【正文】 第一篇：營造健康和諧的家庭氛圍一、“媽媽”需要好心態(tài)我們生下子女，就必須肩負(fù)起養(yǎng)育的責(zé)任。我在懷孕7個月時，辭職回家，在兒子2歲4個月上幼兒園之后才重返職場。兒子幼年的每個成長階段都有我的陪伴！現(xiàn)在，兒子17歲，我對孩子的教育沒有任何遺憾。雖然兒子并不完美，但我盡到了做母親應(yīng)盡的職責(zé)，讓我欣慰的是，這些得到了兒子的認(rèn)可。二、家庭放在第一位作為媽媽，我認(rèn)為家庭是第一位的。在兒子較小時，我盡量不加班，如必須出差，我會優(yōu)化行程時間，即便凌晨或是深夜，我都會爭取當(dāng)日去當(dāng)日返，以便給兒子更多的陪伴。三、營造健康和諧的家庭氛圍我不認(rèn)為男人應(yīng)該比女人少承擔(dān)家庭責(zé)任，但事實總是并非所愿。夫妻兩個人應(yīng)該合理安排工作時間和家庭生 活，我和先生分擔(dān)家務(wù)，包括陪孩子玩，但我們總會擠出一段三人為伴的共享時光，這個非常重要。我們家的氛圍比較輕松愉快，我較少干預(yù)兒子，但教育目的非常 清晰：讓他將來有能力做自己喜歡的事，健康的生活。四、建立母愛新原則我對兒子的愛是“了解、理解、尊重”。了解，不同年齡階段孩子的發(fā)育特點；理解，孩子每個行為背后的誘因；尊重，孩子的選擇和決定。我們需要把孩子當(dāng)成一個獨立的人，給他一定的自主權(quán)，讓他在規(guī)則內(nèi)感到自由、安全和信任，讓孩子在愛中慢慢成長。五、陪孩子做他喜歡的事與兒子在一起的時候，我會根據(jù)兒子的興趣，選擇他喜歡的事情陪他一起做。那時，我們更像是朋友。兒子小時候非常喜歡聽故事，我就經(jīng)常給他講，我繪聲繪色 的講解、夸張的動作、表情和語調(diào)會感染到他。我還會利用一切合適的機會重復(fù)這個過程，比如候診室、候機大廳、游戲環(huán)節(jié)中、公園里，還會借此邀請其他小伙伴 一起加入。六、愿意堅持一生的事至今，每晚我做的最后一件事仍是給兒子的睡前陪伴。睡前，一起聽音樂、說故事、做撫觸等等。孩子大了可以不做全身撫觸，但最好堅持每天推背，小時候半小時，大了可能就三到五分鐘。然后，與兒子擁抱、道晚安，并輕輕地告訴他：“媽媽愛 你！”每天早上兒子出門上學(xué)時，我一定會將他送到門口，跟兒子擁抱后說再見。每年，我會組織一次家庭旅行。這些是我愿意一生堅持的事情而不僅僅是流于形式 或說教，它們已經(jīng)成為我和兒子精神層面的活動，讓我們雙方都能感受到“愛的力量”。A “mother”, need a good attitudeWe gave birth to their children, it must shoulder the stay at home at 7 months pregnant, in the 2 year old son, 4 months after the return to the workplace in growth stage son childhood has my pany!Now, son of 17 years old, I have no regrets for children39。s the son is not perfect, :/// but I tried to do her duty, I am pleased to say, the son has been , the family in the first placeAs a mother, I think that the family is the son is small, I try not to work overtime, such as travel, I will optimize the travel time, even if the early morning or late at night, I will fight for the day to day return, in order to give him , create a healthy and harmonious family atmosphereI don39。t think that a man should bear family responsibility less than women, but the fact is not people of husband and wife should be a reasonable arrangement of work and family life, my husband and I share the housework, including to acpany their children to play, but we will always make a three friends sharing time,:/// this is very family atmosphere is relaxed and happy, my son less intervention, but the educational purpose is very clear: he will have the ability to do what one likes, healthy , the establishment of a new principle of loveI love him is “understanding, understanding, respect”.Understanding, developmental characteristics of children in different age stages。understand the cause behind the children, every behavior。respect for children, choice and need to put children as an independent person, give him some autonomy, let him feel free,:/// security and trust in the rules, let the children grow up slowly in , to acpany the child to do what he when my son together, I will according to his interest, he likes things to acpany him to that time, we are more like of a small time likes to listen to stories very much, I often tell him, I hit off explanation, exaggerated gestures, facial expressions and intonation could infect will use all the right opportunity to repeat this process, such as the waiting room, waiting hall, the game,:/// the park, but also to invite other small partners to , to adhere to a far, every night the last thing I do is to son bedtime going to bed together, listen to music, storytelling, massage and so child can not do the whole body m