【正文】 ’s cynical and arrogant attitude of indifference to him left a deep impression on him. With the deepening of contacts, Paul found that she in fact had a very desire of the man’s love and appeasement. Because the marriage between Carla and her husband is a failure. Between them is still a physical love. When Paul asked her whether she and her husband married for love, she said,.Miriam is so cut off from her instinctive sexuality that she can scarcely stand the shock of physical love. It is precisely because of Miriam can’t overe the psychological barriers, so, it makes she and Pail’s love get finally shortlived.IV. Sexual Love“anguished sweetness”. On the one hand, she is glad to be with Paul。.The paragraphs that describe the farewell meeting between Miriam and Paul is a sound example.“She felt that now he lay at her mercy. If she could rise, take him, put her arms round him, and say,if he could depend on her, if she could.She never wanted to be other than a girl, thus woman should have felt lucky. The unhappy relationship between Miriam and Paul is the logical result of conflict between feminism and Paternity of the time.Her hope to be a princess, though sounds romantic, implies a wish to be respected,\“I want to do something. I want a chance like anybody elsePaul to Miriam is a kind of psychological, platonic love, after eating the fruit of the Garden of Eden, he feel it is difficult to keep their love. At last, he had no choice but gave up.B. Miriam’s Contradiction in Their LoveMiriam Leavers, Paul’s teenage friend and sweetheart, is modeled after Lawrence’s own young love, Jessie Chambers. As Jessie is with Lawrence, Miriam is Paul’s devoted helpmate in his artistic and spiritual quests. Beautiful as she is she takes no pleasure in her physical attributes. Her whole life is geared toward heaven and a mystical sense of nature. Paul and Miriam’s first bond is their mutual love of nature, both of them enjoys idyllic country walks. Miriam is anthropomorphic, she has been brought up by a truly god fearing mother actually he can’t build up a right superego concept to control his instinctive impulsion which goes against morality and ethics。 I have nothing more to do with you. You only want me to wait on you—the rest is for Miriam.”11In order to occupy Paul’s whole soul, the mother even vows to Paul:.But his mother saidThe woman who will stay with him in his mind is only his mother instead of his later wife:Paul always worries about a lot when he gets along with the other women because of the effects from his mother. He is with Miriam so closely and so often that makes the relationships of him and his parents more plex and brings new problems and trouble to him. He can’t control himself and handle it successfully as his Oedipus plex is serious. So he loses the ability to love other women. He was afraid of her. The fact that he might want her as a man wants a woman had in him been suppressed into a shame. When she shrank in her convulsed, coiled torture from the thought of such a thing, he had winced to do depths of his soul. And now this” 3 So Paul feels disappointed and fear again after his father es back from hospital.Paul is nearly 20 years old, but his affection is pletely controlled by his mother. He is hostile to his father, and often prays his attention seems always to be centralized to her.Paul’s passions upon his mother and the mother’s upon him are quietly mutual. When he is together with his mother, his love spews like a fountain, and his inspiration flashes like a flame. Both the flowers he plucks and the rewards he gets are to be devoted to his mother, only for herself. They tell each other their feelings from their innermost world, and share the happiness and grievance with each other. This kind of emotion which excesses the normal one between mother and son reaches a climax when Mr. Morel—Mrs. Clara Dawes—and her vengeful husband. In the end, with Mrs. Morel’s slow death, we find that the closest and most meaningful bond is held between mother and son. The novel is notable for being the first English novel to be genuinely workingclass in origin and focus. This book has been regarded by critics as a brilliant illustration of Freud’s theory of Oedipus plex.II(1915), Women in LoveLawrence take human relationship, especially that of men and women, as his major theme. His novels are full of scenes of sensuous beauty, with a lot of naturalistic details. His works turned out to be a challenge to conventional morality. And some people rejected them, especially Lady Chatterley’s LoverOn Paul Morel’s Deformed Love in Sons and LoversI.(1913). His other enduring works are the RainbowUp to now, there are many scholars who study his works, especially his Sons and Lovers. Some scholars research the religion of the book, and some talk about its pregnant meaning, and some argue the structure and style, even some survey the feminism in the book. This paper intends to talk about the main character, Paul’s love between Mrs. Morel, Miriam, and Clara.B. The Introduction About sons and loversSons and Lovers was the first of Lawrence’s major works, and is still considered to be one of his best. The 1913 novel was partly autobiographical and was set in the coalmining village of Bentwood. The parents of the central character, Paul, are Mr. and Mrs. Morel who are a vigorous and heavydrinking miner and a welleducated, pretty intellectual respectively. We learn of Paul’s successful brother and sister, William and Annie, but are soon drawn into Paul’s world. He is still in his teens but works in a factory producing surgical appliances but bees sick and spends his time with Miriam Leviers who he falls in love with. Their love is made difficult by Miriam’s intense and religious nature and the fondness Paul’s mother has for him that is protective to the point of dependence. As Paul reaches his early twenties he bees passionate and makes