【正文】 o the is reported that a lot of “prodigy” is the result of extensive knowledge and experience of their is that old people make full use of their knowledge and experience to guide the children,so the grandchildren can broaden their horizon and get a lot that may not gain from is more,this is still beneficial to the parents are busy with their work, they just have no some even do not know how to teach this time, the grandparents can relieve parents39。 ,these young parents could concentrate on the can provide better economic conditions for the but not least,it is beneficial to grandparents , not only can reduce loneliness,but also make the old feel them games with grandchildren help the elderly stay healthy and positive attitude of of intergenerational educationalNo one can doubt the love of grandparents on grandchildren, but for children, parents are irreplaceable, parentchild relationship is the most , intergenerational education has a rational side, but in general, disadvantages aregreater than lead to spoiledGrandparents tend to spoil the children more than their parents, overindulgent and acmodate are unfavorable to the child39。s habits, personality development and skills elderly people often have a psychological pensation, they usually want to give what they now own to their grandchildren that maybe never give their own children because of this kind of love is often very easy to bee unprincipled acmodation and are afraid that the children may tumble or lose,they help to do everything which is very unfavorable for the child39。s Cause parentchild relationship to estrangementThe children live with the grandparents,they have been used to shield and acmodation,they do what they want but never be when parents see their children39。s shortings and deficiencies, they will propose strict requirements, the children will be very difficult to accept, so it will probably cause conflict and emotions between the formation of that the normal and necessary education bee difficult。What39。s more, when parents strictly require or punisha child, grandparents tend to intervene, which lead the children can not be corrected in children do not know the intention of their parents, and just feel bad for their the long run, it is very vulnerable to cause parentchild relationship to Cause educational divergence in family educationThere are many differences in social experience, education level, background and lifestyle between Grandparents and parents , which led to the education of two generations will have many two different educational methods also arises, if they do not municate effectively , then it will easily lead to educational , if a family can not have an effective unified approach to education, then the child will not know what to Affect the healthy growth of childrenUnder the protection of grandparents, prone to two extremes: one extreme is the timid, alienation, adaptability is poor, introverted。Another extreme is the strong, domineering, difficult to manage, outward, These are all shows that the intergenerational education are likely to cause adverse effects for their children39。s habits, personality , ability and other aspectsSummaryBased on the analysis of the intergenerational education, we know thatintergenerational education have two the disadvantages far outweigh the positive talk about education, ultimately es down to kids, what is the best way to the children? How can it be best to develop their abilities?This is worth thinking , based on the reality of crossgenerational education in China today, how should we do? Of course, we can not regard it as a scourge, we can not blame all the problems to intergenerational education, Certainly we can notignore and avoid its drawbacks, we should take a more positive is to say, play intergenerational educational advantages, to overe the negative the children a more happy and healthy :[1]Margot fitzpatrickamp。Patricia reeve(2003),Grandparents raising grandchildrena new class of disadvantaged Institute of Family Studies.[2][J].,31(2):12212