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【正文】 Clayton M. Christensen, How Will You Measure Your Life? Harvard Business Review, JulyAugust 2023 People who are driven to excel have this unconscious propensity to underinvest in their families and overinvest in their careers— even though intimate and loving relationships with their families are the most powerful and enduring source of happiness. There es a point during the teen years when power tools no longer work. At that point parents start wishing that they had begun working with their children at a very young age to build a culture at home in which children instinctively behave respectfully toward one another, obey their parents, and choose the right thing to do. I know I’ ve had a substantial impact. But as I’ ve confronted this disease, it’ s been interesting to see how unimportant that impact is to me now. I’ ve concluded that the metric by which God will assess my life isn’ t dollars but the individual people whose lives I39。 “倉(cāng)廩實(shí)而知禮節(jié)，衣食足而知榮辱。淵深而魚(yú)生之，山深而獸往之，人富而仁義附焉。既已施于國(guó)，吾欲用之家。故善治生者，能擇人而任時(shí)。故言富者皆稱陶朱公。”蓋天下言治生祖白圭。百歲，來(lái)之以德。 居之一歲，種之以谷。故曰：“吾治生產(chǎn)，猶伊尹、呂尚之謀，孫、吳用兵，商鞅行法是也。此所謂富好行其德者也。朱公以為陶天下之中，諸侯四通，貨物所交易也。天下攘攘，皆為利往。故君子富，好行其德?！必?cái)匱少而山澤不辟矣。但一般說(shuō)來(lái)，下屬總是愿意追隨一個(gè)綜合實(shí)力遠(yuǎn)高于自己的領(lǐng)導(dǎo)。 風(fēng)水是迷信嗎？評(píng)價(jià)標(biāo)準(zhǔn)有二：一、經(jīng)過(guò)實(shí)踐檢驗(yàn)，風(fēng)水理論和實(shí)踐不相符合；二、風(fēng)水理論自身存在邏輯矛盾。 歸因（ attribution） 外部暫時(shí) 外部穩(wěn)定 內(nèi)部暫時(shí) 1 3 內(nèi)部穩(wěn)定 2 4 種類(lèi) /性質(zhì) /情境 交換 合作 競(jìng)爭(zhēng) 沖突 強(qiáng)制 夫妻 父子 兄弟 親戚 師生 同學(xué) 朋友 上下 同事 鄰居 戀人 戰(zhàn)友 敵人 關(guān)系的種類(lèi)與性質(zhì) 1. 每一種關(guān)系其利益點(diǎn)如何？不同性質(zhì)的關(guān)系什么條件下會(huì)如何轉(zhuǎn)化？ Integrating Obliging Dominating Avoiding 考慮自己 低 高 考慮對(duì)方 高 低 Compromising 人際沖突處理模式 The Styles of Handling Interpe
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