【正文】 o give it.” 6“Lord, let my father die.” 4 When he grows older, he even treats his father with fists. However, his mother is the most important and the only lofty person in his mind. Facing the intense conflicts between mother and Miriam, Paul thinks his most passionate love belongs to his beloved mother. It seemed to Paul that his mother looked lovely, in her new black silk blouse with its bit of white trimming. There is a short conversation from him to his mother:(Paul’s father) is in hospital as a work accident. For example, he even says to his mother with joy:.Deformed Love—The Love Between Paul and His MotherA. Oedipus Complex and the Effect ion of Oedipus Complex in Sons and LoversOedipus plex is a Freudian term originating from a Greek tragedy, in which King Oedipus unknowingly killed his father and married his mother. 1According to Freud’s psychosexual development theory, children are born with powerful sexual urges. From 3 to 5, they bee especially aware of the differences between themselves and members of the opposite sex. In this period, a child bees a rival for the affections of the parent of the opposite sex. The boy wants to win his mother for himself, so he tends to be hostile to his father. The girl does exactly the opposite. However, neither the parent nor their children are aware of this. It is an unconscious process.In Sons and Lovers, Paul is the main character of Oedipus Complex. Paul hates his father. When he was a child, he often prays the God make his father die. When he grows up, he even treats his father with fists. Paul loves his mother. When was a little boy, he was closer with the mother than other children in the family. When he became a young man, he falls in love with Miriam. But his hearts and spirit are controlled by his mother. One day, he dates with Miriam and he arrives home late. His mother is so angry. At that time, he thinks he betrayed his mother. He always tells his mother that he will not marry forever because he wants to be with his mother. When he mother die, he even cried and called his mother(1920), The Lost Girl(1928), as pornographic. But his books are filled with ideas and they penetrate into the shadows of the human psyche. In his works, Lawrence showed the instinctual force in human nature and offered a critique of modern industrial society. IntroductionA. The Introduction About the Author—D. H. Lawrence, was one of the most original and controversial English writers of the 20th century. He was considered one of the“makes” of modern English fiction.Lawrence’s life time was short, but he left a lot of controversial and characteristic literary works. There are many descriptions of undisguised sexual activities in his works which are based on English native country, but its main intention is to express a keen criticism of society. Both social criticism and characters’ psychological exploration are the basic characteristics of Lawrence’s works. His first novel was Sons and Lovers(1920), and so on, and the book that brought him his illfame was, of course, Lady Chatterley’s Lover.“l(fā)ove”. Paul’s words and his behavior show that how he loves his mother and who his mother is in his heart.“I’m the man in the house now.” 2“At any rate, mother, I’ll never marry.” 5, which can show that he is involved into an inextricable trouble due to his love towards his mother.So he gets himself into trouble again, he seemingly realizes that he never lives by his own will and his own way, he never leads a real life for himself. He not only feels that he can’t live without her but also feels if she lives, he can’t live independently. But when he accelerates his mother’s death personally, he cries again and again:“I can’t bear it. I could put up with another woman—but not her. She’d leave me no room, not a bit of room.” 10Obviously, Mrs. Morel really wants to take up her son’s emotion only for herself. When Miriam often dates with Paul, Mrs. Morel can’t control her envious feeling again. At a time, she says to Paul angrily:C. The Influence of This Deformed Love— The Love Between Paul and MiriamA. Paul’s Antinomy in Their LovePaul, who is the second sons of Gertrude, because of influencing by his mother’s deformed love, he can’t make himself gives the whole love to his friend, Miriam. When he stays with Miriam, he could feel the love pleasure, but he also feels the contradictory. Because he always thinks he has betrayed his mother after dating with the beautiful girl. On one hand, he thinks his mother is a tragic person, and he must trade her better to replace his father, take care of the mother. On the other hand, he thinks not only in spirit with her love, more hope that there is physical contact.Miriam on the subordination of the flesh so that Paul sees their relationship is spiritual, rather than the perfect bination of Body and Soul.“She will never make him bee a man, never!”14 Although these words are Mrs. Morel wanted to destroy their relationship, Paul is indeed feels into the deep attachment to his mother and the requirement of together with Miriam both made him couldn’t be able to extricate him. But now, Paul’s Oedipus Complex is put to the second placeman the pursuit of mental and physical life of passion is the first. It is this strong passion in general prompted him to decide to leave Miriam, because he knew that keeping the relationship with this kind of angel couldn39。“envy” of male sex. For example, she fight with her brothers whom she considers brutal louts, and she doesn’t hold her father in too high esteem because he does not carry any mystical ideals cherished in his heart, but only wants to have as easy a time as he can, and eats his meals when she is ready for them\\, man is actually the king, while woman is not queen or princess but subjects ruled by them. Miriam’s bitterness lies in here.Then she would be stronger than him then she could love him. If she could be mistress of him in