【正文】
experience of love is an inner state. When this is present, you are happy, alive, and free. You feel good about yourself and good about life. As you bring this experience of love into your life, life works effortlessly and great things happen. Whether you live in a state of love or a state of upset depends, not on your circumstances, but on how you relate to your circumstances. A good way to see this is to look at upset. There would be no upset because upsets aren39。 Upsets seem to be caused by what happens but they are not. Upsets are caused by your fighting and resisting what happens. To see this in your life, select a recent upset, now notice what would happen if somehow you were at peace with what happened. There would be no upset. The opposite of love is fear and upset. When this is present, you lose down inside. You lose your creativity and ability to see clearly. You get tunnel vision and you interact in a way that almost always makes your situation worse.你可能不會(huì)得到你想要的東西,但是可以得到內(nèi)心的自由釋放。這種想法改變了兩人之間的關(guān)系,從單純需要簡轉(zhuǎn)變到學(xué)會(huì)珍惜她。羅伯特害怕失去簡,因?yàn)槿绻嗠x開,他就得經(jīng)歷不被愛的苦楚。就是為了避免感受這樣的痛苦,你才會(huì)抵制生活。所以停止抵制,學(xué)會(huì)相信吧。當(dāng)你知道自己會(huì)沒事時(shí),放手就變得相對簡單了。但在行動(dòng)上,你要盡一