the Joy Luck ClubDepartment: X DepartmentSubject: XName: XXXSupervisor: Prof. XXX May 2014 XXXXXX學(xué)院本科畢業(yè)論文原創(chuàng)性聲明本人鄭重聲明： 所呈交的畢業(yè)論文（設(shè)計(jì)），是本人在導(dǎo)師的指導(dǎo)下，獨(dú)立進(jìn)行研究工作所取得的成果。 傳統(tǒng)文化的差異孕育了不同的家庭教育，而不同的家庭教育反映著不同的社會(huì)文化內(nèi)涵。 the way of family education。iz R, Fern225。 3)the train of children’s mental quality。t that true? And we both laughed. (Amy Tan 201) Therefore, American parents pay special attention to children’s “exercise” such as: “Labor Exercise”, “Loyal or Honesty Exercise”, etc. They try their best to help the children to form their own habit and notion of independent so as to have a bright future. They act like a guide to help their children to dig out their own potential and make their dream into realization. The Purpose of Chinese Family EducationHigh Expectations VS High UtilityThe purpose of the Chinese education is expecting their children to be a successful person. When Jingmei’s mother Suyun came to America, she brought a swan from China, she thought: In America I will have a daughter just like me. But over there nobody will say her worth is measured by the loudness of her husband39。t understand you, said Marlene when I called her the night after I had shown my mother the mink jacket. You can tell the IRS to piss up a rope, but you can39。t ever tell a Chinese mother to shut up. You could be charged as an accessory to your own murder.From Waverly’s coworker’s words, we can know the that American’s way of education focus on freedom and equality, and they can see whatever they can. We can also see this from Rich’s words....Rich was smiling. How long does it take to say, Mom, Dad, I39。t work right when my stomach was too full. I left the table with halffinished bowls and nobody plained. (Amy Tan78) Auntie Lindo try her best to satisfied Waverly’s learning needs in almost every aspects. Their purpose is to make sure that their children could find a better job and to live a better life. It is of high expectations, high utility and harder to make it into realization. Based on this purpose, the parents pay special attention to their school achievement. What’s more, some of the parents even prepare everything for their children to just focus on study. Their only request for their children is to make sure that they can sit for learning so as to achieve higher diploma. However, they ignore their potential, restraint their creation, on the contrary, ignore the development of the potential talent side of the children. Without noticing the problem of children’s character, social adjustment and civic awareness...they may not be suitable to stand in the society with the good school achievement. What’s more, some of the parents pass their unfinished dream onto their children which could make the children to have big pressure, and might failed their parents’ expectations. The Way of Family Education between China and America Family is the reflection of culture on the other side. Parents conduct the children’s behavior through their guiding, which is also the ways of education that decide the children’s behavior. In general, Chinese parents have the absolute authority in guiding the children, so the parents is acting as a deciding and leading role。 does not mean Caucasian. But if he is not a citizen, you should immediately do number two. See here, you should have a baby. Boy or girl,it doesn39。s and the beginning of the 21st century.In the latest year, the research about family education began to appear in a special but also important family group: single family, especially a family that a boy is raised by his mother alone without his father on his side. Yue Long（2013）, in analyzing the ways of family education through large amounts of researc